In our house, we prefer to abstain from meat on Fridays. We are cognizant that other forms of Penance are available and at times have utilized them. We understand that the emphasis on Friday is Penance and remembrance of our Lord’s crucifixion. In the changing of this discipline, the Church sought to educate us about the purpose of this discipline. When an abstinence from meat results in a dinner of swordfish, lobster and shr(name removed by moderator), can this meal be approached as penitential?
Our critics in speaking about changed doctrine have always confused doctrine with disciplines as some would confuse salvation with redemption. In some cases, simple dialogue might resolve the issues and in other cases, one just has to realize that the confusion is nothing more than an unsubstantiated cheap shot.