Meatless Fridays throughout the year may return to the United States

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Its one thing if you have a health reason that prevents you from abstaining from meat. You should not forsake your health for a religious practice.

If you can do so without harming your health, 1 day per week meatless won’t harm most Catholics anyways. As I also mentioned earlier, we should also do something penitential like go to Confession, spiritual reading, and/or even do some work of charity.
 
Long, long overdue.
Why?

There’s nothing stopping anyone from abstaining from meat on Fridays now. Why do you see a benefit in imposing it on others?

I remember a conversation I had with a priest about holy days of obligation. In general he is much more conservative than I am. I said I liked having holy days of obligation and didn’t understand dispensing them when they fell on Saturdays or Mondays. He thought they should all be done away with or moved to Sundays. He asked, “why give people yet another opportunity to sin by missing Mass?”

Would eating meat on Friday be an occasion of sin for people who choose to do so? What is the benefit of giving them another opportunity to sin? Is it worth it?
 
I agree. Not talking about maryjk in particular. I’m talking about the principle in general. The Church has done this before and can do it again. I see no problem with it. And of course, person-by-person things are none of my business and should be handled between the person and their priest.
Thank you. That is a complete turn around from your first statement that somehow indicated that if someone had a problem with it, they somehow didn’t value their faith. When it is simply that they don’t have the life you do. They instead live their lives.

I have never stated that I couldn’t do it. I can. But it would be a nightmare. I would stop traveling on Fridays. Something I already do during Lent. I can’t always pack my lunch, and trying to find something that I can eat that is meatless, while out is very difficult.

I would probably also change my work hours on Friday, for the same reason as above.

It would cause issues that I would have to deal with. Yes, they can be dealt with, but they are issues nonetheless.
 
Would eating meat on Friday be an occasion of sin for people who choose to do so? What is the benefit of giving them another opportunity to sin? Is it worth it?
Really? The “the less rules you have, the less people sin if they do nothing, so if you make more rules, the extra sins are your fault” argument?

Extra requirements are extra means of grace for each of us. We all (especially in this country) need to have more practice in obedience. If people would purposly forego requirements because they are a tiny bit inconvenient, like spending a couple of extra hours at church per year, then this attitude will be showing itself in their lives in other ways as well. They will already be sinning as a result of this attitude, every day.

–Jen
 
Would eating meat on Friday be an occasion of sin for people who choose to do so? What is the benefit of giving them another opportunity to sin? Is it worth it?
I’m not sure this argument is worth much. Many, or most, of the Catholics in this country who otherwise don’t do what the Church tells them to are blinded by their ignorance, how that ignorance came to be notwithstanding. If meatless Fridays were to be returned to, these people would likely not be sinning mortally by not doing it–venially perhaps–since they are ignorant, just as they are not likely sinning when they do a multitude of other things which are imposed not by conscience but by ecclesiastical law.
 
Excuses. It’s all about what a person values.
The biggest problem I see is that it used to be the case that secular businesses understood they had to provide fish or meatless dishes on Fridays if they wanted Catholic customers. Now Friday is more likely to be Prime Rib night at the restaurant than fish night. It will take the secular world a while to adjust to non-meat-eaters on Fridays.

I would not have a big problem with meatless Fridays because I usually try to eat meatless whenever I can. But I do have fish and cheese/ pasta/salad hating family members who would need some time to adjust.

The one thing I find interesting is that clam chowder has remained the Friday soup of choice in many restaurants, even while Catholics ate other meat dishes. I don’t eat clams because I don’t like clam chowder and I tend to get an upset stomach when I eat them in other forms. But there must be a lot of people out there who do want clam chowder on Fridays.
 
Thank you. That is a complete turn around from your first statement that somehow indicated that if someone had a problem with it, they somehow didn’t value their faith. When it is simply that they don’t have the life you do. They instead live their lives.

I have never stated that I couldn’t do it. I can. But it would be a nightmare. I would stop traveling on Fridays. Something I already do during Lent. I can’t always pack my lunch, and trying to find something that I can eat that is meatless, while out is very difficult.

I would probably also change my work hours on Friday, for the same reason as above.

It would cause issues that I would have to deal with. Yes, they can be dealt with, but they are issues nonetheless.
It’s not hard to find something meatless to eat, it’s awesome! 🙂 You just need one of those 12 hour bags…I got mine at Amazon. They’re divided, and insulated on both sides, to keep things cold (or warm). I daily pack cheese sticks, apples, pears, bananas, nuts of all kinds (my favorties are the soy sauce/wasabi almonds and dark chocolate dusted almonds), leftovers in those small containers, or cans of tuna, tomatoes, snap peas, I slice up a cucumber and put that in a baggy either the night before the the morning of, you can pack cereal, yogurt, soups. You can stick a clif bar or two in there as well. My coworkers sometimes dip into the bag 😉

I know what you mean about not having time though, because even though I think I am well prepared, I very frequently don’t get to dip into the bag for several hours 😦 Having smaller finger foods to snack on every 2-3 hours helps, but sometimes I don’t have time for that…though that is a bit easier than sitting down for a half hour.
 
I have never stated that I couldn’t do it. I can. But it would be a nightmare. I would stop traveling on Fridays. Something I already do during Lent. I can’t always pack my lunch, and trying to find something that I can eat that is meatless, while out is very difficult.
I assume from this that your dietary restructions are pretty serious. I’m sure that rather than causing a “nightmare” it would be quite possible to go to your pastor and get a dispensation. I’m sure it would be no trouble.

As for travelling, I must admit that it was weird one year when I was on TAP (Portuguese arline) on a Friday in Lent and there was no meatless choice. I mean, I could have called ahead and asked for one, but it just never occurred to me that it would be necessary on the state airline of a predominantly Catholic country. But if you don’t have dietary restrictions, you can get by well enough by eating all the bits except the meat.

But for 99% of Catholics, it would be mostly an inconvenience. It’s the people who are like, “I just don’t wanna,” where the response is, “well, that’s why it’s referred to as penitential. That word doesn’t mean, ‘having to do with pencils,’ you know.” 🙂

–Jen
 
II slice up a cucumber and put that in a baggy either the night before the the morning of
If you fill the container with cold water, you can cut up cucumbers for even three days at a time with no problem. Then just scoop them out into a baggy each morning. I find that a timesaver.

Sorry for the off-topic post, but I found it really handy when I discovered it. 🙂

–Jen
 
I just read through nine pages of this thread…did anyone actually go to the link and read Cardinal Dolans address? How is it that we as Catholics have lost the knowledge that through the Sacrament of Reconcilliation we are RENEWED, that that is where we start evangelizing, through a renewal of our own hearts…on our knees as sinners, admitting we are sinners, it is the way we change the world…WOW!! Fasting and Penance and Prayer…does anyone recognize the merits of these things?
 
It’s not hard to find something meatless to eat, it’s awesome! 🙂
That is really just a matter of opinion. What you see as awesome, I don’t. Doesn’t make either of us right or wrong, just having different opinions.
You just need one of those 12 hour bags…I got mine at Amazon. They’re divided, and insulated on both sides, to keep things cold (or warm). I daily pack cheese sticks, apples, pears, bananas, nuts of all kinds (my favorties are the soy sauce/wasabi almonds and dark chocolate dusted almonds), leftovers in those small containers, or cans of tuna, tomatoes, snap peas, I slice up a cucumber and put that in a baggy either the night before the the morning of, you can pack cereal, yogurt, soups. You can stick a clif bar or two in there as well. My coworkers sometimes dip into the bag 😉
Again, that this is a good option is an opinion.
I know what you mean about not having time though, because even though I think I am well prepared, I very frequently don’t get to dip into the bag for several hours 😦 Having smaller finger foods to snack on every 2-3 hours helps, but sometimes I don’t have time for that…though that is a bit easier than sitting down for a half hour.
Again I will say, if the Church says we need to have meatless Fridays I will abide by their decision. I will figure it out. I will change what I do, including travel and work hours.

My point is, that simply because I will have to change what I do, because it won’t be easy for me, doesn’t mean that I don’t value my faith. Or that my faith is somehow lacking. It means that I have Celiac, no wheat, rye, barley or oats. That I have Lupus, no energy. And putting one more thing in my day, is a nightmare. But yes, I will figure it out.
 
Sounds great to me! I hope we do indeed re-institute meatless Fridays year-round.

The Latin Church (in the U.S.) needs something like this desperately. Too many Latin Catholics here don’t practice any regular abstinence or fasting; so much for, “When I am gone, then they will fast.”
I would have no issue with the return of the meatless Fridays all year round with the exception of the day after Thanksgiving and if Xmas Eve or Day falls on a Friday as those days are traditionally meat filled meal days for many. Also, there should be more emphasis on penitence on Fridays of the year, perhaps with chances for people to do things like Adoration, Confession, or Stations of the Cross.
Quick note: we wouldn’t need a dispensation to eat meat on a Friday Christmas; universal canon law for the Latin Church already says across the board that abstinence doesn’t apply on solemnities. 🙂
I would agree. Several generations of American Catholics have only abstained from meat on Friday’s during Lent. As I said earlier in this thread, as a revert, this past Lent was hard enough for me. I cann’t imagine how hard it will be for cradle Cathoics to all of a sudden give up their 4th of July BBQ’s or having a cheeseburger during their local HS football game.
This is why we need to be challenged more by our bishops. We’re so accustomed to basically no abstinence or fasting, and that’s not a good thing spiritually.

Trust me, garn, we can handle it. You know what the practice is in the Eastern Orthodox churches? Well, it varies by individual in consultation with his or her priest, but the standard for which they strive if they can includes abstaining every Wednesday and Friday from meat, dairy, eggs, fish, alcohol, and olive oil. And during special fasting seasons, they abstain at least from meat, eggs, and dairy (and often more) for days in a row at a time. During Lent, they abstain from all of the above all the week long, and even on Lenten weekends animal products are still not allowed (just alcohol and olive oil). The only thing a devout Orthodox Christian who is striving to follow the full challenge would eat at a typical Catholic fish fry would be the baked potato - plain.

Given the inspiring example of our eastern brethren, would it really be so much to ask that Latin Catholics as a group abstain from meat on Fridays?
Yep, that’s it. If it will be difficult to give up meat on Friday’s then those people just don’t value their faith. Shame on them. :rolleyes:

Maybe it could be that they are already on a restricted diet. Maybe they work at a place that provides their meal, but doesn’t offer a meatless option. Maybe they travel every Friday and finding something meatless, that they can eat is hard to find.

There can be so many reasons. But somehow you jump on their perceived lack of faith.
Mary, of course there can be many valid reasons. But charity trumps law every time; that is a basic Catholic principle, so such an individual could and should always be able to get a dispensation in a way conducive to his or her spiritual growth. You have indicated that you have Celiac’s and Lupus, and no one should judge you; judging others would obliterate any spiritual benefit from one’s own fasting, anyway.

It is for such difficult situations that dispensations exist, and no one should ever judge anyone else’s fasting.

But for most Latin Catholics, who don’t suffer from such conditions, the inconvenience is part of what makes regular Friday abstinence spiritually beneficial, part of what makes it a sacrifice.
Why?

There’s nothing stopping anyone from abstaining from meat on Fridays now. Why do you see a benefit in imposing it on others?
Two reasons, at least.

(a) Making it a requirement makes it a public matter rather than an individual private devotion, and throughout Christian history, fasting and/or abstinence has often been considered essential. I feel that the Church has a duty to ensure that we have a special sense of our sacred obligation to do penance, especially on Fridays. Do you honestly think that the current policy fosters a sense of public, regular penance for most Latin Catholics in the U.S.? Of course not. That could change; there is great value in the Church making it public, official, communal - all of us united in the penance to which we are required.

(b) Many Latin Catholics, as things now stand in the U.S., don’t do any kind of fasting or abstinence outside Lent. But fasting and penance are crucial parts of the Christian spiritual life. Instituting it as a weekly requirement would help motivate us to make such things a part of our life regularly, which can only be good. Sometimes people need a little extra push/motivation; that’s not bad, it’s just human nature. And, as I mentioned above, for most people meatless Fridays is hardly too much to ask.

I would feel much better about the penitential atmosphere of the Latin Church if we reinstituted Ember Days as well.
Would eating meat on Friday be an occasion of sin for people who choose to do so? What is the benefit of giving them another opportunity to sin? Is it worth it?
Well, yes, I think it is worth it. As I said, penance and fasting/abstinence are crucial in the Christian spiritual life. I know that it should be an individual’s responsibility, but our bishops have a responsibility in encouraging it, too. The current rules do not encourage it at all.
 
Speaking of the Sacrament of Penance in his “Address given at the USCCB General Assembly Fall meeting on November 12, 2012,” Timothy Cardinal Dolan says:

See usccb.org/about/leadership/usccb-general-assembly/2012-november-meeting/presidential-address-cardinal-dolan.cfm

I do hope this happens. It is quite difficult for me personally to remember to do Friday penance throughout the year, including during Lent, for two reasons:
  1. In my experience there is no culture of penance. It is relegated to being “that thing we do during Lent” and it is not mentioned from the pulpit at Sunday Mass here. However, it is printed in my parish’s bulletin that we must abstain and fast as required during Lent. I do not think a return to meatless Fridays throughout the year will suddenly solve our problems, but I do think it will remind us of our obligations to do Friday penance and make it much easier to remember since there will only be one way of doing it. I believe there are many Catholics who don’t even know they are required to do a penance every Friday. I think a large part of the success of this, if it happens, will be whether we make it a part of regular parish culture or not. Think Friday fish fries, which are common in some places during Lent. I think making a practice such as this a staple of parish life every Friday or one Friday a month would contribute hugely to the success of a reinstatement of meatless Fridays throughout the year for parishes where something like this is feasible.
  2. In my experience the whys and wherefores of doing penance are not really discussed. I do know why we do it, but it is easy to forget or overlook. This might be a symptom of the expectation that Catholics already know why we do it, I don’t know. Regardless, if this comes to happen, I think the reasons should be regularly discussed and reminders should be frequently given; in the context of the Friday fish fry tradition, someone in the parish could compose a short but powerful prayer appropriate to the theme of penance which could be prayed at every such event. This could also contribute to a strengthening of parish identity.
I am in full support of a return to meatless Fridays.

What are your thoughts? What would contribute to the success of a return to such a practice? What is your personal experience?
Not only would it bolster the fishing industry in the US but, if taught properly, will instill in Catholics that sense of being different, of being set apart from the rest of the culture.

I observe it now. I would like to see it reinstated with proper catechesis.
 
Thank you. That is a complete turn around from your first statement that somehow indicated that if someone had a problem with it, they somehow didn’t value their faith. When it is simply that they don’t have the life you do. They instead live their lives.

I have never stated that I couldn’t do it. I can. But it would be a nightmare. I would stop traveling on Fridays. Something I already do during Lent. I can’t always pack my lunch, and trying to find something that I can eat that is meatless, while out is very difficult.

I would probably also change my work hours on Friday, for the same reason as above.

It would cause issues that I would have to deal with. Yes, they can be dealt with, but they are issues nonetheless.
That’s NOT a complete turnaround from what I said previously. I was speaking generally then too. And I still ask the question, all things considered, if people can’t be bothered with this: "Could that be an indicator of how much they value their faith? "
 
I’m not sure this argument is worth much. Many, or most, of the Catholics in this country who otherwise don’t do what the Church tells them to are blinded by their ignorance, how that ignorance came to be notwithstanding. If meatless Fridays were to be returned to, these people would likely not be sinning mortally by not doing it–venially perhaps–since they are ignorant, just as they are not likely sinning when they do a multitude of other things which are imposed not by conscience but by ecclesiastical law.
Using that reasoning, why have any rules at all? Heck, why bother with Church? Or the bible? Or anything at all?

Because all of these things have more intrinsic value than any of the other things we might do in the same period of time with the same energy. Because some things are irreducible parts of Christianity and the rest, such as penance, support those irreducible parts of Christianity, YoungTradCatholic. That’s why.
 
Why?

There’s nothing stopping anyone from abstaining from meat on Fridays now. Why do you see a benefit in imposing it on others?

I remember a conversation I had with a priest about holy days of obligation. In general he is much more conservative than I am. I said I liked having holy days of obligation and didn’t understand dispensing them when they fell on Saturdays or Mondays. He thought they should all be done away with or moved to Sundays. He asked, “why give people yet another opportunity to sin by missing Mass?”

Would eating meat on Friday be an occasion of sin for people who choose to do so? What is the benefit of giving them another opportunity to sin? Is it worth it?
Using that reasoning, why have any rules at all? Heck, why bother with Church? Or the bible? Or anything at all?

Because all of these things have more intrinsic value than any of the other things we might do in the same period of time with the same energy. Because some things are irreducible parts of Christianity and the rest, such as penance and mass attendance and holy days, support those irreducible parts of Christianity, SuscipeMeDomini. That’s why.
 
So, to anyone’s knowledge, has this been implemented? On Sunday, one of our priests told us that it was now a requirement, but this piqued my curiosity as to the reasoning, so I did a search online and couldn’t find anything to that effect.

My family and I have been practicing this for years, for the most part. I’ve made exceptions when we were visiting someone who would be serving us dinner, under the premise that it is rude to be particular about what is served when accepting someone’s hospitality. But, that was when it was my own rule – I wouldn’t imagine such an exception would be included if the bishops had in fact decreed this.
 
So, to anyone’s knowledge, has this been implemented? On Sunday, one of our priests told us that it was now a requirement, but this piqued my curiosity as to the reasoning, so I did a search online and couldn’t find anything to that effect.

My family and I have been practicing this for years, for the most part. I’ve made exceptions when we were visiting someone who would be serving us dinner, under the premise that it is rude to be particular about what is served when accepting someone’s hospitality. But, that was when it was my own rule – I wouldn’t imagine such an exception would be included if the bishops had in fact decreed this.
There is an obligation to perform some form of penance, with abstinance from meat the norm and the recommended minimum form of penance. There is not currently in the US an absolute requirement to abstain from meat on fridays outside of lent, however I think the bishops did recently request that everyone spend this next year in particular both abstaining and fasting on fridays for the sake of marriage, life, and religious freedom. It is still not an absolute obligation (so long as some other form of penance/act of charity etc is performed in its place) but it has been requested of us in a particular way.
 
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