Medical insurance and abortion

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Is it wrong to pay for medical insurance that covers elective abortions? contraceptives (abortafacients)? My dh just took a new job and our new health insurance has the above coverages. I am wondering if we should cancel it.
 
it is at most only remote cooperation with evil. You will be hard pressed to find a corporate insurance plan in this country that does not provide such coverage. You have no control over what the plan does for its other subscribers, you have no (name removed by moderator)ut to change the system, you can control only what procedures you ask them to pay for. I think this has been discussed on AAA before so a search might bring up the topic with the experts. You have to balance this agains the greater good of providing care for your own family which is part of your parental obligations. Should you or your husband someday be part of policy making for an employer, union etc. you can do what you can to influence such choices positively.
 
I’m not sure that carrying medical insurance is part of our parental obligation. We have not had medical insurance for myself or our 4 children for the past three years because the costs of the premiums were so high. We pay out of pocket for all expenses. I have looked at it as trusting God rather than irresponsibility.

But with my dh’s new job, we can get the medical coverage for the whole family at a very reasonable price. BUT if we are being complicit with evil by doing so, I am willing to go back to paying out of pocket for our medical necessities.

Some have told me we have been irresponsible–what if you got cancer? had a bad accident? etc, etc, etc. I think we in this country have blindly fallen into the health insurance mandatum–how could NOT think of having medical insurance? I think it’s at least open to debate.
 
I’m not sure that carrying medical insurance is part of our parental obligation. We have not had medical insurance for myself or our 4 children for the past three years because the costs of the premiums were so high. We pay out of pocket for all expenses. I have looked at it as trusting God rather than irresponsibility.

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I don’t know that carrying insurance specifically is part of your parental obligation, but paying for their medical care in the most prudential way certainly is. If you can self-insure great, but that does not make it immoral for families who need it to accept it from their employer or pay for part of it, even if the plan happens to cover, for others, procedures that are questionable. If you extend them moral reasoning to this extent you should also be prepared to stay out of pharmacies that sell contraceptives, hospitals that perform such procedures and the like, nearly impossible to do these days.
 
If one rejects this insurance as co-operating with evil, how can one justify paying taxes?
In each case the money you pay is used for both good things and bad things.
Yet we pay taxes and do not deny ourselves of the good benefits avialable from those taxes.

Same thing with this insurance. Signing up for the insurance does not promote evil or cooperate with it. Plus you don’t have to make use of any benefit you do not wish to. BUT you can take advantage of the benifits that are good and free up more monies for other and even more direct spiritual and charitable works.

Peace
James
 
A good friend of mine has a husband who is 50. He watches what he eats, works out daily, and is in great shape. He had a heart attack, despite doing “everything right”. Once he was done with all the hospitalization, testing, etc., his bill was over $50,000.

My own DH, who died 6 weeks ago, was in the hospital for several weeks. I have received statements from all the doctors, labs, hospice, etc, and it was over $50,000.

Thank GOD insurance covered all but the deductible for this. So we did trust God…and thank Him that we have insurance.

You can never predict what will happen - severe illness, broken bones, etc.

If you try to avoid every place and every thing that supports evil in some way, you will probably be a hermit in a cabin on a mountain somewhere, off the grid, so to speak.
 
Some have told me we have been irresponsible–what if you got cancer? had a bad accident? etc, etc, etc. I think we in this country have blindly fallen into the health insurance mandatum–how could NOT think of having medical insurance? I think it’s at least open to debate.
If you have the resources to pay for any amount of medical care your family might ever need then go ahead and don’t buy the insurance available to you. Or alternately, if you will only accept the amount of care you can pay for regardless of the consequences of doing so, then go ahead and decline the insurance coverage. Are you aware that a diagnosis of leukemia in a child can cost **hundreds of thousands **of dollars for treatment? Treatment for a severe burn can easily reach half a million. Are you willing to cut off treatment when you reach your limit?

Just don’t depend on taxpayers or any other person who pays into the insurance pool to pay extra down the road because you run out of money and incur a debt you can’t pay. To consider forgoing insurance because of a remote cooperation with evil is like being penny wise and pound foolish IMO. Sorry if I seem harsh but there are so many people in this world who would give anything to have the opportunity you have. And there are so many people like me who pay big bucks for insurance in part because of people who can’t or won’t protect themselves from medical calamity but still show up at the hospital expecting and receiving treatment they can’t pay for.
 
A good friend of mine has a husband who is 50. He watches what he eats, works out daily, and is in great shape. He had a heart attack, despite doing “everything right”. Once he was done with all the hospitalization, testing, etc., his bill was over $50,000.

My own DH, who died 6 weeks ago, was in the hospital for several weeks. I have received statements from all the doctors, labs, hospice, etc, and it was over $50,000.

Thank GOD insurance covered all but the deductible for this. So we did trust God…and thank Him that we have insurance.

You can never predict what will happen - severe illness, broken bones, etc.

If you try to avoid every place and every thing that supports evil in some way, you will probably be a hermit in a cabin on a mountain somewhere, off the grid, so to speak.
yes and this fact about what Ins Company’s cover;(which in good conscience, we should never accept for ourselves) is what many opponents of government health care programs use as a wedge in their fight against basic care for the very needy. The government has worked more to get rid of using our funds for abortion than the insurance companys have,in my opinion. Peace, Carlan
 
Completely agree with Momor. You cannot predict the future - you do NOT know who will get sick, get injured, etc. You cannot prevent things from happening.

I had a car accident earlier this year…the other guy suddenly turned in front of me with NO WARNING. Insurance (the other guy’s car and medical) is allowing my injured neck and shoulder to be treated even now. Without insurance, I would not have been able to pay for treatment, and instead would have suffered even more than I did.

I know a family whose son was diagnosed with cancer at age 17. He was a star athlete at his school, and suddenly had a very sore leg - thought it was a pulled muscle from sports. Turns out it was a tumor. He died this year at age 20. You think THEY’RE medical bills were small?!?

Be smart and get insurance.
 
It’s really stinks that so many insurance plans cover such evils as abortion.

You need insurance, and since it’s not likely that you can find a plan that doesn’t cover such evil, don’t worry about it. I don’t even think it’s a minor evil, in particular because there is no other option!
 
Wow, am I the only one who’s ever asked or been concerned about this issue?:confused: I think we have a couple huge problems in our society:
  1. a sense of entitlement to health care beyond basic needs: the over-testing, over-treating and over-prescribing is the result of this demand
  2. medical expenses due to failure to care for one’s self: obesity, addictions, recklessness–all the the illnesses that result from these
  3. people think they should live forever: maybe chemotherapy isn’t the necessity we seem to think it is
In the three years our family has been without health insurance (except my dh who had it at a reasonable cost through his employer), neither I nor my children ever went to a doctor. There were many occasions when I suppose the “typical” family would have gone off to the doctor for what we treated at home.

Last April one of my son’s broke his arm. It was very interesting being a “self-pay” patient, and I learned just a little bit to identify with the poor in this country–one bonus of having no insurance right there.

Then he was mis-treated by the orthopaedist and ended up needing surgery. We do have thousands of dollars in medical bills to pay and are seeking a judgment against this doctor to recover the costs. I think that had we had insurance I wouldn’t have been so concerned to fight for justice against this doctor. But I think it is another way our family has been called to address the injustice, to bring about a change in that practice with a hope that others will not be harmed as my son has.

We have accepted no public monies so your pocketbooks are safe from us. I have negotiated with every doctor and hospital we have been at to pay the amount they would claim from insurance (about 40% of what they bill) and arranged payments for what we could not pay right away. If we don’t recover any of the money from the orthopaedist, we will be paying for several years.

When this issue came up about finding abortion coverage on our new health insurance I wondered if God might be calling us to further sacrifice, to forgo insurance and trust him to give us what we need. I wondered if we’re being called to say, “This is wrong and we will not be party to it in any way.”

Maybe I am just being foolish. I don’t know. That’s why I posed my question here.
 
I once tried Googling “health insurance without abortion”. I was surprised to find there is no such thing.

It seems like the Knights of Columbus, the USCCB or some other large Catholic group could pull together enough people to come up with such a policy…
 
My baby was a preemie. Thank God we had insurance. I believe at his release, the bill was $72,000. Without insurance we would have probably gone bankrupt. We would not have qualified for assistance.

As for “identifying with poor”, Baby was born in a county hospital. Many of his room-mates were poor. While the hospital helped them, I’m sure, we did not qualify for assistance. We were not poor.
 
I think you and your husband have every right to follow your principles as long as you don’t cost me money in doing so. The state however, is not going to let you decline treatment you can’t pay for for your minor children, so if you decide against insurance please be ready to pay any amount you might incur on their behalf.

Keep in mind that any money you might win from a malpractice suit is going to raise the costs to the doctors covered by that insurance and will be passed on to their patients, so I hope you will not sue for more than your out of pocket costs.

I will say a prayer that you and your family will never fall off the narrow ledge you seem to want to stand on.
 
Wow, am I the only one who’s ever asked or been concerned about this issue?:confused: I think we have a couple huge problems in our society:
  1. a sense of entitlement to health care beyond basic needs: the over-testing, over-treating and over-prescribing is the result of this demand
  2. medical expenses due to failure to care for one’s self: obesity, addictions, recklessness–all the the illnesses that result from these
  3. people think they should live forever: maybe chemotherapy isn’t the necessity we seem to think it is
In the three years our family has been without health insurance (except my dh who had it at a reasonable cost through his employer), neither I nor my children ever went to a doctor. There were many occasions when I suppose the “typical” family would have gone off to the doctor for what we treated at home.

Last April one of my son’s broke his arm. It was very interesting being a “self-pay” patient, and I learned just a little bit to identify with the poor in this country–one bonus of having no insurance right there.

Then he was mis-treated by the orthopaedist and ended up needing surgery. We do have thousands of dollars in medical bills to pay and are seeking a judgment against this doctor to recover the costs. I think that had we had insurance I wouldn’t have been so concerned to fight for justice against this doctor. But I think it is another way our family has been called to address the injustice, to bring about a change in that practice with a hope that others will not be harmed as my son has.

We have accepted no public monies so your pocketbooks are safe from us. I have negotiated with every doctor and hospital we have been at to pay the amount they would claim from insurance (about 40% of what they bill) and arranged payments for what we could not pay right away. If we don’t recover any of the money from the orthopaedist, we will be paying for several years.

When this issue came up about finding abortion coverage on our new health insurance I wondered if God might be calling us to further sacrifice, to forgo insurance and trust him to give us what we need. I wondered if we’re being called to say, “This is wrong and we will not be party to it in any way.”

Maybe I am just being foolish. I don’t know. That’s why I posed my question here.
I personally believe that if more people took this approach to health care the overall cost would come down.

Just my :twocents:
 
I do think it is irresponsible to not have health insurance (I’m in Canada, it’s state-run and compulsory).

Keep in mind one may be fit now. One usually (but not always) needs the insurance later in life. And by then, pre-existing conditions can make it impossible to obtain insurance.

The issue with over-testing, etc, has nothing to do with a sense of entitlement and everything to do with CYA by doctors afraid of being sued. And that largely has to do with the way laws work in the US and the large jury payouts when patients win lawsuits.

Get the insurance. It drives me nuts when people say “God will provide”. God will provide, provided you cooperate and do your part. You can’t stand in the middle of the road in front of a speeding bus and just say “God will protect me”. He provides by giving you the means to get out of the way. Similarly, He will provide as long as you do your part and make use of the tools His society has put at your disposal.
 
Wow, am I the only one who’s ever asked or been concerned about this issue?:confused: I think we have a couple huge problems in our society:
  1. a sense of entitlement to health care beyond basic needs: the over-testing, over-treating and over-prescribing is the result of this demand
  2. medical expenses due to failure to care for one’s self: obesity, addictions, recklessness–all the the illnesses that result from these
  3. people think they should live forever: maybe chemotherapy isn’t the necessity we seem to think it is
In the three years our family has been without health insurance (except my dh who had it at a reasonable cost through his employer), neither I nor my children ever went to a doctor. There were many occasions when I suppose the “typical” family would have gone off to the doctor for what we treated at home.

Last April one of my son’s broke his arm. It was very interesting being a “self-pay” patient, and I learned just a little bit to identify with the poor in this country–one bonus of having no insurance right there.

Then he was mis-treated by the orthopaedist and ended up needing surgery. We do have thousands of dollars in medical bills to pay and are seeking a judgment against this doctor to recover the costs. I think that had we had insurance I wouldn’t have been so concerned to fight for justice against this doctor. But I think it is another way our family has been called to address the injustice, to bring about a change in that practice with a hope that others will not be harmed as my son has.

We have accepted no public monies so your pocketbooks are safe from us. I have negotiated with every doctor and hospital we have been at to pay the amount they would claim from insurance (about 40% of what they bill) and arranged payments for what we could not pay right away. If we don’t recover any of the money from the orthopaedist, we will be paying for several years.

When this issue came up about finding abortion coverage on our new health insurance I wondered if God might be calling us to further sacrifice, to forgo insurance and trust him to give us what we need. I wondered if we’re being called to say, “This is wrong and we will not be party to it in any way.”

Maybe I am just being foolish. I don’t know. That’s why I posed my question here.
Maybe you are! Did you hear that prudence is a cardinal virtue? You are supposed to trust in God but not to test him. Did you hear that you have free will and that you can refuse services that you consider immoral? As Catholics we are supposed to be obedient but obedience in the Church also implies use of reason. I think that you should talk to a spiritual adviser, because it seems to me that you are threading with scrupulosity. I understand your intention of not doing evil; however, there is not way to avoid indirect collaboration in evil at all times. Evil does exist because God allows for it, just remember that there is always a greater good coming out of every evil.
 
faith or tempting God; courage or foolhardiness . . . sometimes the lines aren’t so clear

I think I will talk this over with my priest. He’s the one who advised us to take legal action against the orthopaedist. He actually said we are obligated to do so to practice the virtue of justice.

I don’t hold with arguments about money. It’s a moral issue.
 
Great, a doctor makes a mistake (they are human) and because the family does not have medical insurance, suing becomes “fight for justice” and saving others from future harm. And we wonder why we have problems with expensive health care in this country.
 
faith or tempting God; courage or foolhardiness . . . sometimes the lines aren’t so clear

I think I will talk this over with my priest. He’s the one who advised us to take legal action against the orthopaedist. He actually said we are obligated to do so to practice the virtue of justice.

I don’t hold with arguments about money. It’s a moral issue.
That’s good. Then you can sue for the morality of obtaining justice rather than money. Or if it requires money be obtained to insure justice you can donate it to a hospital to pay for indigent care right? 👍
 
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