Meeting with a priest

[Julie_de_Sales]

Very often, when I meet with a priest for spiritual direction I feel uncomfortable because he is offering me so much (his time, his prayer, his pieces of advice) and I have nothing to give him in return, except a “thank you” and showing my appreciation for what he does. For this reason, I have the impression that I always have to excuse myself for coming and for disturbing him.
How does a priest see spiritual direction? Is he just happy that he has the opportunity to help his parish and doesn’ t he expect anything in return? Should I just go and think that priests are there to help us and that it’s nothing wrong in seeking their advice?

 

[Ad_Orientem]

Receive the gift. It is part of his vocation.

While you’re at it, don’t forget to thank him for giving you the Blessed Sacrament and absolving you from your sins. What greater gifts could he give than these?

That said, priests are human too, get tired, make mistakes, and need our support and prayers.

 

[MJJean]

Receive the gift. It is part of his vocation.

While you’re at it, don’t forget to thank him for giving you the Blessed Sacrament and absolving you from your sins. What greater gifts could he give than these?

That said, priests are human too, get tired, make mistakes, and need our support and prayers.

Very true. Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Make sure your priest or any other spiritual adviser knows how grateful you are for their time and support. Offer to help in any way you can.

 

[hopeful01]

Pray for him too. That would be one great way to thank him.

 

[PTL]

You can always make some home made cookies or some dinner dishes for him to show your appreciation. Many priests have to cook for themselves. Cook a simple meal for them is always good unless you are told they don’t eat anything except their own cooking.