There are a couple of misconceptions in this thread.
- Most megachurches are not fundamentalist, they are evangelical. Big difference.
- Most evangelical churches do not allow dancing in the church. I see Catholics joke about this, and if you’re just joking, it’s OK. But if you honestly think that evangelicals dance in the aisles, you are incorrect.
- Megachurches exist to commercialize the Gospel (i.e., make money). On the contrary, many of the megachurches are big-time into charitable activities. The megachurch in our city organized and carried out the Katrina Aid Project–and our parish sent our youth group to help them out! It was a wonderful project involving millions of dollars of donated monies and thousands of people donating thousands of hours to help the victims of Katrina/Rita.
This megachurch recently spent thousands of dollars and involved several hundred people in helping clean up and remodel the PUBLIC schools in our city. These are just a few examples of the charitable things they get involved with.
So even though these church appear “wealthy,” they are giving the wealth away. And even though the pastors appear wealthy, in many of the megachurches, the Senior pastors receive no salary, but count on their books and personal speaking appearances for their personal income.
A megachurch is a tremendous risk for the pastors, as there is no denomination to help them out if they run into financial trouble.
Someone above asked why people go to megachurches. I had a conversation with a Protestant pastor (Evangelical Free Church in America) a year ago. **He said that these churches are great places to hide out and heal if you have been hurt by a church or by “Christians.” ** He said he is grateful for megachurches, because a lot of hurt Christians go to them for anonymity, and after a few years, they’re ready to come back to a traditional church again.
I think this is very possibly true. Evangelical churches can be exhausting to be involved with. When I was evangelical, I was involved with so many ministries that I was at church at least 5-6 days or evenings a week. (Often my children were with me, as my major ministries were children’s ministries.)
A lot of people simply burn out doing so much. In the past, these people just quit–stopped coming–stayed home and watched wrestling and real-estate shows on TV.
Now, they can quit, rest for a few months, and then head for the megachurch and let someone ELSE minister to THEM!
I can sympathize. Although I never burned out, I know plenty of evangelical Christians who did burn out.
And I’ll bet that a lot of Catholics who head to megachurches have been “hurt” in some way in the Catholic Church. God forbid, it might have been some kind of abuse. But more than likely, it’s just the routine conflicts that occur in any large family. Unfortunately, some people are more hurt by these conflicts than others. When they see a chance to leave, they take it.
The article that Erich posted is FANTASTIC!
I would also suggest that Catholic parishes really work on showing practical love to all parishioners. Try to become the “Friendliest Parish In Town,” not just hand-shaking friendly, but true, deep love friendly. Make sacrifices to reach out to your fellow parishioners. Love will stop people from heading for the megachurch.