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If I wanted to address the “state of his soul” I would have said so, so stop putting words in my mouth. You do not seem to have a hard time judging some of us, so what makes you so pious all of a sudden? I made it clear through other posts that I was working my way to addressing how we should love and support Christians who mess up and then get butchered by the media. Try reading all of my posts next time before you jump on your horse.
Whoa. Slow down there, padner.
You did ask about what we thought about the sincerity of his repentance. That did lead some to believe that you were asking us to speculate on the state of his soul. After all, sincerity of repentance is part and parcel of the state someone’s soul.
Now, that may not have been your intent, but that was how a few people interpreted it. You did clarify it later, but for some, speculating on a person’s behavior or some type of inner conversion is something we prefer to avoid.
Finally, remember that being judgmental has nothing to do with pointing the errors or sins of another person. Being judgmental is about speculating or making a conclusion about the state of a person’s soul. Accusations of judgmentalism are almost always both pejorative and wrong. Unless someone says you are evil, not what you do, but you yourself, or they say you are going to hell with no hope of redemption, then you can say a person is being judgmental.
If a person says to you, “What you are doing is wrong.” Or if they say, “what you are doing is placing your soul in jeopardy,” that is
NOT being judgmental. That is trying to offer correction; something all Christians are called upon to do.
I can understand how frustrating it is when someone misinterprets our intent. Sometimes these forums can seem like meat grinders. I only ask that you extend to those who appear to criticize you what you are asking for. Charity and respect.
I would also echo this request to all the posters here. It is very easy for people to misinterpret a reply and place a it in a negative light. I make this mistake myself from time to time. We all do.
I ask all of us to give each other the benefit of the doubt.
And that would include the illustrious Mr. Gibson.