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TheRealJuliane
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If the entire parish got together as one, and went to tell him that this is not on, he would shrug and say “Well, I think it is a good move.” He is one of the most immovable people I have ever heard of. He does what he thinks is right to do, no matter who opposes him, and no matter what the end result is. I know that he means well, and that he truly cares about the parish. But more people will leave because of this message.I am not saying that the pastor did not know what he was doing. I simply said that if you bring it up with him he might look at the scenario one more time and hopefully change his style. Sometime bringing up things in a charitable manner is giving the little nudge that people need in order to change. If you do that the priest can rationalize the whole thing and say to himself that he his changing what he is doing not because he is wrong (maybe nobody understood him) but because some people might be offended.