Actually my main issue isn’t really papal infallibility, but just the belief of the infallibility of the Church. The idea that the Catholic Church has all of the answers and truth, when I don’t believe any religion or Church has the complete truth.
Good afternoon, komeeks. As I am sure you know, the Catholic Church traces it’s lineage all the way back to Jesus Christ. The Church was founded by Christ, and is under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. We as Catholics have FAITH that the Holy Spirit will protect us from TEACHING error, TEACHING falsehood, and TEACHING the wrong things.
Some people share that faith, others don’t.
The Catholic Church isn’t like any other church there ever was. It really isn’t like any other instituion (church, or otherwise) at all. We believe that it is what it says that it is, and we take that on FAITH. Faith is really what Christianity is all about, isn’t it?
The Catholic Church has very strict rules for how Catholics are to live their lives and what’s defined as right and wrong.
Which rules might you have a problem with? I can’t think of any “rules” that aren’t grounded somewhere in Scripture. Fornication, homosexuality, abortion/murder are all condemned in Scripture, are they not?
If a church isn’t there to guide us and teach us what God expects from us, why belong to a church at all?
Plus, the whole Co-Redemptrix thing. There’s so many things I’ve come to doubt in the Church, because it seems to be violating Scripture.
There is another poster (ChrisB103 ~ no relation!

) who spoke a little about Mary and “the whole Co-Redemptrix thing”. I’m not a real big “Mary guy”, so I can’t respond as well as some of the other posters about her.
If I may share a personal story… my wife was raised as a hard core Pentecostal. That meant Bible camp, Sola Fide, Sola Scriptura, and all that jazz… She was recieved into the Catholic Church last March, and she loves it here.
She had some really hard questions for me that I could never have answered on my own. What helped her to understand our Faith was a priest at our parish who was absolutely brilliant, and gave her the answers and explanations she wanted. He didn’t “tell her what she wanted to hear”, but he told it like it was; and she decided for herself. Trust me… if she didn’t like what she heard, she never would have joined the Church. I honestly think we never would have married if she didn’t enter the Church because we were too far apart theologically to make it work. We’ve been together for over four years and our life together has never been better than it is TODAY. I owe that priest a debt I can never repay. He even presided over our wedding, and it was an amazing mass.
I tell you this because I really think it would be worth your while if you made an appointment to speak to a priest, and bring your questions to him. I would say 99.9% of us here at CAF are laymen and -women; and haven’t spent YEARS at the seminary studying Catholicism like the parish priest has. When you make the appointment, make sure you mention that you’d like maybe an hour or so of his time to make sure that you can ask the questions you need to, and have the time to get full and complete answers. I know that an intelligent young woman like you would want the best sources possible, and make your own decision with the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Since you live in the South, I’m going to assume that the priests down there are pretty sharp apologetically. Bring a list of questions, and hopefully your questions will be answered to your satisfaction.
God bless.