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The Church preaches the Gospel to EVERY creature, not just Protestant creatures.But why don’t catholics have a program where they deliberately go out in search of protestants to convert them!?
The Church preaches the Gospel to EVERY creature, not just Protestant creatures.But why don’t catholics have a program where they deliberately go out in search of protestants to convert them!?
At my methodist church we only had bibles! All these weird books the catholic chruch has is foreign to me!You can’t see the BOOKS in the pockets on the backs of the pews? You said you were inside the church… did you not see any books left in or near the pews?
Many Protestant churches have books in their pews… Bibles and song books, so I cannot believe this would be foreign to you.uch:
I saw them obviously but didn’t know what they were for! So I just ignored it and walked past… no one told me that I needed them…You said you were inside the church… did you not see any books left in or near the pews?
I visited England for two weeks last May and had no trouble finding a Catholic Church to attend. If you want to attend, the Churches are there.I AM IN BRITAIN!
The church of england is anglican! Not catholic, get it, there not many catholic chruches here!
What is the meaning of the word creature in your statement? Are you insinuating that protestants are not worthy of being called humans?The Church preaches the Gospel to EVERY creature, not just Protestant creatures.
No, you seem nice I’m taking about the “militant” protestants…what do you think of this:therealpresence.org/eucharst/mir/lanciano.html
…should I be laughing at this comment?
Am I arguing too much? Do you think I am some crazed protestant that despises catholics, Techno2000?
xxx zundrah xxx
I think you demonstrate why I personally am not big an evangelizing my Catholic faith. It is a lifelong process which one has to have a desire to do.It’s sounds a bit much…
But why don’t catholics have a program where they deliberately go out in search of protestants to convert them!?![]()
How kind of you AdriannaJean!Hi Zundrah,
Sorry I got in on this thread a little bit late. First and foremost I want to apologize on behalf of the Catholics in the parish that you went to. The way you were treated is unacceptable and is the exact opposite of what we should be doing.
With regards to what you said about having the Eucharist in a Methodist church, I could be wrong and if I am you will have to forgive my ignorance, but most Protestant churches do not have Eucharist at all, they have communion. The difference being that communion **symbolizes ** whereas the Eucharist is Christ. The only churches that I know have the Eucharist are the Catholic and Orthodox churches. And, yes, you trying to receive the Eucharist could be a reason you got some nasty looks. Before receiving the Eucharist a person must be Catholic, must have taken the First Communion course or have been through RCIA, not be in a state of mortal sin, fasted for an hour before receiving the Eucharist and have gone to confession in the past year. So some weeks even I am not qualified to receive the Eucharist. These are all just to ensure that proper respect is given to the Eucharist as it is the real presence of Christ, not symbolic. Though you should have been informed of this in a much gentler way than you were.
The Catholic Church is the largest charity organization in the world. Without it we would not have public education, accessible healthcare or universities. The Catholic Church does do a lot of evangelizing throughout the world. Unfortunately, the missions are not up to snuff in the Western World.
But most importantly, NOT ALL CATHOLIC CHURCHES ARE LIKE THAT!!! I can speak for my parish here in saying that before every Mass, visitors are asked to stand and they are welcomed by the congregation and there is coffee and tea after Mass for everyone with our parish priest. It takes some searching to find the right parish for you, but do not be discouraged! I have attended almost every Catholic Church within an hour’s drive of my house before deciding on the one I attend.
And to answer your question, if you were to tell me you were a visiting Protestant I would invite you to sit with me, explain why you cannot have the Eucharist (yet!) and go through the Mass with you. After Mass I would introduce you to the priest and to people in the Parish I think you might like. Don’t presume that all Catholics are hostile. Mother Theresa and PJPII were anything but!
I will be praying to Mary for your full welcoming into the Catholic Church on your next excursion!
God Bless,
Adrianna
PS: If you have any questions at all, feel free to private message me. I am no great theologian, but I do have a fair bit of knowledge about why the Church does/believes what it does.
And most importantly…WELCOME!
I know that!NOT ALL CATHOLIC CHURCHES ARE LIKE THAT!
:banghead: Urgh! “Weird foreign books.” Okay… those books are full of the Bible readings, prayers, and songs used at Mass. What’s foreign?At my methodist church we only had bibles! All these weird books the catholic chruch has is foreign to me!
I saw them obviously but didn’t know what they were for! So I just ignored it and walked past… no one told me that I needed them…
Great idea, but that would be one of those “wierd” Catholic books that are “foreign” to her.For learning the parts of the Mass, I picked up an inexpensive ($8) book called “The Order of the Mass with Prayers and Devotions” which was very helpful. It has the order of the Mass, of course, Rosary, Stations of the Cross and a number of prayers. It’s pocket sized, so I just took it along to Mass until I learned what was going on when.
This is becasue I can’t seem to understand the catholic faith! It’s too complicated to understand! I am a christian so surly that is all that matters!? What does it matter if I am catholic or not!? Do you beliveve that I’ll go to hell if I don’t join a catholic chruch? I’ve heard some catholics saying this…BernadetteM;5421804]I have read many of your posts and they seem very conflicted on what you believe about the Catholic Church from one post to another.
It’s true, people over here are very hostile…My daughter lived in England and people there in general were not very friendly.
Are these priests and people not witnesses for the Lord? They give the ultimate price as Catholics.
England is very, very, VERY anti - catholic ( the church of england isn’t even catholic )!Remember too that England was very anti-catholic and still has laws against Catholics. If you to up and say I am a Methodist and they have been treated badly by protestants, of course there could be a feeling of distrust.
That’s why I tried to go into the catholic chruch in the first place!The only thing we can do for you is pray for you. To find the truth you must have an open heart to the Holy Spirit.
That’s very catholic of you BernadetteM!Yours in the Hearts of Jesus and Mary
…thanks SaltySirena…Great idea, but that would be one of those “wierd” Catholic books that are “foreign” to her.
OP, I had a similar dilemma a few months ago. Some parishes seem more outgoing than others when it comes to visitors. One of the local parishes has a group that meets and greets parishioners and visitors before Mass. Call and ask around… you will run into one that will welcome you.
As for myself, I began attending Mass at a small parish near my home. I couldn’t say the parish was snooty or anything… everyone just seemed to be in a hurry all the time; hurry in for Mass, hurry through the Mass and hurry out the door. About a month later the owner of a local bookstore invited me to her parish. Although it’s one of the largest around, things aren’t so rushed and I decided to stay. I will begin RCIA in September.
For learning the parts of the Mass, I picked up an inexpensive ($8) book called “The Order of the Mass with Prayers and Devotions” which was very helpful. It has the order of the Mass, of course, Rosary, Stations of the Cross and a number of prayers. It’s pocket sized, so I just took it along to Mass until I learned what was going on when.
During the week, our parish offers the bare bones Mass, so that might be easier to keep up with at first. The more you attend Mass, the better you learn it and the more relaxed and comfortable you will be.
Well done toastmachines! I hope you do really well!I will begin RCIA in September.
:banghead: Urgh! “Weird foreign books.” Okay… those books are full of the Bible readings, prayers, and songs used at Mass. What’s foreign?
If you saw them but IGNORED them, how can you blame anyone but yourself? The information was freely offered to you, and you CHOSE not to look at it! If I were in a church I had never been to before, and there was a book put right there in the pew for me, I would look to find out what to expect and see if there are instructions!
You want everything handed to you without having to work for it. Picking up a paperback book is too much work to ask of you. You will never learn anything because you choose not to do so, and then you condemn others for not solving your ignorance for you.
It is called Scripture, the great commission, Jesus said “go ye into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature, baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit”.What is the meaning of the word creature in your statement? Are you insinuating that protestants are not worthy of being called humans?
My point was that catholics need to pin point protestants! You cannot deny that!
…and would you mind explaining what you mean by this;:banghead: Urgh! “Weird foreign books.” Okay… those books are full of the Bible readings, prayers, and songs used at Mass. What’s foreign?
If you saw them but IGNORED them, how can you blame anyone but yourself? The information was freely offered to you, and you CHOSE not to look at it! If I were in a church I had never been to before, and there was a book put right there in the pew for me, I would look to find out what to expect and see if there are instructions!
You want everything handed to you without having to work for it. Picking up a paperback book is too much work to ask of you. You will never learn anything because you choose not to do so, and then you condemn others for not solving your ignorance for you.
…when did I condemn anyone?you condemn others for not solving your ignorance for you.
I would reccommend that wholeheartedly. A good way to start would be to find the Catholic Cathedral for your diocese (it might be in the next town depending on the size of your town) and find the office there (this could be done over the phone as well). Then ask them to help you find the parish closest to you with a youth group. I know that you’re probably not ‘youth’ but coming from lively Protestant services you should do your best to find a lively Catholic one. Then ask the kids in the youth group which parish is the livliest. It might be a bit of a drive, but completely worth it!!:whacky:
I suppose I should just try to find another catholic chruch
I can see how it could be a difficult concept to grasp, especially if you weren’t brought up with it. I’ll do my best to explain it on here, but if I do it inadequately first forgive me and second private message me and I will go into it in more depth:Communion- yes my methodist chruch had this but the one you do in your catholic chruch still boggles me!
I know it’s nothing compared to sitting down with a real person, but feel free to private message me and I will give you my email and facebook page and we could have a live chat if you like. And if you need a real person I would suggest introducing yourself to multiple Catholic priests and trying to set up a time to talk to them. Priests are all different people. Just as there are some people in the world that you would like to be friends with and some there are not, some priests will ‘click’ with you and some will not.I only wish that I could sit down and speak to some one…
Catholic priests will too! Or at least the good ones will. You do need to ask though. If they don’t have time to talk to you, you are best off finding another parish. Though, do try to understand that in many areas of the world priests are spread very thin. There are not enough priests to serve the community. But just make yourself known and they will pay attention to you! If you sit at the back, speak to no one and leave quietly, do not expect any attention.In my methodist church the ministers would talk with you for as long as you liked or needed them to!
I have felt this in many churches. It seems like everyone wants to get their Eucharist and get out. I need to remind myself often that attending Mass is not an obligation but a joy and a privilege. But this all depends on the church you attend. Find a vibrant community that enjoys Mass and a priest who knows what he’s doing and you’ll never feel that way again!In catholic chruch mass its is like an act rather then worship…
Again, priests are hit and miss. In some churches I have struggled to stay awake during the homily (the Catholic word for sermon) and in others (the one I attend especially) I have been moved to tears and have had to stop myself from applauding when the priest finishes! Some good searching will eventually be fruitful. Do not despair!! They do exist!!I miss the long times of preaching my ministers would do… I miss them both sooooo much…![]()
Once you know the secret handshake… it will all become clear.![]()
I think that’s an isolated incident. If you’d asked a different person you would’ve gotten a different response.I was not really dissapointed with the catholic chruch, but just very, very angry that they wouldn’t help me even though I said to them, “I’m from a methodist chruch and all this is very difficult for me to understand!” They didn’t seem to care… They just seemed to say with thier faces, “You shouldn’t be here.”
I wish people at my church were more “robotic”. People talk too much when entering and leaving the Mass. It is a sacred place. There shouldn’t be any mingling. Worship is vertical, not horizontal. The main interaction is between individuals and God not between individuals.catholics are almost robotic at mass! It’s like a manufactering machine, you go in then you go out, no talking, no mingling, no nothing…