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This is my understanding as well.There actually used to be a “rule” about this. There isn’t any more. It’s just a Mass, not a part of a Mass for your obligation. But even under the old “rule” you had to be there for the Gospel (and second reading depending on if it was the pre or post 1962 Missal). So your husband’s scenario wouldn’t “count” even then.
And to do so purposely and without a serious reason would be grave matter.
And I think people have gotten better about it. One of my memories from childhood is that there were certain people who came late to Mass every single weekend, and certain others who ditched out right after Communion.
To his credit, years ago I do remember a Priest specifically noting that the old rule no longer applied.