Speaking from experience (I chose an abusive wife) …what is making you choose abusive men. First you have to look at what you are doing, the mistakes you are making, look for the signs. The signs are there that someone is abusive you just have to learn how to recognise them. And not all men are abusive if thats what your thinking.
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is
the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
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