I have seen people using cell phones during Mass but ONLY for playing games and texting. What are they doing with their cell phones during the homily? Taking notes? Doing something that floats their spiritual boat more than the homily? The “they’ll get over it approach” to others’ feelings is really reprehensible. Should that really be our attitude? Is not worship congregational and corporate? Are you really saying that it doesn’t matter if you are offending others? Even if you think people who are disapproving are weak in faith, consider what Paul wrote in Romans 14:21 “it is good not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that causes your brother to stumble.” It’s not all about me. Worship, especially at Mass is different than anything else we do and it should seem that way. An example would be the collection. On-line giving is popular and needs to be available but the collection, especially the bringing up of the people’s offering is an important liturgical act and should not be eliminated. If all the hymnals were Kindles, that would be okay because it is still a congregate act. The choir has a special function and, if it helps the quality of the leading of sacred song, a smart phone might be acceptable. The readings should be listened to with recourse to a written text only used when a person is hard of hearing or the lector is difficult to understand. There is the other factor that is present in our culture of how having a particular phone or device is a status symbol. Often (I can give you names!) people are embarrassed because they have an ordinary cell phone, or an old model of a smart phone. Some phones, sad to say, carry an “I’m better than you message.” Do we not all know people who are proud of their phone and do we want that pride fostered at Mass? In the matter of a priest using a tablet instead of an altar missal, there is a different problem. (I’m not talking about his saying Mass during a camping trip.) An altar missal is dedicated solely to divine worship. It is ornamented, ribboned, gilded, large, and heavy. It is “set apart” for worship. It’s use also indicates that we pray in the context of tradition not innovation and personal taste. You can be almost certain that the priest’s tablet is also used for playing games, checking e-mails, surfing the net, and the like. There are some good arguments for using electronics in a limited way at Mass. There are better, maybe even excellent, ones for private devotions. The attitude that it doesn’t matter what others are thinking and they’ll just get over it might be, if anything, a good reason for banning electronic devices from church.
Of course it matters that we offend others. The Bible is not kind to those who put stumbling blocks in the way of others.
Yes, the Mass is corporate worship. We need to be doing the work of the Mass together, not separately.
But the cell phone or I-Pad doesn’t cause a person to disregard the Mass, any more than a parish bulletin causes people to write out their grocery list instead of paying attention to the homily.
This is a personal discipline issue, not a technology issue.
You say, “The attitude that it doesn’t matter what others are thinking and they’ll just get over it might be, if anything, a good reason for banning electronic devices from church.”
That sentence doesn’t make sense. We can’t just ban everything that might distract others from Mass, or we would have vast empty rooms with no noise, no smells, no art, nothing! (Some of the Carmelite chapels are like this.) And most of all, no people, because humans are most distracted by fellow human beings and their appearance, mannerisms, actions, etc.
I personally have a hard time watching parents who are ignoring their children’s misbehavior (not childish irresponsibility, but outright bratty behavior, such as teasing a sibling) during Mass, but this doesn’t mean that parents should be banned from bringing their little ones to Mass.
I also get distracted when I notice that people aren’t singing during the hymns, but just standing there, not even bothering to open the hymnal and follow along with the words. Does that mean that “not singing” should be banned, and people forced to sing? Of course not.
What’s needed is for people to stop doing things during the Mass that distract them or others from fully participating in the Mass. And those who are easily distracted by others should mind their own eyes and hearts; the answer to my problem with watching others sing is to NOT watch them sing. In the same way, perhaps you might want to try not watching other people who are using electronic devices. We could both do well to keep our eyes on the tabernacle and contemplate Jesus Truly Present during the Mass.
