Missed novena. what to do?

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Hi! I have been praying the 9-day novena for quite some time now. For some reason, I have those days where I miss reciting/praying the novena. What should I do then? Should I just continue? or go back to day 1?

Just a question. What’s the reason behind the 9-consecutive days?
 
While I am not sure what the canonically correct answer to this is…I know that I myself have attempted Novenas to St. Michael, the Blessed Mother and Saint Francis. The idea of a novena is of course, consecutive prayer over a period of time for a given purpose. If you miss a day I would pray as soon as you notice the error and continue. A couple of times my prayer would fall after midnight, and I would pray again before midnight the next day…however I somehow don’t think time works the same way in Heaven nor that our prayers must be exactly on time to be accepted by the Saints and God. Just my opinion.
 
Hi! I have been praying the 9-day novena for quite some time now. For some reason, I have those days where I miss reciting/praying the novena. What should I do then? Should I just continue? or go back to day 1?

Just a question. What’s the reason behind the 9-consecutive days?
If you missed a day during a nine day novena, you have to start over. The nine day novena comes from the nine days of prayer said by the apostles starting from the Accession and ending on Pentecost.
 
While I am not sure what the canonically correct answer to this is…I know that I myself have attempted Novenas to St. Michael, the Blessed Mother and Saint Francis. The idea of a novena is of course, consecutive prayer over a period of time for a given purpose. If you miss a day I would pray as soon as you notice the error and continue. A couple of times my prayer would fall after midnight, and I would pray again before midnight the next day…however I somehow don’t think time works the same way in Heaven nor that our prayers must be exactly on time to be accepted by the Saints and God. Just my opinion.
If you missed a day during a nine day novena, you have to start over. The nine day novena comes from the nine days of prayer said by the apostles starting from the Accession and ending on Pentecost.
thank you for the replies. I did some research and I’m sorry for not doing that before I started this thread.

upon my research, I found out that there is this storm novena which, instead of 9 consecutive days should be prayed for 9 consecutive hours. Can all novenas be prayed at 9 consecutive hours even if the novena says 9 consecutive days?
 
I’d remembered reading something in the Ask an Apologist section about missing a day of a novena:

What do I do if I miss a day in my novena?
How you make up for missing a day in a novena is up to you. Ordinarily, you can just say the prayers the next day when you remember and extend the end of the novena by one day. However, if you had planned for the novena to end on a certain date in honor of a particular intention, you could also say two sets of the prayers on one day to keep the planned novena on schedule.
 
Don’t worry- I am awful at making Novenas- I offer many and they are of great help but I always miss a day here and there through human weakness, also I get discouraged if I have committed a Mortal Sin etc. but a Novena is private devotion and in that regard you are free to do as you wish- continue after missing a day or two (I always do, just continue from the day I missed).

Say a prayer for me!
 
If you missed a day during a nine day novena, you have to start over.
Not true. To think that the “power” of a novena is in the praying of nine consecutive days is to fall to superstition. If you miss a day, then simply continue where you left off. A novena is nine days of prayer, not necessarily nine *consecutive *days. While traditionally a novena is to be prayed on consecutive days, an error or absence of mind does not send one to the back of the line.
 
thank you for the replies. I did some research and I’m sorry for not doing that before I started this thread.

upon my research, I found out that there is this storm novena which, instead of 9 consecutive days should be prayed for 9 consecutive hours. Can all novenas be prayed at 9 consecutive hours even if the novena says 9 consecutive days?
No, the reason for the storm novena being in hours, rather than days, is because it is generally prayed when a big storm is a day or so away. Normally, storms are not nine days in coming.
 
Thank you for all the replies. With the overwhelming help, I’m sorry that I won’t be able to thank you one by one. Thanks again! By the time I’ve read all your posts, I was already in my 2nd day of novena (which I restarted). At least I know what to do next time I miss a day.🙂
No, the reason for the storm novena being in hours, rather than days, is because it is generally prayed when a big storm is a day or so away. Normally, storms are not nine days in coming.
So, a 9 day novena can’t be converted to a 9 hour novena?

The reason I asked is that I am dedicating the novena/s for a specific intention which is expected to come this March 18, 2014. I would love to pray as many novenas as the time may allow me. Thanks for the help!
 
TSo, a 9 day novena can’t be converted to a 9 hour novena?
No, it cannot. However, for an intention that is less than nine days away, you may certainly pray every day, as many times as you wish. Rosaries, chaplets, and meditative time with the Lord are all examples of things that you may offer, but there are endless possibilities.
 
Hi! I have been praying the 9-day novena for quite some time now. For some reason, I have those days where I miss reciting/praying the novena. What should I do then? Should I just continue? or go back to day 1?

Just a question. What’s the reason behind the 9-consecutive days?
  1. Continue and say the for both days on the day after you missed.
  2. The 9 consecutive days comes from scripture. The Apostles prayed for the coming of the Holy Spirit for 9 days after the ascension until Pentecost.
God is not a bureaucrat. Prayers are not spell-casting or magic. If we mess up, we recover and continue. However, for some types of prayers, particularly those which result in plenary indulgence, certain requirements must be met to receive the FULL effect. But otherwise, God rewards faithfulness and effort, so just keep plugging away.
 
No, it cannot. However, for an intention that is less than nine days away, you may certainly pray every day, as many times as you wish. Rosaries, chaplets, and meditative time with the Lord are all examples of things that you may offer, but there are endless possibilities.
Ow thank you. It’s just unfortunate that I cannot do that. My intention is 5 days away and I want to finish as many novenas as possible. Can I instead distribute 9 day novenas in the 5 remaining days? Like:

Friday: Day 1, Day 2
Saturday: Day 3, Day 4
Sunday: Day 5, Day 6
Monday: Day 7, Day 8
Tuesday: Day 9
  1. Continue and say the for both days on the day after you missed.
  2. The 9 consecutive days comes from scripture. The Apostles prayed for the coming of the Holy Spirit for 9 days after the ascension until Pentecost.
God is not a bureaucrat. Prayers are not spell-casting or magic. If we mess up, we recover and continue. However, for some types of prayers, particularly those which result in plenary indulgence, certain requirements must be met to receive the FULL effect. But otherwise, God rewards faithfulness and effort, so just keep plugging away.
Thank you! I think, with the short period I have, I need to be spoon-fed right now. I have 6 (yes, SIX!) short novenas I intend to finish before tuesday comes (today is thursday). What do you think is the best way to finish all those?

You may think why am I doing this just now. Actually I started a long time ago. it just so happened that I saw these (additional) novenas that I think are well suited for my intention. And I want to finish them all.

Sorry for having so many questions. I tend to be dogmatic when it comes to matters like this. 🙂
 
I read this from catholic.com/quickquestions/if-im-not-praying-a-novena-exactly-as-prescribed-to-obtain-an-answer-must-i-start-ove :

“A novena is simply the pious practice of praying for a particular intention nine times. It is usually done with one prayer over a nine-day period but can be done by praying the same prayer nine times in a row. Any formal, informal, or spontaneous prayer done in a set of nine times constitutes a novena. You may use a formal novena that is approved for devotional use or you may put together your own set of prayers for your private use. The only requirement is that the prayers not be said with the intention to manipulate an answer from God. Whatever they are—if they are said faithfully and with trust in God that he will answer your prayer in the manner he wills to do so—they are fine.”

why then can’t I pray a 9-day novena in just 1 day?

can someone explain to me what is meant by the underlined sentence?

Really, I’m sorry. I need some serious education here.😃
 
I read this from catholic.com/quickquestions/if-im-not-praying-a-novena-exactly-as-prescribed-to-obtain-an-answer-must-i-start-ove :

“A novena is simply the pious practice of praying for a particular intention nine times. It is usually done with one prayer over a nine-day period but can be done by praying the same prayer nine times in a row. Any formal, informal, or spontaneous prayer done in a set of nine times constitutes a novena. You may use a formal novena that is approved for devotional use or you may put together your own set of prayers for your private use. The only requirement is that the prayers not be said with the intention to manipulate an answer from God. Whatever they are—if they are said faithfully and with trust in God that he will answer your prayer in the manner he wills to do so—they are fine.”

why then can’t I pray a 9-day novena in just 1 day?

can someone explain to me what is meant by the underlined sentence?

Really, I’m sorry. I need some serious education here.😃
The underlined sentence means that God will answer your prayer but perhaps not in the way you want or think he will. Also, the point of a novena is to develop a habit of prayer and devotion, not to get special favors from God (the manipulation part.) Prayer ultimately should change your heart and mind to God’s will. A habit of prayer will lead to learning to trust him and perhaps learning how he will answer your prayer. If we ask for wisdom concerning a matter you can learn how God “speaks” to you. He might use another person or a situation but he will use the same language with you.

Continue to pray your novena; you could continue it even if it were to end after the day that is significant. God is outside of time and you show your faith in him.
 
The underlined sentence means that God will answer your prayer but perhaps not in the way you want or think he will. Also, the point of a novena is to develop a habit of prayer and devotion, not to get special favors from God (the manipulation part.) Prayer ultimately should change your heart and mind to God’s will. A habit of prayer will lead to learning to trust him and perhaps learning how he will answer your prayer. If we ask for wisdom concerning a matter you can learn how God “speaks” to you. He might use another person or a situation but he will use the same language with you.

Continue to pray your novena; you could continue it even if it were to end after the day that is significant. God is outside of time and you show your faith in him.
Thank you! I’m sorry that I have to ask a lot of questions.

When can we say that a prayer is said with the intention to manipulate an answer from God? If I pray that I, my girlfriend and friends be given the blessing of having passed the bar examinations we took last October 2013, would that be considered as “with the intention to manipulate an answer”? If not, under what circumstance would you consider that specific prayer to be one with intention to manipulate?

more questions to come. please have patience.🙂
 
Thank you! I’m sorry that I have to ask a lot of questions.

When can we say that a prayer is said with the intention to manipulate an answer from God? If I pray that I, my girlfriend and friends be given the blessing of having passed the bar examinations we took last October 2013, would that be considered as “with the intention to manipulate an answer”? If not, under what circumstance would you consider that specific prayer to be one with intention to manipulate?

more questions to come. please have patience.🙂
I’ll try to answer but it will be difficult because our brains are sneaky and so is the devil and it can be the briefest thought that we barely catch that gives us a clue that we are trying to manipulate (and sometimes it’s so obvious that others can see it, too.)

An example: when I pray for something, I add at the end, “Thy will be done.” I want to humble myself to God’s will as much as I can. I know this is pleasing to God and sometimes the not-so-humble part of me might urge me to say it only because it’s pleasing to God. If someone does that and wishes the petition to be answered to their preferences or else, they are trying to manipulate God.

God can’t be manipulated of course, but sometimes people use the promises of novenas and devotions to try to get things instead of developing love for God and increasing their faith and trust in him and his will.

You ask good questions. I don’t mind answering but be prepared for “I don’t know” if you get too deep. 🙂
 
May I kindly point out that one may (should?) just pray daily that God would grant a specific request if it be according to His will. Undue concern (obsessing?) over all sorts of technicalities takes on the appearance of treating novenas as if they have a magic power.
 
May I kindly point out that one may (should?) just pray daily that God would grant a specific request if it be according to His will. Undue concern (obsessing?) over all sorts of technicalities takes on the appearance of treating novenas as if they have a magic power.
Thank you for the reply! Honestly, I really am dogmatic when it comes to technicalities like this. I however do not treat novena that way. Instead I see it as one great tool to be in constant communication with God. I see it as a form of sacrifice by stopping whatever I am doing, and dedicating some time to pray.

Oftentimes, I procrastinate even when it comes to praying. By observing the time for a novena, there is a lesser tendency to procrastinate.

I may have a wrong view about this. I would be grateful if you could educate me regarding this matter. Thank you once again for the help.
 
May I kindly point out that one may (should?) just pray daily that God would grant a specific request if it be according to His will. Undue concern (obsessing?) over all sorts of technicalities takes on the appearance of treating novenas as if they have a magic power.
Thank you for the reply! Honestly, I really am dogmatic when it comes to technicalities like this. I however do not treat novena that way. Instead I see it as one great tool to be in constant communication with God. I see it as a form of sacrifice by stopping whatever I am doing, and dedicating some time to pray.

Oftentimes, I procrastinate even when it comes to praying. By observing the time for a novena, there is a lesser tendency to procrastinate.

I may have a wrong view about this. I would be grateful if you could educate me regarding this matter. Thank you once again for the help.
As others have mentioned, the concept of the novena (nine consecutive days of prayer) stems from the period between the Ascension of Jesus on Thursday and the descent of the Holy Spirit of Pentecost Sunday during which the apostles were in the upper room praying. Praying a specific prayer and/or at a specific time for a specific number of days certainly can help one to remember to pray daily, to motivate one to pray when one is not immediately inclined to do so, and even eventually to improve one’s daily prayer habits.

Praying a novena however does not mean that if certain requirements are strictly met that a favor from God will automatically be granted nor on the other hand that if a requirement is not met that the favor cannot be granted by God.

Concern about how to make up missing days, converting days to hours, squeezing in multiple ones by certain deadlines, etc. struck me as perhaps coming from a misunderstanding of novenas, one that sees them as the performing of some “magical” rite or formula.

My post was mean to encourage you to place your focus in praying a novena on the tremendous efficacy of prayer, particularly daily prayer, and the loving generosity of God rather than on the technicalities of the nine days, hours, or whatever.
 
I read this from catholic.com/quickquestions/if-im-not-praying-a-novena-exactly-as-prescribed-to-obtain-an-answer-must-i-start-ove :

“A novena is simply the pious practice of praying for a particular intention nine times. It is usually done with one prayer over a nine-day period but can be done by praying the same prayer nine times in a row. Any formal, informal, or spontaneous prayer done in a set of nine times constitutes a novena. You may use a formal novena that is approved for devotional use or you may put together your own set of prayers for your private use. The only requirement is that the prayers not be said with the intention to manipulate an answer from God. Whatever they are—if they are said faithfully and with trust in God that he will answer your prayer in the manner he wills to do so—they are fine.”
Yesterday I missed praying the Novena to Saint Jude. It is for a very special intention and I happened to be frustrated - going even into ugly thoughts - therefore I didn’t feel like praying.

This reply has given me some strength. I’ll pray the Novena twice today to make up for yesterday. I’m usually not one who prays novenas so I was really lost yesterday 😦 .

Thanks also to those who gave more information about novenas, especially concerning the origins.
 
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