Really? You ridicule people’s beliefs? The definition of that word is to deride or mock them. Really?
I guess the answer depends on what you classify comments – derision, mocking? I don’t recoil, when the arguments warrant from calling them “ridiculous”, or “asinine”, or even “stupid”. That’s derisive, I’d say. Being wrong is one thing, and a regular occurrence for the brightest and most diligence among us. But often what we find is not just a matter of error, but willful, spiteful, hostile ignorance, a form of agression expressed in ideological terms as anti-knowledge.
Simply ‘correcting’ the errors doesn’t really address that problem. Grown-ups can handle correction and criticism, and adjust things accordingly. What is happening in lots of “culture war” debate has nothing to do with errors, facts, or reason, but the corruption of those as weapons. It’s that kind of quasi-passive hostility that needs a different social treatment, a cultural rejection that recognizes not just the error in facts and claims, but the hostility projected by the bearer on the rest of the community.
It’s not just “you’re wrong” – I get that regularly, and am often honored by the charge, the thinking and effort behind the claim. And often enough, I find the charge to have merit. I forget who it was here, but I was recently called for an unfair claim or conclusion on someone’s words here, and in reading it back, I agreed. I was in the wrong, and apologized.
Beliefs and arguments that merit ridicule show disdain for knowledge, not just ignorance, contempt for civil discourse, as opposed to unfamiliarity or just crude conversational habits.This is the use of language and communication as a weapon, not a weapon used honorably, but dishonorably to preserve one’s one ego and views at all costs.
You do that? You actually openly mock people? Do you think that possibly hurts their feelings?
I’m sure it does, and when I do unleash that way (lots of forums simply won’t permit it by rule, which complicates things, and favors those pushing ridiculous, over-the-top obnoxious arguments), I’m sure it stings, and feelings get hurt. And that is part of the goal, social sanction and stinging disapproval from peers for behaving so badly in public.
The basic logic is that ridicule and mocking for arguments that deserve it, those that have really ‘jumped the shark’, provides a social disincentive for that kind of behavior. I note, with gratification, that overt racism now often solicits open ridicule and mocking, if not open direct hostility. This was not the case, at least to that degree, when I was a child. There are many views and arguments that are as fatuous, destructive and unworthy of decent community that still get ‘coddled’, and religion – even this forum, sad to say – often enough is one to coddle and protect the ridiculous and the passionately disingenuous among them from the kind of criticism that rises to the level of their offense.
Again, if I’m understanding you correctly, it’s not that you engage them, or are curt with them, or simply point out how their rock, but you actually mock them?
Yeah. Actually. On an email loop I’m on, just today, I went off because of some of the most obnoxious defenses of Kent Hovind’s “pH.D” thesis, which was recently found, scanned and put online – Google it and you’ll find it.
There’s a good case to be made that when you get to to the point of ridicule, you should consider just leaving that community as you are probably wasting your time, but in this case, this is a list I help run. Anyway, if you read Hovind’s “thesis” there’s no way to assess it honestly but as “ridiculous”. Hovind is the poster boy for the kind of argument and polemic that deserves a sharply hostile and stinging rebuke. He’s not so much wrong, as he is obnoxious unto evil in his disrespect and hostile for his opponents, and his contempt for the basic intelligence of his audience. “Correcting” Hovind is pointless, in my view, and plays to his schtick.
Thinking grown-ups send guys like Hovind out of the village, rather than correct him. Hovind is not about correction, or about being right or wrong. Hovind’s been sent to prison, for other (but maybe related) reasons, but he has some disciples that are really off the charts on the obnoxious scale. The beg for ridicule with their words, and have come to expect no one has the backbone to call them out as ‘more than just factually wrong’ in their arguments.
How’s that working out for you? I mean, has it ever helped a situation?
Well, there are precious few willing to do it, it turns out. Which is one reason so much ridiculous stuff remains so prevalent in our discourse and communications. We suffer fools gladly, it seems. This is not a problem atheists have solved, by any means, but one serious burden for Christianity is that is acutely impotent to resist and repel fools in its ranks. Not just people who are mistaken, mind you, or ignorant, but actively subverting knowledge, truth-finding and thinking toward positive goals, all as a means of serving their cognitive dissonance at the expense of others.
I do have many experiences where speaking up and out like that has been effective, and made a positive impact. There’s always tricky issues with moderation (and this is expected and reasonable), but in cases where that hasn’t been a problem, such reactions really can and do inject some seriousness about the antics and bad behavior of trolls and
other misanthropes.
And, I’m afraid I don’t understand the link up to lying or putting your brain ‘in neutral’ as it were.
I’ll be honest here, I’m just really surprised.
I’ll just chalk this up to your good fortune in hanging out in higher quality communities than I have, historically.
-TS