I think it is basic human nature for people to need to be spurred on to do the right thing when it comes to faith. Although I am not Calvinist, I can see the need for people to be reminded that mankind is sinful and in need of a Savior in Jesus Christ. I think Billy Graham could be considered a Calvinist Southern Baptist and he did much to help people see their need for Christ and offer them a bridge to Him through faith and turning away from sin. I actually found Christ through one of his crusades back in the day, and it changed my life forever in a positive way.
I am reminded of the French historian and philosopher Alexis de Tocqueville, who visited the US during the 1830’s. He was a Catholic and had this observation and insight into America during the Second Great Awakening, which was overwhelmingly Protestant at the time, especially with a large number of Methodists and Baptists, and Episcopalians.
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“I sought for the greatness and genius of America in her commodious harbors and her ample rivers – and it was not there . . . in her fertile fields and boundless forests and it was not there . . . in her rich mines and her vast world commerce – and it was not there . . . in her democratic Congress and her matchless Constitution – and it was not there. Not until I went into the churches of America and heard her pulpits aflame with righteousness did I understand the secret of her genius and power. America is great because she is good, and if America ever ceases to be good, she will cease to be great.”
― Alexis de Tocqueville,
Democracy in America
I think his quote is prophetic and I am concerned about America’s future as our culture seems to be falling more and more away from Jesus.
Although I am not a Calvinist, I find irony in that some Catholics on this thread to call the Calvinist approach “emotional manipulation”. Some Christians may find it to be the spurring on the person to find Jesus in order to follow Him and His ways, which lead to a better eternal spiritual outcome than unbelief.
By the way, an objective non-Catholic may see a psychological component to such Catholic rules and regulations as the Sunday obligation to attend Mass. If I understand the regulation correctly, If one doesn’t attend church and doesn’t have a valid excuse, it is considered a “mortal sin” that is need of confession or else the person faces eternal damnation if left unrepented.
Although church attendance is highly encouraged in most Protestant churches that I know and non-attendance is frowned upon, I don’t recall any of them ever saying it is a mortal sin not to attend. And yet, according to some Catholics, it is only the Calvinists who are “manipulating” people to do the right thing. I am reminded of the title of the Alanis Morrisette song, "
Isn’t It Ironic".