… I’ll ask again: what did youths and teenagers do 60, 70, 80, 100, 300 years ago? Why were the youths of several decades ago able to “survive” the Mass? Granted, there are cultural problems today that make it harder for children (and their parents), but should the Church’s response be to “go with the flow”?
**I’ve heard this argument before in other threads (from you?) but I don’t think it’s valid for the following reason: Look how much society has changed in the past 50 years… look at the change in the past 100 years! We’ve gone from a society where God was an ever-present reality to one where the reality which smacks us in the face every day we leave our homes (and inside also if you watch TV) is sex, drugs, power, sex, fame, success, oh, and did I mention, sex? The only time “God” becomes a reality for some people is when a movie is made alleging that Jesus married and fathered children.

It’s gone way past being only a problem. It’s a tragedy. I don’t advocate changing the Mass, or dogma, or anything, to suit the current culture, nor do I promote outrageous exhibitions at Mass. But if one genre of music over another, a homily that speaks to the teens of the realities in their lives, if these draw them… this is good.
Whereas the Church once needed to do no more than whisper the truth, the Church’s response today should be shouting it from the rooftops. If a “Folk like” Mass with contemporary music and a clap here and there (now I always like to stress: no puppets!

) draws more people, of any age, then that’s a good thing.
Should every single Mass be like this? No. There should also be Masses with more traditional musical choices and homilies that address more adult themes. The music and the homilly are basically the differences. The bulletin should list the Masses appropriately, e.g.: 7:30 A.M. (no music); 9:30 A.M. (contemporary music); 11:00 (choir), so if anyone goes to a 9:30 Mass expecting Gregorian chant, they have no reason to complain if they see a tambourine.**
Have you, as a youth minister, helped catechize the youth of your parish so that they understand the liturgy and understand
how they “actively participate” in it?
**Japhy, I’m just curious - have you ever worked with young people? Have you ever tried to get them to Mass? (And I don’t mean as a parent.)
When they’re teens and going through that “I don’t believe any adults and all authority stinks” phase, it doesn’t matter how they’ve been catechized, they’ll either stop going to Mass or at the barest minimum, put up a fight about it. If one Mass over another draws them, this is a good thing. They do grow out of this attitude and hopefully by then, will continue to go to Mass and remember the catechesis they’ve received by all the devoted men and women who have worked so hard to impart the faith to them.
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