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Michael_Anthony
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What I was trying to say is that in circumstances like that keeping a shirt on would probably be in everybody’s best interest (with regard to avoiding weirdness. While I am not crazy about it I have been put in the situation of sharing a bed before (4 people in 1 room), it didn’t really bother me though I am not in any rush to do it again, I was more afraid of it being a trigger than it was triggering. It might be different (in terms of how I experience it) if I were significantly attracted to the person, and/or if there were only the 2 of us in the room, but I was fine. I’m not an out of control maniac, and I generally don’t feel any inclination to act out with a person, and thus far it only varies in the degree of my temptation to act out alone, which there was no increase that time I “had” to share a bed.
edit: My question was more about not scandalising a roommate than the circumstances of having a roommate, I already figured out more or less how do deal with that with respect to SSA.
edit: My question was more about not scandalising a roommate than the circumstances of having a roommate, I already figured out more or less how do deal with that with respect to SSA.
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