Modesty in dress...

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I am searching for an objective and binding teaching on the standard of modesty in dress.

If you know it or how to find it, please post it in a reply to this message along with the binding source.

Thank you.

– Nicole
 
I am searching for an objective and binding teaching on the standard of modesty in dress.

If you know it or how to find it, please post it in a reply to this message along with the binding source.

Thank you.

– Nicole
There really isn’t one, modesty is a cultural term to be honest. Some of the largest reasons for Catholic conversions of natives is directly due to the fact that we possess a great appreciation and consumption of other cultural norms. But the brilliance in it is that we keep it all the same, so while you will certainly see different types of music, clothing, singing tone, parish art and appearance. The message is always the same and in the same order.

I think it really depends on your moral compass, if you feel that you are seductively dressed for someone other then your spouse, then its wrong. The problem is what is seductive in Brazil can be raunchy in NY though.
 
I am searching for an objective and binding teaching on the standard of modesty in dress.
A judgment of the prudential order is used to decide practical questions such as the particulars of modesty in dress. There is no doctrine that will tell you exactly what the limits are. The Catholic Faith is beliefs and practices (doctrine and discipline), but the practices/disciplines are not set in stone. They can vary from time to time and place to place.
 
I am not going to link it, but there are some anti-papal sites showcasing JPIItG being near a scantly clad indiginous woman who was doing something “pagen”. It was far from the truth in the end.
 
A judgment of the prudential order is used to decide practical questions such as the particulars of modesty in dress. There is no doctrine that will tell you exactly what the limits are. The Catholic Faith is beliefs and practices (doctrine and discipline), but the practices/disciplines are not set in stone. They can vary from time to time and place to place.
You should apply the same principle to your rantings on what is and is not permitted in sexual relations within marriage. Odd that you use prudential judgement here, but present as hard fact in the other threads, activities for which the Church has never clearly defined the limits, other the marital act being open to life.
 
i would suggest getting a book called “Moral Theology” by Fr. Heribert Jone, which is a handbook for priests on moral theology,
also check out the books on this site - www.fraternitypublications.com
Be cautious with the use of this text. this is text that is somewhat outdated in certain respects…and is very casuistic. Can be helpful of course in some…but bear in mind its limitations and the renewal of moral theology called for with Vatican II (authentic renewal of course)
 
Be cautious with the use of this text. this is text that is somewhat outdated in certain respects…and is very casuistic. Can be helpful of course in some…but bear in mind its limitations and the renewal of moral theology called for with Vatican II (authentic renewal of course)
the book itself does explain on that,
the changes have only occurred in church disciplinary laws, and have not at all changed in the areas of morality based on natural law and revelation.
so although it’s still good to be careful, there would be no problem in regards to the moral teachings of this book, and as far as the disciplinary actions are concerned, that is always up to the priest to begin with.
 
the book itself does explain on that,
the changes have only occurred in church disciplinary laws, and have not at all changed in the areas of morality based on natural law and revelation.
so although it’s still good to be careful, there would be no problem in regards to the moral teachings of this book, and as far as the disciplinary actions are concerned, that is always up to the priest to begin with.
there is more than that. I have and make use the book myself from time to time-- so I do not discount the good in it …but the Church asked for a renewal of moral theology which touches other things as well…

Also I would not suggest it to those who may tend to scruples…
(except the section on scruples)

I understand more of what I mean in the broader context – I suggest reading
Servais Pinckaers, O.P. who was a member of the International Theological Commission, the Commission that worked on the Catechism contributing to the Moral section …and even worked with the prep of Veritatis Splender.

For example: Morality the Catholic View

and also the Sources of Christian Ethics.
 
As I recall, Jone’s book said that something is not modest if it stimulates others’ sexual appetite. I think this does very well in explaining it. Something that would be modest in one society is not in another. A woman dressed modestly now would get quite a different response from men if she had lived in the Nineteenth Century, when dresses went down to a woman’s ankles. The important standard is what stimulates the sexual appetite of others, when it comes to modesty.
 
Like some other posters have said, as far as directives on exact attire from the Church, you will not find it.

That said, I would HIGHLY recommend a book on the subject, Colleen Hammonds Dressing With Dignity. Best thing out there, in my opinion.
 
As I recall, Jone’s book said that something is not modest if it stimulates others’ sexual appetite. I think this does very well in explaining it. Something that would be modest in one society is not in another. A woman dressed modestly now would get quite a different response from men if she had lived in the Nineteenth Century, when dresses went down to a woman’s ankles. The important standard is what stimulates the sexual appetite of others, when it comes to modesty.
But some people would have their sexual appetites stimulated regardless of what you chose to wear, and there’s literaly nothing you can wear that wouldn’t stimulate SOMEONE’s sexual appetite. People have all sorts of fetishes, after all, and some would now actually find the Victorian and Edwardian long flowing dresses and skirts a turnon.

Don’t rapes happen just as often in Muslim countries as in ours, where the women are covered from head to foot, after all?

I’m not saying that some clothing isn’t much more generally likely to be titillating than other types, in a given society. Nor do I want to give the idea that there isn’t such a thing as immodest clothing, but it seems a quite restrictive definition to put it the way you have.
 
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