Moral Dilemma: What Would YOU Have Done?

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I’m an EMHC ministering to the elderly, sick & homebound. I rarely distribute in church unless specifically asked to do so.

The other day, one of the people that I bring communion to asked me to stop by earlier because her care-taker had to leave earlier and once the care-taker was gone, she would have no way of coming to the door to let me in.

So I left early and even allowed myself a little extra time to account for traffic and/or any other possible delays but I encountered something that I had not planned for.

Every Friday our church has Eucharistic Adoration. There is a sign-up sheet to ensure that there is at least one person for each hour. However, when I got there to get the host to bring to the elderly homebound woman, I found the church to be empty … nobody was keeping our Lord company – the exposed Eucharist was sitting alone and unattended!

Apparently, the person that signed up for that hour couldn’t make it – either for a valid reason or for a not so valid reason … I’m not going to guess or judge. And, the person that was there for the previous hour, also had to leave – either for a valid reason or for a not so valid reason … I’m not going to guess or judge.

Moral dilemma: Stay & keep our Lord company until the next person shows up or bring our Lord to another soul that was waiting for Him?

If you found yourself in my shoes, what would you have done?

PS: The rectory was closed and there was nobody around so there was no other option besides these two.
If you had the lady’s phone number, you could have rang her and told her not to lock the door, or ask the caretaker to stay a bit longer, or since you are able to serve as Eucharisti minister, are you not able to bring the Sacred Host back into the tabernacle and then left the church.

I acknowledge this situation is very uncomfortable.
 
I believe that EMHCs are allowed to do this too - not with the blessings or prayers but to simply repose the Blessed Sacrament in order to not leave Him unattended. It is not the preferred thing to do but the best alternative in this situation, IMHO.
We have been instructed that this is the best solution when no one can be there. Usually the person(s) whose hour is over are expected to stay over for the next hour when this happens, but then there are sometimes unavoidable situations. During the daylight hours there is usually not a problem, but in the wee hours of morning no one else is around or reachable. The Church is kept locked at night so the person going off watch lets the next group in.
 
I would have stayed until the next adoror showed up.
The olbigation is to not leave the exposed Lord in the Blessed Sacrament unattended.
There is no obligation to receive communion daily or weekly. It is good and beneficial but not obligatory.
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I believe that EMHCs are allowed to do this too - not with the blessings or prayers but to simply repose the Blessed Sacrament in order to not leave Him unattended. It is not the preferred thing to do but the best alternative in this situation, IMHO.
While a agree that EMHC’s are allowed to deposit the Blessed Sacrament into the tabernacle, I do not believe they are authorized to remove one from the Monstrance. It is my understanding that only Ordinary Ministers can do Benediction. But I could be wrong. From a practical pont of view, what would the people who come to Adoration think when the Blessed Sacrament was gone?

I asked my EMHC wife what she would have done and she said she would have prayed that the person who wasn’t there was OK, that the person who comes next would come early, and go to minister to her homebound parishioner. She said it was an easy- “What Would Jesus Do?”
 
St. Tarcisius was martyred while trying to protect the Eucharist. Was that death in vain if the Eucharist does not need our protection?
 
St. Tarcisius was martyred while trying to protect the Eucharist. Was that death in vain if the Eucharist does not need our protection?
Not at all. St Tarcisius is a great example of one who understood the Eucharist. And he paid the ultimate price to be that example. Every altar boy has learned of the importance of their role because of how serious St. Tarcisius too his responsibility. And, if you chose to stay, it too is a great act of piety and devotion. But you asked what we would do. Many chose to turn their heart to the Christ in our homebound neighbor. Not better or worse. Just different.
 
St. Tarcisius was martyred while trying to protect the Eucharist. Was that death in vain if the Eucharist does not need our protection?
No, of course not. According to tradition, Tarcisius was martyred when he was carrying the Eucharist and was attacked by pagans intent on stealing the Eucharist from him.

This is pretty different then the hypothetical need of protecting the Eucharist in the Church. You haven’t said much about the physical situation. Is your Church in a dangerous or high crime area? Could you lock up?

Anyway, its not my purpose or place to say what the ‘right’ answer is (so maybe I shouldn’t have called it a ‘no-brainer’). Both choices are a sincere attempt to fulfill your responsibilities, so neither is really wrong.
 
Is your Church in a dangerous or high crime area?
Not really “high crime” or “dangerous” but attacks against the church have been on the rise – last year three life-size nativity statues were taken. One was smashed into dozens of pieces, another one was found partcially broken in the nearby woods and the third was never recovered.
Could you lock up?
I had no means of physically locking up the church and as Orionthehunter pointed out …

EMHC’s are allowed to deposit the Blessed Sacrament into the tabernacle, I do not believe they are authorized to remove one from the Monstrance. It is my understanding that only Ordinary Ministers can do Benediction. From a practical pont of view, what would the people who come to Adoration think when the Blessed Sacrament was gone?
 
Sir Knight:
If you found yourself in my shoes, what would you have done?
I would have acted out of love. Love fulfills all the law, because we are to focus on the intent of the law, not the letter.

These are issues of discipline, not dogma. The faith you have could be expressed through either of these two acts. So as long as you acted out of love, you choice could not be wrong. If later someone tells you a better solution to the problem and you become convinced you are right you could act differently in the future but it does not make you original act wrong since you did the best you knew at the time and did it out of love.
 
I would have acted out of love. Love fulfills all the law, because we are to focus on the intent of the law, not the letter.

These are issues of discipline, not dogma. The faith you have could be expressed through either of these two acts. So as long as you acted out of love, you choice could not be wrong. If later someone tells you a better solution to the problem and you become convinced you are right you could act differently in the future but it does not make you original act wrong since you did the best you knew at the time and did it out of love.
What a great answer!

Once I read this I realized this is what I really meant, but you said it much better.
 
This reminds me of one saint (if you recognize him please post his name) who was a monk taking care of the poor. one morning he saw Christ in his cell so he prayed for a long time before him. when the bell signaling to hand out the noon meal rang he was faced with the dilemma of whether to stay and pray or go help the poor. after few seconds he decided to go out and he had no opportunity to go back till late that night. Upon his return he was surprised to discover the lord was still there. At this point the lord who had been silent finally spoke and he said “If you had stayed surely i must have fled” for this reason i would most definitely have brought communion to the elderly lady. it would actually i think have been no service to have stayed.
i personally trust the lord to take care of himself.
 
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