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Angel7
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For some time I’ve worked at a Restaurant where my dad is working. I’m a Busboy, my dad is a waiter. This issue is that I recently discovered that I’ve been paid “under the table” this whole time. I never realized it because I’m not really knowledgeable about these things, I just assumed everything was fine. Since being paid “under the table” is illegal I’m assuming its also wrong, right? What should I do. I don’t want to evade rightfuly due taxes, which would be wrong. But my Dad would be annoyed at me (I think he may be paid under the table as well).
Also, I feel like I would disapoint my employers, ofcourse I definatly don’t want to do anything wrong, but it only makes it harder. If I quit the job I still have to face my Dad who will be asking ‘why?’. And I’ll have to say that It was because I want to avoid what is wrong. But my Dad will definatl be annoyed at this. My mom says I’m probably the most religious person in my family. I feel like my family is Catholic in name only. So by doing what I think is right in this situation, I’ll have to face their disaproval.
Going against public opinion is hard for me, and I think it is because I was bullied when I was younger (and was very prideful as well). So I’ve always wanted people to think well of me (accept me), and when I was younger I wanted to be the “best” (thankfuly I’m not as proud as I used to be, atleast I’d hope so
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That’s my explanation for why public opinion is hard for me to go against, but maybe there is more to it. Anyway, I still need help on how I should handle this. I’m called to work again this Saturday and I don’t want to be paid illegaly. Asking to be paid Legaly is very awkward however
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While Im here I’d like to mention one other issue. What should I do with the money I’ve already made? Can I still use it?
thank you, and please help!
Also, I feel like I would disapoint my employers, ofcourse I definatly don’t want to do anything wrong, but it only makes it harder. If I quit the job I still have to face my Dad who will be asking ‘why?’. And I’ll have to say that It was because I want to avoid what is wrong. But my Dad will definatl be annoyed at this. My mom says I’m probably the most religious person in my family. I feel like my family is Catholic in name only. So by doing what I think is right in this situation, I’ll have to face their disaproval.
Going against public opinion is hard for me, and I think it is because I was bullied when I was younger (and was very prideful as well). So I’ve always wanted people to think well of me (accept me), and when I was younger I wanted to be the “best” (thankfuly I’m not as proud as I used to be, atleast I’d hope so
That’s my explanation for why public opinion is hard for me to go against, but maybe there is more to it. Anyway, I still need help on how I should handle this. I’m called to work again this Saturday and I don’t want to be paid illegaly. Asking to be paid Legaly is very awkward however
While Im here I’d like to mention one other issue. What should I do with the money I’ve already made? Can I still use it?
thank you, and please help!