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In America at least, I wouldn’t have the option to take the person to the court, the State would do that for me. I would agree also that a severe beating like that should be taken to court. Note what Jesus said in Matthew 5:39-40 “…if anyone hits you on the right cheek, offer him the other as well; if someone wishes to go to law with you to get your tunic, let him have your cloak as well.” These are simple matters that He is talking about, not matters that require severe punishment.There seems to be some wriggling there, which may not convince your classmate.
To up the ante, suppose instead of breaking your tooth, the guy puts you in hospital for a year, damages your brain and disfigures you for life. It would be perfectly human for you and your loved ones to seek a just punishment for the culprit rather than forgive and forget. Forgiving and forgetting would be immoral as well, as it would allow the culprit to go free, uncorrected, and possibly do worse to others. The issues are then about how much punishment and retribution is just, including factors such as whether you started the fight, whether the other guy has a mental problem or prior form, etc. There’s a tension between the hyperbole of the two testaments here, which cannot be answered by absolutes.
And forgiveness is the Ultimate of all things in this world, so I would say forgiving the attacker is the best thing you can do. Forgetting goes alongside with forgiveness, as how can you truly forgive someone if you don’t forget about the incident? Keeping it in your heart hardens it and makes you unable to forgive. So it is not at all immoral (and is actually very moral) to forgive and forget the attacker, but that is not to say he or she shouldn’t be locked up in prison.
The latter leads to the former in the end (I’ve seen it happen several times in my short life), so it doesn’t matter. In the beginning, he knows it is wrong but continues it anyway because "it feels ‘right’ " and later just doesn’t care who knows.But does this kind of guy openly display his predilection to his wife, kids and mother, or does he hide it away because he’s ashamed and knows, in all conscience, he shouldn’t be doing it?
Because we have The Law, handed to us by God himself. I presume you are specifically talking about Matthew 7:1-2, and that is easily solved: if we are judging based on God’s standard while also living by God’s standard, then there is no problem. It is only when you are judging someone by your own standard that it becomes the problem.Nice try, but I’ll raise you Matt 7. How can any of us absolutely know what’s right for others when we’re all fallen?
Glad to have helped. My classmate hasn’t yet responded, but he’s been traveling back to NY (from SC) the last pair of days so I suspect I’ll hear back near Tuesday.Yes it did. Is this discussion helping you in your case with your classmate?