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Lapey
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And thanks to you for answering the call to enter formation; but most importantly, thank you for the witness you give the world by being first a good husband. Remember your wife has to be part of your ministry, as she is part of you; “the two become one flesh…”Thanks Deacon Gary.
I’m one of the 1% Brother JR alludes to, since I am in formation right now.
It’s irritating to see this topic brought up again and again, since it is not a canonical requirement of the diaconate. If it was I would leave formation. My vocation is to my wife first. I made vows to love, honour and obey her 'til death us do part, not until I had a brain storm about another vocation.
It’s for this reason why 99.999% of the time you cannot enter religious life while still married.
These are not mere words on paper, they are words of God. We married men are joined to our wives, the scripture says “…so a man leaves his mother and father and CLINGS to his wife.” This is what the Church upholds, marriage and celibacy side by side. One is not more than the other, but each is less without the other. A married deacon is both married and clergy. One does not, and is not expected to give up marriage to be ordained to the diaconate.
One who is married cannot be celibate, therefore the requirement of PPC is not there; 277.1 is not a standalone canon. There is only one canon which is in a sense “standalone”, Canon #1. If it does not apply to a person, none of them do, it #1 does apply, all of them do in context of the entire code of canon law.