what you choose to call it is irelevant. the catholic church has spoken infallibly on it.
It has? I just checked. “Baptism of desire” applies only to adults who were capable of having the “desire”. It does not apply to infants. Here is a quote:
The Roman Catholic Church teaches that “baptism is necessary for salvation.” (
Catechism of the Catholic Church, ss. 1257). It moreover teaches that baptism confers the forgiveness of sins by virtue of the enactment of the sacrament itself: “(b)y Baptism all sins are forgiven, original sin and all personal sins, as well as all punishment for sin.” (ss. 1263). For Catholics, baptism is a unique, unrepeatable act; no one who has been baptized validly can receive the full pardon conferred by the sacrament a second time. (ss. 1272) Given these doctrines, it is a matter of serious concern for the Catholic Church if a
believing Christian does not receive a valid baptism.
The doctrine of baptism of desire seeks to address some of the implications of these teachings. It holds that
those who come to faith in the Catholic Church as adults and become catechumens before receiving baptism nevertheless are admitted to salvation even though the Church teaches that baptism is necessary for salvation. Non-Christians who seek God with a sincere heart and, moved by grace, try to do His will as they know it through the dictates of conscience can also be saved without water baptism; they are said to desire it implicitly. (cf. Catechism, 1260)
Similarly, those who die as martyrs in a persecution of Christians are also judged by Roman Catholicism to have acquired the benefits of baptism without actually undergoing the ritual; this is the “baptism of blood” (baptismum sanguinis) (ss. 1258).
Because the Catholic Church practises infant baptism, these issues seldom arise except for adult converts to Catholicism who were not baptised as children. The Catholic Church
officially professes uncertainty about the fate in the afterlife of infants who die before baptism, observing that “the Church can only entrust them to the mercy of God” (ss. 1261) although with the
recent Papal rejection of the teaching of Limbo it is ***most commonly ***** accepted that children who die in infancy or who are aborted are admitted into heaven.
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