Many of you can say you’d never attend an LDS service, but perhaps you don’t have Mormon relatives!
Many of my Mormon in-laws had been gracious enough to attend my childrens’ Catholic baptisms. I KNOW they feel likewise about Catholic baptisms “being wrong”, yet they attended. I think most of the reason for their attendence was curiosity. Which is also why we had a huge turnout of my husband’s extended Mormon family for our Catholic wedding. Most of them had never even been inside a Catholic church, let alone seen a wedding or a baptism. Some of the relatives came for my husband’s Catholic baptism just a couple years ago. Again, I think most of it was curiosity and also so that they could “return and report” to the rest of the family.
I’ve not attended any Mormon baptisms because we obviously had a huge falling out before the nieces and nephews began to reach the age of 8. I did attend a service when my husband’s father got his “bishop calling”, when his sister had her missionary farewell, a funeral, and a couple baby blessings.
I don’t feel that my presence expressed my approval for any of it. I certainly didn’t participate in any way, just as they didn’t participate when they came to view. I sat like a lump on a log and just listened and watched. Most of the ward members assumed I was Mormon because here I was, the Bishop’s daughter-in-law. It was quite interesting to watch their expressions when I told them I was Catholic. I also made it a point to wear a crucifix when I attended any of these services. That alone is a missionary tool among Mormons who as a whole, culturally disdain the cross and especially the crucifix. However, I’ve found many Mormons to almost “envy” the cross.
If you wear one among a bunch of Mormons, you’ll find they can’t keep their eyes off your chest.

My husband wears his when he visits his family and I’ve told him now he has some sort of an idea of how big-chested women feel most of the time!
I have an upcoming opportunity again at a social function (not at the LDS church) where I imagine I’ll be the only non-Mormon and everyone will likely assume I am Mormon because I’m attending for an in-law. I’ll get the usual presumptive question…“So, which ward are you in?”
“I’m Catholic”
“Oh”
Then they look confused and conversations usually comes to a screeching halt.
sigh
I sort of see this thing as tit-for-tat. You come to mine, I’ll go to yours.
How else am I going to get those people into the Catholic Church???
