I would also like a member of Lds to clear up a few other questions:
Does the church teach polygamy in eternity? For example will each man who achieves godhood only be married to the woman he was sealed to on earth or will he have more than one wife?
Mormons do not practice polygamy in the church today, although they did in the early years, when Joseph Smith was the prophet. Apparently they were martyred, and the alleged instruction from God that they should marry was because: they had to increase in number and secondly - when a womans husband died, she could not keep his land, so her late husbands brother, for example could take her as his wife. This way the mormon population increased, and they could maintain ownership rights on land.
A couple is sealed for all eternity when they are married in the temple. If the wife should die first, the remaining spouse may marry another woman for time and eternity. If however, the husband dies, the woman is not able to marry another man for time and eternity. She can only have a civil marriage…So, in a nutshell, yes, in the hereafter the man will have many wives.
The mormon church, will apparently, at a future stage, allow polygamy again, when the prophet receives this instruction from God.
Personally, this is one of the doctrines I battle to accept. I have been a less active mormon woman for 5 years and a member for a total of 22. This is just so difficult for me to digest. Not to sound selfish, but my partner is my soulmate. Cant imagine sharing him with another woman, and likewise he would not want to share me with another man.