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RebeccaJ
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Fine, I don’t believe this either.Thank you for the explanation…but you just did it again. I didn’t say that you should ‘feel disrespected.’ I said that it would be disrespect in the eyes of God because of the motives involved. He would know that it was me being disrespectful. Other people could do it without being disrespectful or irreverent, and I even said that I could imagine a time when I could–without being disrespectful. However, not at that time or place.
I once attended a Temple session where someone had smuggled a camera in to take pictures. Those pictures went up on a website later, along with some very denigrating (and false) commentary. I didn’t ‘feel’ disrespected during the session, even though that person was being blatantly disrespectful. He did everything the rest of us did…how were we supposed to know? I may even have shaken his hand or spoken with him quietly sometime during the session; I’ll never know. The only way I did eventually know was that he later told the world that this is exactly what he was doing.
A rosary is not a secret temple ceremony.(grin)
Let me tell you from my perspective. When I was an atheist and started attending mass, I would sit there thinking that me being there, was really messing it up for everyone else. I didn’t believe what anyone there believed. I didn’t recite the creed with everyone, because when I read it, I didn’t believe a word of it. Starting with, “We believe in One God”.
I was trying to understand faith, and God, and I saw people at Mass understood this. Some days, I would just sit, none of the kneel, stand, shake people’s hands. I didn’t want to mess it up for everyone else.
I would watch people, I would see people deep in prayer, I would see the kids poking each other and kneeling with their families in the pew. I could see they belonged there, and that I did not. A former Mormon turned atheist, there alone, trying to understand God. What was I thinking?
Then one day, Msgr.'s homily was about belonging with God. He said that we all belong with God, everyone. That there were people at Mass who were further along in their journey, but that we all struggled at times. Regardless of where we are in our journeys, we belong with God. We belong at Mass.
My journey with God had just begun. I just put a foot on His path, and here was Msgr., telling us this is where I belonged. After that, I went to Mass knowing that it is where I belonged. I knew that I did. And after a year or so of going to Mass, and studying, learning, getting through some major struggles, I knew that I was going to be baptized.
This is all I’m telling you. This is Catholic belief. Everyone belongs at Mass. Everyone belongs with God. Even the person who has the worst of intentions, belongs there.
Mary is a person who understands this. She is the first convert to God’s Church, but unlike the rest of us who struggle, she did not. She is our example, our guiding star. Just like you go to a friend’s mother who is an example of who you want to be and where it is in your life you would like to be, we go to the Mother of God, Mary.
Well, ‘strong’ may be problematic, but outspoken? Yeah, the both of us are that.
I’ll make you a deal; I’ll try to write more clearly, and you, if you think I have written something that completely makes you nuts, will reread it and make certain I actually wrote what you think I did.
dealMight make our exchanges duller, but more productive.