How on earth can you make such presumptions!!! I infer from this statement that you make the judgment that all non-Mormon young people are involved in drugs, alcohol, and sex??? :bigyikes:
According to the statistics, most of 'em are, jerusha. Whether you like that or not, they ARE…the statistics are that 33% of teens (according to “Psychology today”) have sex by the time they are thirteen. That’s…abysmal. Other studies find that 70% of teenagers have had sex by the time they are nineteen.
It is a FACT that teenagers who have strong religious and family backgrounds are far less likely to be in that 33%—or that 70%.
Another fact: it seems that only around 5% of Americans wait for the wedding night. Given these statistics, it only makes sense, if you want to protect yourself and your children, to stay within the culture that you know–and can check up on. Can you be certain? No.
but you do your best, and don’t tell me for one second that you don’t feel the same way, only you want to look for the “Good Catholic boy/girl.”
Are you aware of self-fulfilling prophecy, that negative expectations usually yield negative results? It is no wonder that NCLB is slogging through waist-high snow, when there are educators with your attitudes.
Attitudes? I know facts when I see them. When my students bring me baby pictures–not theirs, but the kids they gave birth to last summer–when the boys sit around telling jokes and miming masturbation while bragging about the ***** (the stars represent language much milder than the word you probably are thinking) they got pregnant two months ago–when the sweetest girl in the class dropped her purse and I helped her pick it up–and had to send her to the nurse because she’s not allowed to have birth control pills and antibiotics in her personal possession at school (they are supposed to be in the nurses’ office if she needs medication during school hours) and she blushingly told me that the antibiotics were because of a ‘thing’ her boyfriend gave her (she’s not quite fifteen) –
Do NOT give me **** about it being my fault because I’m an educator.
I’m supposed to teach these kids how to READ, not form their moral codes, Jerusha. It is not.my.job. to keep them out of the sack with each other.
As a parent, it was my job to watch over MY children. I did that the best way I could.
And do NOT get me started about NCLB. That…thing…is about as stupid an idea as any group of idiots has ever come up with.
Do you realize that according to NCLB, by 2014 EVERY SINGLE STUDENT IN THE COUNTRY must be able to pass the state standardized tests and graduate from high school, ready to go to a four year college?
Did NCLB make any allowances for the kids who have IQ’s of 40? No. It did not. Did it make allowances for kids who are brain damaged, who are emotionally disabled–or who just want to fix cars (and thereby make a whole lot more money than I do!)??
No. It does not—and who is going to be penalized when we can’t get the kid who doesn’t know how to tie his own shoes to graduate from high school ready to attend Harvard?
Why, the teachers and the schools. That’s who.
Right now I am working (and doing a pretty good job, thank you very much) to get 14 year olds who can’t read beyond a 2nd grade level to read something on a 4th grade level–and somehow we are supposed to get these kids into four year universities?
GAAAHHHHHHHHHHH
‘slogging through waist high snow?’ yeah. It is…and the only reason that it’s making any progress at all is because we teachers have been struggling to reach standards and goals that are, quite frankly, impossible.
For little pay, and as you are pretty typical, worse appreciation.
Kids have sex and get pregnant out of wedlock? Jerusha, that is not the fault of the English teacher. If it’s your kid, it’s YOUR fault.