Mormon Missionaries secretly teaching an underage girl

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Such disrespect!
I totally disrespect Joe Smith. He was an evil adulterer con man who duped millions of naive people. He’s likely in hell with the demons that inspired the Mormon lies. I hope Romney isn’t our next president knowing how messed up Mormonism is from first hand experience.
 
I converted from Catholicism to LDS about a year ago. I can tell you that my experience with missionaries was upstanding and above board 100%. The two young men would never meet with me alone – one or two other adults were always present, and I’m in my 40s! My husband didn’t convert, but I needed his permission to get baptized. The message I received at the time of my conversion was that family was the priority, and if joining the LDS church would disrupt my family, then I wouldn’t be baptized. I’m going to go through the Temple for the first time in a few months, but I need my husband’s written permission first. That’s how much family relationships are prioritized. If my LDS activities would cause marital problems, the LDS activities take a back seat. That is directly from my Bishop and reinforced with practices I’ve witnessed over the past year. My point is, any religion can be scandalized by the acts of a few members. The catholic church should certainly understand that concept.
Good luck with all of this. I hope as time goes by that you being Mormon and all that entails (is your husband ok with you tithing? is he going to be ok with you having to wear the temple garment 24/7? ) doesn’t cause a rift between you two.

How much does your husband understand of how much Mormonism will impact your marriage and family life? Does he mind that you are gone for 3 hours on Sunday?

Truth be told, he is going to have to sacrifice a lot to be married to a Mormon. I hope he is ready and fully informed as to what you have placed in your marriage.

God Bless. The two of you are going to need it.
**Dont be surprised if it puts a real big strain on your marriage in the future. You have been warned by those of us who know. **
 
Good luck with all of this. I hope as time goes by that you being Mormon and all that entails (is your husband ok with you tithing? is he going to be ok with you having to wear the temple garment 24/7? ) doesn’t cause a rift between you two.

How much does your husband understand of how much Mormonism will impact your marriage and family life? Does he mind that you are gone for 3 hours on Sunday?

Truth be told, he is going to have to sacrifice a lot to be married to a Mormon. I hope he is ready and fully informed as to what you have placed in your marriage.

God Bless. The two of you are going to need it.
**Dont be surprised if it puts a real big strain on your marriage in the future. You have been warned by those of us who know. **
Yeah…I agree…as time goes by and he doesn’t convert…it is going to be more and more difficult. I don’t wish that situation on anyone.
 
Good luck with all of this. I hope as time goes by that you being Mormon and all that entails (is your husband ok with you tithing? is he going to be ok with you having to wear the temple garment 24/7? ) doesn’t cause a rift between you two.

How much does your husband understand of how much Mormonism will impact your marriage and family life? Does he mind that you are gone for 3 hours on Sunday?

Truth be told, he is going to have to sacrifice a lot to be married to a Mormon. I hope he is ready and fully informed as to what you have placed in your marriage.

God Bless. The two of you are going to need it.
**Dont be surprised if it puts a real big strain on your marriage in the future. You have been warned by those of us who know. **
You should see us at Starbucks…talk about AWKWARD! :eek:

Just kidding… Seriously, I got the husband-thing covered. No worries.
 
I wished I spoke with your bishop, bcs maybe I would till me married and me and my son’s mother would be raising our 2 yr old together. Instead my bishop told me that if I can’t be a faithful mormon and give my a temple wedding, then she shouldn’t be married to me. Where is the familt priority there? Even when we talked to our new bishop, he said the same thing. If the tables were turned and you and your husband were LDS and your were converting to RC, you would that family is no longer a priority, either is friendship. I lost qall the friends I had in church once I can back to the RC.
Paul,
I am sorry. The destruction caused in a marriage and family life when one is Mormon and the other is not is not pretty and filled with pain. It really is a destruction of a family. It’s horrendous. I’ve seen it happen over and over and over again.

I’ll pray for you, your ex and your son.
 
You should see us at Starbucks…talk about AWKWARD! :eek:

Just kidding… Seriously, I got the husband-thing covered. No worries.
LatterDayLady

Im sorry that you think it’s funny. It’s not for many many couples.

I’ve seen the pain and the destruction of many a marriage and family life in your similar circumstances.

I’m sorry that you find their pain and suffering amusing.

It’s not. It’s horrific.
You are a newbie in the LDS church if you were only baptized a year ago. You haven’t seen anything yet. Neither has your marriage.
 
LatterDayLady

Im sorry that you think it’s funny. It’s not for many many couples.

I’ve seen the pain and the destruction of many a marriage and family life in your similar circumstances.

I’m sorry that you find their pain and suffering amusing.

It’s not. It’s horrific.
You are a newbie in the LDS church if you were only baptized a year ago. You haven’t seen anything yet. Neither has your marriage.
Why is it so hard for folks on this thread to accept the idea that people can be LDS and happy, with a stable marriage and adequate decision-making abilities without scandal or deceit? Have I suggested that about Catholics? Have I said anything derogeratory about your beliefs? Is there not heartbreak with some Catholic families, just as in LDS families? Would it be fair to list all the unhappy Catholics, or Baptists, or Quakers and use that as a global judgment on all of that faith? I get it – this is a Catholic forum. But to assume that anyone here has some special insight about my marriage is crazy! Really, we’re fine.

Doesn’t anyone have any interest in the original topic thread?
 
Why is it so hard for folks on this thread to accept the idea that people can be LDS and happy, with a stable marriage and adequate decision-making abilities without scandal or deceit? Have I suggested that about Catholics? Have I said anything derogeratory about your beliefs? Is there not heartbreak with some Catholic families, just as in LDS families? Would it be fair to list all the unhappy Catholics, or Baptists, or Quakers and use that as a global judgment on all of that faith? I get it – this is a Catholic forum. But to assume that anyone here has some special insight about my marriage is crazy! Really, we’re fine.

Doesn’t anyone have any interest in the original topic thread?
I am just pointing out you are a NEWBIE to Mormonism. Which means you dont know a lot. And if you dont know a lot, then neither does your husband. You haven’t lived it, breathed it , for very long. And it hasnt had much time to impact your marriage (family?).

Just being factual. The destruction is real.

The original topic was simple. Some missionaries where teaching a 15 year old w/o permission. The mission president was contact, it was resolved.
 
I am just pointing out you are a NEWBIE to Mormonism. Which means you dont know a lot. And if you dont know a lot, then neither does your husband. You haven’t lived it, breathed it , for very long. And it hasnt had much time to impact your marriage (family?).

Just being factual. The destruction is real.
Really, we’re fine.
 
No, really. We’re fine! 👍
Like I said, you ARE A NEWBIE. That is a factual statement. You have just begun the Mormon journey. That is a factual statement. You are so much in the “honeymoon” stage of Mormomdom.

You said you are about a year out from your baptism and havent been thru the temple yet. There is so much about Mormonism you and your husband simply dont know.

Glad you are fine right now. Hang onto that. Dont be surprised if it ends up being strained.

I do understand that you havent been exposed to and no nothing of the destruction to marriages and families that one spouse is Mormon and the other is not, does.

The is a path of broken marriages and families littering the landscape of the above scenerio.
 
Like I said, you ARE A NEWBIE. That is a factual statement. You have just begun the Mormon journey. That is a factual statement. You are so much in the “honeymoon” stage of Mormomdom.

You said you are about a year out from your baptism and havent been thru the temple yet. There is so much about Mormonism you and your husband simply dont know.

Glad you are fine right now. Hang onto that. Dont be surprised if it ends up being strained.
Y’all will be the first to know when the marriage goes South 😃

In all seriousness, I do enjoy reading all the opinions here. Passionate people help make the world go round!
 
Y’all will be the first to know when the marriage goes South 😃
Does your husband know that you now believe that in the next life you will be married (sealed) to a new husband (chosen by some man you never even met) and all of your children and grandchildren will be sealed to him as well? And that your new husband will be his children’s new father and his grandchildren’s new grandpa?

If he knows, how does he feel about your planned remarriage?

Paul (formerly LDS, now happily Catholic)
 
Does your husband know that you now believe that in the next life you will be married (sealed) to a new husband (chosen by some man you never even met) and all of your children and grandchildren will be sealed to him as well? And that your new husband will be his children’s new father and his grandchildren’s new grandpa?

If he knows, how does he feel about your planned remarriage?

Paul (formerly LDS, now happily Catholic)
(Paul, dont forget to tell her about the new husband’s other wife(ves). She may not know she is gonna have to share with other women. )
 
(Paul, dont forget to tell her about the new husband’s other wife(ves). She may not know she is gonna have to share with other women. )
Yes, and her “sister wives” will also be chosen by someone she and her new husband have never met.

But I guess they won’t really care. LDS apostle Heber C. Kimball expressed the Mormon view of marriage best: “I think no more of taking another wife than I do of buying another cow.”

“The family-centered church.” :rotfl:

Paul (Formerly LDS, now happily Catholic)
 
(Paul, dont forget to tell her about the new husband’s other wife(ves). She may not know she is gonna have to share with other women. )
Please, please stop worrying about me and my long-suffering husband. We’re fine! I’m happy being LDS. The “clever” insights posted about me, my beliefs, and my perceived lack of ability to navigate a marriage come across to me as snippy, sarcastic, and off-putting. I simply posted my opinion about the young missionaries with a brief reference to my former Catholic membership. The outpouring of subsequent responses are funny to a degree, but in no way does it make me want to rejoin your ranks, or at least your congragations. The Catholics I know are loving and welcoming, as I posted earlier. The priests I know are fabulous men with wisdom and giving hearts. Good thing, otherwise I’d think all Catholcs are like many of you lot who poked fun and named called. Provocative, maybe, but not frendly or attractive.
 
Please, please stop worrying about me and my long-suffering husband. We’re fine! I’m happy being LDS.
I wonder if your husband shares your optimism. Perhaps he is completely ignorant of your new beliefs or just doesn’t want to antagonize you, sure in his belief that this is just a phase that you will eventually snap out of. That’s how my dad handled it when my mom joined the LDS at the same time my brother, sister and I joined.

He was right. After about 2 years she finally realized that she had been sold a pack of lies and left the LDS church (while I was on my mission). Nine years later, I woke up and left as well.

Paul (Formerly LDS, now happily Catholic)
 
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