I know there are different legitimate views on this. Let me offer one:
Look at the biggest number on your paycheck. Divide by ten. Send that amount to the good bishop. That night, kneel with your spouse beside your bed, say your prayers, go to bed and,with your clear conscience, have a good night’s sleep. After some experimentation with alternatives, my wife and I recommend this for happiness. I do not see why this would not work for Catholics as well as for Mormons. Do Catholics disagree?
As a catholic, there are many apostolates and missions not supported directly by the church that I also give to. And there are other non-catholic charities I give to as well. Sending that whole amount to the bishop would rob those ministries of funds.
The way the catholic church is organized is much different from the way a mormon, or even other protestant churches, are organized. The mormon structure is a corporate financial structure. All along the way the various churches kick up their money to the top. So eventually the top seat gets it most of the tithing, and disperses it as they see fit to the various charities and needs of the lds church. It’s very top heavy and controlled.
The catholic church is more like a franchise. Each diocese is responsible for it’s own finances, and below that each church. When I give my $$ each week in mass, that money stays in the local parish. They kick up a certain percentage for operating expenses to the diocese, but for the most part it stays in the parish. All of the extraneous catholic charities that are associated with the church, for the most part, are funded seperately by the laity. Which means I can’t just write one check and forget about it. I try to support various local and national and worldwide catholic charities that don’t get funding from the top, but do rely on me. I try to give enough that I feel I am supporting the church. But I also feel that my other charitable giving, including my time and services that I volunteer, are part of my giving to God.
I have a mormon friend that wasn’t kicking in the full tithing and lost his temple recommend. He had a meeting with the bishop to find out why. He told the bishop he couldn’t afford to, if he did he’d lose his house. The bishop said he should give the full tithing, and then if my friend needed help making his house payments to ask the church.
That does not sit well with me. First off, it makes him dependent on his church to live. If he makes his house payment, and gives whats left to the church, he’s still giving what he can to God. If he pays his tithing, he’s giving up his independence in order to give to the church. And then he’s dependent on the church in order to live.
If I needed help I would go to my church and ask, yes. But I wouldn’t put myself in the position of having to ask the church because I donated more $$ than I could afford. Giving should be something you do as a return to God for his blessings and to thank Him. And it should be something you do to give to Him. What my friend’s church was doing to him was compelling giving in return for ‘salvation(?)’, and it is turning that giving to God into giving to the church.
Which makes me happy that I am catholic and I can give to God as a thanks and gratitude. And I can do so not only in $$ to my church, but to God, and in time and service as well. Not because I am compelled to do so to remain in good standing.