Steve,
That indeed is one major purpose. Job 5:17 Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty:
I agree with the teaching, “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.” 25 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.
Not “ultimate”, but certainly living unselfishly and serving others with great love and compassion.
As I had noted, it is not a second chance if the person did not have a “fair” chance during their mortal life to understand what was offered. It has to do with getting a “fair” chance to really make the covenants of the gospel if the person would have desired those with all their heart had they known about them during their mortal life. That’s why it will have been important about “what they did with what they knew.” There is a spectrum of what people do with what they know–whether they stay stagnant, or progress in how they love others and how they show a sincere love for God.
I wasn’t referring to visiting with a therapist. I was referring to figuring out a root cause why one returns to doing what they had committed not to do when they repented. Often, the Savior can help the person through more sincere private prayer where they talk to the Lord about why they did what they did in a self-honest way, or using introspection or a combination of those actions where the person focuses on really being healed from their sin to not do it again.
It means that partaking communion really does require sincere repentance, and the bishops have a role of discernment so that people are ultimately counseled and cautioned not to partake unworthily since that is contrary to the scriptures to do that, and those particular sins require a greater change than just from one week to the next–they require a pattern of changed behavior.
It has to do with worthily partaking of communion, with the keys of the kingdom held by the apostles since the kingdom in that regard is “membership in the church”, and with following the scriptures–both the Bible and the Book of Mormon, in those respects.