It does seem that you are having a personal problem. The threads are not the venue to work these things out. It is possible to have differences of opinon with each other without becoming petty and accusatory.
People don’t get upset about things they dont care about. The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference. For example, if Zundrah were indifferent about Mormons,she would not post some of the hostile things she posts, or would not title the thread “Momons prefer to prey…”. Choices of words such as these denot feelings. People dont’ get strong feelings about things that don’t matter. Your sarcastic remarks and attempts to foster a spat with me demonstrate that you are emotionally engaged. This does not happen when you don’t care. You care enough about something to foster a conflict in a public forum. It might be useful for you to figure out what that is. I don’t think it has anything to do with the thread topic.
I came here because Zundrah opened the thread. However, I am happy to take it upon myself to find your posts, and respond to them as well. I cherish the opportunity. However, let us stay on the topic if we can, ok?
I get lots of help, because she starts lots of threads. None of them have fizzled out for lack of interest from others.
What does that mean “ok”? I am in no position to arbitrate what is “ok” for Mormons to do! We live in a free market society, they are allowed to market their product, just like anyone else. There is plenty of dishonest marketing going on. What are you going to do, amend the constitution, so that the right to free speech is taken out?
Oh, no, not a bit! Taking out personal hostilities during a debate can be a form of grinding your axe. The OP may be grinding an axe, saying that “Mormons prey”. It is a pejorative formulation that indicates hostility and does not foster good communication.
You may find, if you mature, that other people see things differently, and that this does not mean they are “lying” or “twisting”. It just means that people perceive things differently. Our perceptions are based upon our experiences and education (or lack of it)
I think this whole matter is off topic, so I think it would be better to let it drop.
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No, Answers. Members here have no authority or ability to “silence others”. All we can do is give one another feedback about what might be offensive, and why. Understanding how our expressions are offensive to others is part of understanding the differences in our faith. Here in the ND area, people often make remarks that they don’t even realize are offensive until it is explained to them.
It does seem that you are having a personal problem. The threads are not the venue to work these things out. It is possible to have differences of opinon with each other without becoming petty and accusatory.
People don’t get upset about things they dont care about. The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference. For example, if Zundrah were indifferent about Mormons,she would not post some of the hostile things she posts, or would not title the thread “Momons prefer to prey…”. Choices of words such as these denot feelings. People dont’ get strong feelings about things that don’t matter. Your sarcastic remarks and attempts to foster a spat with me demonstrate that you are emotionally engaged. This does not happen when you don’t care. You care enough about something to foster a conflict in a public forum. It might be useful for you to figure out what that is. I don’t think it has anything to do with the thread topic.
Indeed
One of the things I learned here was to accept feedback and redirection from my fellow members. I learned that it is inappropriate to tell others what they should do.
I do apologize if my remarks seemed “snide”. It was meant to be a sincere observation. I did not characterize the OP’s choice of title as “snide” either, but I do think it has hostile connotations.
I think it was a misperception on your part. I said that I did not come here to debat with Mormons, but with Zundrah. I dont’ think the choice of title for the thread is one that fosters productive discussion. Neither do I think slinging the word “lie” around so liberally fosters discussion.