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Peter_John
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Confessing to God specifically in addition to confessing to the priest is an inherent part of the sacrament of reconciliation. The importance of the sacrament involves the role of the Eucharist and the general communion of Saints living and dead. The difference is that while we recognize some sins as mortal and some as venial, all sins need confession.Peter John,
This question has been discussed in a recent earlier thread, but I don’t recall whether you participated at that time. My response here, above, was in context to the situation that had been described, which talked about “the sacrament of Reconciliation” and about “frequent confession”, which didn’t sound to me like confession between an individual and God.
Confession to an LDS bishop when there has been a sexual sin, a criminal offense, a sin of physical or deep psychological abuse against another person, or an abortion, are required for a person to consider that they have completely repented, although they should confess to God first and foremost and seek forgiveness in prayer. The LDS bishop’s role is to discern worthiness to partake of communion and also to counsel and advise as an LDS member has recognized their particular sin in that kind of case and is seeking to change their life fully and thus to be completely forgiven by having accomplished the objective of “go thy way, and sin no more”. This takes time for the showing by personal behavior through sincerity of ongoing action and confirming with the bishop that this has been accomplished–that one has shown over time that they have fully repented.
But in the personal case I had discussed above, I described an example of anger and contention in a family setting–not accompanied by physical or psychological abuse, but words of disagreement and a tone of voice of anger, and this kind of situation does not result in the need for confession to a bishop–but it just as much requires confession to God in prayer and seeking forgiveness from the person who was hurt by the action, mostly through a complete change in behavior the next time there is a disagreement and through showing forth love and understanding and humility.
Most cases of sin in an LDS member’s life are thus the kinds that would not require confession to a bishop, but that doesn’t make it any less important that they confess their sins to God frequently, “praying always” and earnestly seeking both forgiveness and a complete change of heart and change of attitude and change of future action. This is what happens on the “road” toward the “perfecting of the saints”. (Ephesians 4:12)
This is also what happens when one has recognized that they have placed themselves in a joint “yoke” with the Savior, that they are no more “heavy laden” and have unburdened themselves and received His “rest” by placing themselves in a learning situation where He is the Master Teacher and the Good Shepherd and they are comfortable making ongoing changes in their life toward becoming a better disciple of His. (See Matthew 11:28-30)
Also, in confession to LDS officials, at least back when I participated in it, your “confessor” kept records of what you confessed to, which the church maintained, and also kept track if your confessions involved anyone else who was a member of the Church, and you had to report them too. If they were in a different Ward or stake you leader would pass that information on to the appropriate leader.
In the Sacrament of Reconciliation your confessor can never discuss what you say with anyone, and never use it for any other purpose. This is why, except for very extreme purposes, Catholic priests do not confess to their bishops, because that places them in an untenable position regarding their obligations as a confessor.