The question of whether it is difficult or easy to commit a mortal sin is a difficult one to answer because various factors will increase or decrease culpability.
Central to these factors would be (IMHO) maturity, not in the physical sense but in the mental / emotional / spiritual sense.
It seems to me that it is difficult to commit a mortal sin. The three conditions for a mortal sin are:
1) It involves serious matter.
2) Full consent.
3) Full knowledge.
I could not find the three conditions in the CCC. Therefore, I could be mistaken.
No you are not mistaken…but it is important to understand what is meant by these terms. Bookcat supplied a link that I encourage everyone to go to and read - but for the purposes of this conversation I am pasting the two statements that define the above conditions. They are…
1858 Grave matter is specified by the Ten Commandments, corresponding to the answer of Jesus to the rich young man: “Do not kill, Do not commit adultery, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Do not defraud, Honor your father and your mother.” The gravity of sins is more or less great: murder is graver than theft. One must also take into account who is wronged: violence against parents is in itself graver than violence against a stranger.
Note here that the Catechism goes through each commandment providing considerable explanation on each.
The above reference to the 10 commandments would then mean - the commandments as explained and taught by the Church.
1859 Mortal sin requires full knowledge and complete consent. It presupposes knowledge of the sinful character of the act, of its opposition to God’s law. It also implies a consent sufficiently deliberate to be a personal choice. Feigned ignorance and hardness of heart do not diminish, but rather increase, the voluntary character of a sin.
A very important aspect here. “Full knowledge” simply means that you know it’s a sin. It doesn’t even specify that you must know it is a “grave” sin - only that you know it is a sin. Choice is simply a matter of having freedom to act - to make a personal choice.
I can truthfully say that only one time in my life I committed a mortal sin-- I still sinned because I wanted to and did not care about the consequences. Yes, I went to confession and received absolution.
I just know that I have broken my relationship with Jesus when I go to Confession. So, why do people talk about committing mortal sin as if it were easy. Meeting all three of these conditions seems to be rather difficult to me. What do you think?
I think that people speak of it as being easy because there can be a number of sinful impulses contained in a given act. A lie can spring from envy or greed. Theft can have elements of anger. But in all cases, a sin committed with knowledge contains a sin against the first commandment.
You state that when you committed a mortal sin, you knew it and didn’t care. This is important to recognize because in not caring that you were sinning you were violating the first commandment. You were not putting God first in your life. So - no matter what the other sin was - the rejection of God and God’s proper place in your life.
If God is placed first in ones life and if one seeks only to please Him - then sinning of any kind is difficult. But if one does not place God first in their lives…sinning, even serious sinning, becomes quite easy.
Peace
James