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humm…I would not put it quite that way…In other words: in some cases, the decision to not go to Mass can be a mortal sin. But generally speaking, the failure to follow through indicates that the decision was non- or only partially deliberate, and there is no need to confess it. Happily, everyone is right. Bookcat is right that such a decision can sometimes be mortal. jmcrae is right that such things generally don’t have to be confessed. Thoughtfulone’s conscience should be perfectly clear.
If one has full knowledge and deliberate consent…with the grave matter (such as choosing not to go to Mass that Sunday without excusing reason) then one has by definition committed a mortal sin (all things being equal).
And of course…there can be all sorts of temptations…thoughts desires etc…without even one sin.
As to the other Jimmy Akin is quite precise in what he said…so I willl leave it to readers to read his exact words…from top to bottom.
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=515246&page=14
I would not take it as a “general” indicator though per se. Just as the fact that I did not murder my wife…even though I choose to do so with full knowledge and complete consent …us NOT a “general” indicator that I did not commit a mortal sin in my choice.
Each person must examine themselves sincerely to see if they have committed a mortal sin.
Having said that…often a person who is not “un-reflective” or who is quite-reflective will know at least from such examination that they have or have not made such a choice with full knowledge and deliberate consent…and they will know if it was just some temptation …
Those with scruples etc…have serious difficulties with doubt…so the confessor can help them in particular way by asking certain questions…
I certainly would encourage one not to scruple…but speak with ones confessor.