No it does not soften my view at all. The reason is, God through St.Paul says and vehemently Fights against Legalism…
First off, I understand that your in trouble If you commit mortal sin. but to Arbitrary says that person is going straight to hell, EVEN after a life of Devotion, That is Legalistic. That is Letter of the law, and we are no longer under a “law” of Damnation but a law of Grace. We have Confession and Communion and the sacraments Now. Those are all grace.
Now I also understand that works really dont get us anything, they are evidence of our faith and required, but they dont save, but a Servant who serves his master Faithfully for years and years and Screws up, That servant is not just cast out like trash… I am not trying to down play Mortal sin, because there are consequences to everything Good and bad, but God would not jsut throw away one of his kids after one act of indiscretion. For example how many times did Israel fall away and God pulled them back? I mean if you commit Mortal sin you better get your *** into confession FAST. I was in mortal sin this Thursday. I went to confession 2 hours later, because i did not want to fall into anything else, because when your in sin it is so much easier for satan to tempt us to do more and just compound our already mortal state.
But you cant just say “Oh your going to hell” I do Believe you can lose your salvation, I mean the Parable of the servant and the talents is pretty clear. I do not, however, believe it is as easy as some on this thread have made it out to be.
I mean how much stuff does a teenage son have to do in order to get a loving father to hate him. And God hates sin. That Hatred is a good hatred too. It takes a lot, for God to remove his hand and let us go our own way and destroy ourselves.
I mean on thursday, If i died on the way to my Church for confession, I have no DOUBT in my mind that I would not go to hell. I might not go to heaven and i would have to spend some time in Purgatory, but i would not go to Hell. I KNOW i am a Child of God and my Assurance is the Fact that i follow him to the best of My ability, even though i fall, I serve him. I know that I have the privliege to walk into his throne room, with Full confidence of whom i belong too. I know this, because i have the privilege to walk into his presence every Sunday or even during the week, when i cant go on Sunday. Me, some one who has been addicted to pornography, a liar, some one who has placed a game “World of Warcraft” Higher then Him and made the game an idol, A boy who disrespected his parents, and has fallen into sexual temptation with his girlfriend, and while we have not had sex we sometimes do things best saved for Marriage. Me, that man, that wretched sinner, now has the privilege and the honor to be in full communion with God. To take Communion and stand and kneel and sit in the full house of God and Be in the very prescience of Jesus.
you simply can not say, “Oh, your going to hell” because it is not that simple.