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Ok, I possibly committed a mortal sin recently and I can’t go to confession. Reason being I’m in RCIA. I am baptized (Protestant) but not confirmed. What do I do? I’m not sure I can make a perfect act of contrition (putting the sorrow of offending God over the pains of hell or loss of heaven).

If I were to die repentant would I at least make it to purgatory?
 
I’m not sure I can make a perfect act of contrition (putting the sorrow of offending God over the pains of hell or loss of heaven).
An act of perfect contrition may INCLUDE fear of punishment, but must put sorrow of offending God above these fears. Some people think it must be ONLY sorrow of offending God - this is not correct:
CCC 1452 When it arises from a love by which God is loved above all else, contrition is called “perfect” (contrition of charity). Such contrition remits venial sins; it also obtains forgiveness of mortal sins if it includes the firm resolution to have recourse to sacramental confession as soon as possible.
As an RCIA candidate, your “soon as possible” opportunity for Confession will normally be shortly before you are received into the Church. However, if you have a particular concern, you should talk to your priest. There is no theological reason why you (as a Baptized Christian) cannot receive sacramental Confession right now. It would be irregular, but not impossible.
 
An act of perfect contrition may INCLUDE fear of punishment, but must put sorrow of offending God above these fears. Some people think it must be ONLY sorrow of offending God - this is not correct:
As an RCIA candidate, your “soon as possible” opportunity for Confession will normally be shortly before you are received into the Church. However, if you have a particular concern, you should talk to your priest. There is no theological reason why you (as a Baptized Christian) cannot receive sacramental Confession right now. It would be irregular, but not impossible.
I agree with your first point in that the main motivation is sorrow for offending God but fear of Hell can also be part of it.

As for your second point I’m not convinced as I think it only applies in grave circumstances and I don’t think the OP’s situation can be construed as a grave necessity.

CCC 1401 When, in the Ordinary’s judgment, a grave necessity arises, Catholic ministers may give the sacraments of Eucharist, Penance, and Anointing of the Sick to other Christians not in full communion with the Catholic Church, who ask for them of their own will, provided they give evidence of holding the Catholic faith regarding these sacraments and possess the required dispositions.
 
As for your second point I’m not convinced as I think it only applies in grave circumstances and I don’t think the OP’s situation can be construed as a grave necessity.

CCC 1401 When, in the Ordinary’s judgment, a grave necessity arises, Catholic ministers may give the sacraments of Eucharist, Penance, and Anointing of the Sick to other Christians not in full communion with the Catholic Church, who ask for them of their own will, provided they give evidence of holding the Catholic faith regarding these sacraments and possess the required dispositions.
The OP suggested that he (or she) might have committed a mortal sin. The OP did not disclose the nature of this act, so I don’t think anybody on CAF is competent to judge whether a “grave necessity” exists - thus my advice to consult the Parish priest. Certainly a (likely) mortal sin constitutes “grave necessity” and a priest would be obliged (per the article you cited) to offer absolution to a Baptized Christian who is actively seeking full communion with the Catholic Church (who certainly fulfills the other requirements of this article).

My advice to the OP stands: Please consult your Parish priest. He has heard everything, and he can council you, and offer absolution if he feels it is appropriate.
 
The OP suggested that he (or she) might have committed a mortal sin. The OP did not disclose the nature of this act, so I don’t think anybody on CAF is competent to judge whether a “grave necessity” exists - thus my advice to consult the Parish priest. Certainly a (likely) mortal sin constitutes “grave necessity” and a priest would be obliged (per the article you cited) to offer absolution to a Baptized Christian who is actively seeking full communion with the Catholic Church (who certainly fulfills the other requirements of this article).

My advice to the OP stands: Please consult your Parish priest. He has heard everything, and he can council you, and offer absolution if he feels it is appropriate.
Oh I think we can reasonably safely say the OP’s situation is not grave necessity. Its not a matter of competence. Committing a mortal sin does not constitute grave necessity. Grave necessity would be something like danger of death, going into battle etc. If it simply applies to anyone committing a mortal sin then every non-Catholic Christian can go to Confession.
 
If I were in your situation, I would take two steps:

First I would pray that God would give me the ability to make an act of perfect contrition. If I am unable to do something I need to do, I go to God. What is impossible for man, is possible for the King of Kings. Ask Him to make you contrite. Fear of God is the first step towards that process. The very reason that imperfect contrition is acceptable for forgiveness in confession, is because it’s the starting step to perfect contrition when we accept God’s grace in the confessional.

Secondly, I’d go to my priest. I’d tell him I had a very serious matter to talk about. You can’t go to confession, but you can tell him your feelings. You can get advice from him on how to go about it, and that will help you a great deal.
 
Oh I think we can reasonably safely say the OP’s situation is not grave necessity. Its not a matter of competence. Committing a mortal sin does not constitute grave necessity. Grave necessity would be something like danger of death, going into battle etc.
Can we “reasonably” and “safely” make this assumption? The OP did not provide any such background information in the original post. Not even his(her) nationality. Is the OP a soldier in a war zone? Or does the OP work in some other occupation which is inherently life-threatening (such as law enforcement)? Is the OP battling cancer or some other major illness?

Maybe you have discerned from his(her) nine other posts that no such condition exists, and thus feel comfortable in claiming that his(her) situation does not constitute grave necessity. I don’t recall reading those other nine more revealing posts, so I have no knowledge one way or another. Thus I advised (and still advise) that the OP consult his(her) Parish priest. Unless you have further relevant information, I trust you agree, correct?
 
Can we “reasonably” and “safely” make this assumption? The OP did not provide any such background information in the original post. Not even his(her) nationality. Is the OP a soldier in a war zone? Or does the OP work in some other occupation which is inherently life-threatening (such as law enforcement)? Is the OP battling cancer or some other major illness?

Maybe you have discerned from his(her) nine other posts that no such condition exists, and thus feel comfortable in claiming that his(her) situation does not constitute grave necessity. I don’t recall reading those other nine more revealing posts, so I have no knowledge one way or another. Thus I advised (and still advise) that the OP consult his(her) Parish priest. Unless you have further relevant information, I trust you agree, correct?
Yes we can safely assume none of these apply. He is simply a normal person in the RCIA program.
 
Ok, I possibly committed a mortal sin recently and I can’t go to confession. Reason being I’m in RCIA. I am baptized (Protestant) but not confirmed. What do I do? I’m not sure I can make a perfect act of contrition (putting the sorrow of offending God over the pains of hell or loss of heaven).

If I were to die repentant would I at least make it to purgatory?
If I understand Catholic theology correctly in this regard (and it’s notable that I completed a minor in theology at a Catholic college)…

An act of perfect contrition is not something that you can just choose to do, but rather a grace that God may or may not grant you. If God doesn’t grant this to you, and you die before you get to go to confession, you will die with an unforgiven mortal sin on your soul and you will burn forever in Hell.

I would think that a god who is worthy of calling “good” wouldn’t allow that to happen.
 
Yes we can safely assume none of these apply. He is simply a normal person in the RCIA program.
Apologies to the OP for having your thread hijacked. But I cannot allow thistle’s comments to go unchallenged. Please bear with me in charity while I put an end to these irrational comments.

thistle: Why can we safely assume this? Your answer absolutely perplexes me, and strikes me as non-doctrinal as well as uncharitable. While I have known you to be somewhat uncharitable in some instances, I have never known you to be non-doctrinal.

Upon what doctrinal basis do you draw your conclusion? Do you simply assume that everyone in RCIA is a “normal person in the RCIA program?”

I have taught RCIA, and I have never seen a canonical or doctrinal definition of a “normal person” in this program. Would you please provide and cite this definition?

The Catholic Church offers Her Sacraments of Reconciliation to ANY Baptized Christian under certain circumstances. Namely TWO particular circumstances: A matter of “grave necessity” and “provided they give evidence of holding the Catholic faith regarding these sacraments and possess the required dispositions.”

Usually, a candidate of RCIA may be safely presumed to possess the second circumstance by the very virtue of their candidacy - such a person has already professed a firm resolve to join in full communion with the Catholic Church.

You seem to contest the first requirement - a matter of “grave necessity.” Upon what Catholic DOCTRINE do you base your contention that the OP does not qualify?

Is it because the OP is in RCIA? Would you care to cite that in Canon Law?

Would you please cite the canonical definition of “grave necessity” and then cite the reason why you are so confident that the OP does not qualify for this distinction? I have cited Canon Law and the CCC in my responses - would you please be so kind as to do the same? I believe Canon Law gives the minister of the Sacrament wide latitude in interpreting the term, “grave necessity.” Would you please cite why such latitude would not apply to the OP’s priest, or why the OP would not qualify for such consideration?

Or, put another way - why do you feel the Church doctrinally denies Baptized Catholic RCIA Candidates the same Sacramental rights which She offers to any other Baptized protestants under the same conditions, yet where the conditions (especially the second condition) are much more difficult to objectively verify?

thistle, I’m asking you to cite doctrine, not offer your own arbitrary opinions. It’s time to put up, or shut up, so that the OPs question can be answered for once and for all, without you running interference on the thread. I have offered both Canon Law and the Catechism of the Catholic Church. You have offered neither. Do you have *anything *to offer besides your own heterodox opinions to support your assertion that the OP is canonically unqualified to receive the Sacraments of Reconciliation at this time, without even consulting his(her) minister of those very Sacraments?
 
Ok, I possibly committed a mortal sin recently…
First, seek the assistance of a priest and determine if you did indeed commit a mortal sin. As it stands now, you’re not sure. And this is not an invitation to discuss the possible grave matter in this forum. I don’t want to know. I am not a priest and cannot guide you in this situation.

To answer your last question: Yes, most certainly, if you die repentant you will at least make it to purgatory. And that truly is good news.

Peterk
 
Apologies to the OP for having your thread hijacked. But I cannot allow thistle’s comments to go unchallenged. Please bear with me in charity while I put an end to these irrational comments.

thistle: Why can we safely assume this? Your answer absolutely perplexes me, and strikes me as non-doctrinal as well as uncharitable. While I have known you to be somewhat uncharitable in some instances, I have never known you to be non-doctrinal.

Upon what doctrinal basis do you draw your conclusion? Do you simply assume that everyone in RCIA is a “normal person in the RCIA program?”

I have taught RCIA, and I have never seen a canonical or doctrinal definition of a “normal person” in this program. Would you please provide and cite this definition?

The Catholic Church offers Her Sacraments of Reconciliation to ANY Baptized Christian under certain circumstances. Namely TWO particular circumstances: A matter of “grave necessity” and “provided they give evidence of holding the Catholic faith regarding these sacraments and possess the required dispositions.”

Usually, a candidate of RCIA may be safely presumed to possess the second circumstance by the very virtue of their candidacy - such a person has already professed a firm resolve to join in full communion with the Catholic Church.

You seem to contest the first requirement - a matter of “grave necessity.” Upon what Catholic DOCTRINE do you base your contention that the OP does not qualify?

Is it because the OP is in RCIA? Would you care to cite that in Canon Law?

Would you please cite the canonical definition of “grave necessity” and then cite the reason why you are so confident that the OP does not qualify for this distinction? I have cited Canon Law and the CCC in my responses - would you please be so kind as to do the same? I believe Canon Law gives the minister of the Sacrament wide latitude in interpreting the term, “grave necessity.” Would you please cite why such latitude would not apply to the OP’s priest, or why the OP would not qualify for such consideration?

Or, put another way - why do you feel the Church doctrinally denies Baptized Catholic RCIA Candidates the same Sacramental rights which She offers to any other Baptized protestants under the same conditions, yet where the conditions (especially the second condition) are much more difficult to objectively verify?

thistle, I’m asking you to cite doctrine, not offer your own arbitrary opinions. It’s time to put up, or shut up, so that the OPs question can be answered for once and for all, without you running interference on the thread. I have offered both Canon Law and the Catechism of the Catholic Church. You have offered neither. Do you have *anything *to offer besides your own heterodox opinions to support your assertion that the OP is canonically unqualified to receive the Sacraments of Reconciliation at this time, without even consulting his(her) minister of those very Sacraments?
One of your problems is that you try to over-analyse and complicate things.
Unless the OP tells us he is a soldier about to go into battle then common sense would dictate he is a normal person in the RCIA program.

I think your fighting with James White is getting you stressed out!
 
Just to clear things up. I am not going into battle or anything. Just a normal guy in RCIA.
 
One of your problems is that you try to over-analyse and complicate things.
Unless the OP tells us he is a soldier about to go into battle then common sense would dictate he is a normal person in the RCIA program.

I think your fighting with James White is getting you stressed out!
Since the op thinks mortal sin has been committed, then this is already by definition grave matter and a grave issue. He desires to dispose of this sin ASAP. Since the op is already disposed to Catholicism, or he wouldn’t be in RCIA, I think the advice already given to see the priest is excellent advice. No one should go around with mortal sin on their soul, or put off in the future being reconciled, when it could be done immediately. You know already what [1 Jn 5:16…] says. John doesn’t recommend mortal sin to be prayed about for forgiveness like one can do for venial sin.
 
Just to clear things up. I am not going into battle or anything. Just a normal guy in RCIA.
Yeah, but you still could die at any time. Thus, if you are in a state of mortal sin, you are risking everlasting torture, a huge risk.
 
Since the op thinks mortal sin has been committed, then this is already by definition grave matter and a grave issue. He desires to dispose of this sin ASAP. Since the op is already disposed to Catholicism, or he wouldn’t be in RCIA, I think the advice already given to see the priest is excellent advice. No one should go around with mortal sin on their soul, or put off in the future being reconciled, when it could be done immediately. You know already what [1 Jn 5:16…] says. John doesn’t recommend mortal sin to be prayed about for forgiveness like one can do for venial sin.
But we are not talking about grave matter. We are talking about grave necessity. These are different. Grave matter is one of the conditions that has to be satisfied before a mortal sin can be committed. If a person does not know an act is a sin of grave matter then by committing the sin they have not committed a mortal sin.

Grave necessity is a special circumstance that would allow a non-Catholic Christian to have access to the Sacraments of Eucharist, Penance, and Anointing of the Sick. The Church does not list what is defined as grave necessity. This is left up to the local Ordinary. In an earlier post I opined that danger of death, going into battle could constitute grave necessity but our friend DavidFilmer seems to disagree yet has not ventured an opinion on what he considers grave necessity.
 
But we are not talking about grave matter. We are talking about grave necessity. These are different. Grave matter is one of the conditions that has to be satisfied before a mortal sin can be committed. If a person does not know an act is a sin of grave matter then by committing the sin they have not committed a mortal sin.
thistle,

Go back and read his post. He’s concerned. Therefore, in my mind he knew the matter was grave, he obviously consented, now his conscience is telling him to be rid of the sin.
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Grave necessity is a special circumstance that would allow a non-Catholic Christian to have access to the Sacraments of Eucharist, Penance, and Anointing of the Sick. The Church does not list what is defined as grave necessity. This is left up to the local Ordinary. In an earlier post I opined that danger of death, going into battle could constitute grave necessity but our friend DavidFilmer seems to disagree yet has not ventured an opinion on what he considers grave necessity.
The advice for him to see the priest was a good one. I hope he does that.
 
thistle,

Go back and read his post. He’s concerned. Therefore, in my mind he knew the matter was grave, he obviously consented, now his conscience is telling him to be rid of the sin.

The advice for him to see the priest was a good one. I hope he does that.
I know. I was explaining to you the difference between grave matter and grave necessity and just because someone has committed a mortal sin does not automatically follow that the circumstance of grave necessity exists.
I would imagine it would be pretty rare for the local ordinary to give a non-Catholic Christian access to the three sacraments.

I do agree that he should talk to the priest.
 
im in rcia was baptised as a baby in a catholic church and i have gone to confession two time if you have been baptised i would see no reason why you couldnt go but then again im not an expert
 
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