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Because God is perfect love He wants to share His Divine Life with others.
This view stems from a misunderstanding of Hell. Those who are in Hell, simply put, want to be there more than they want to be in the presence of God, Who they shunned in life. A soul that chooses Hell says “How DARE you show me what I could be, if I loved You and trusted You? How DARE you show me what I am, without You? I will hide in the dark forever, away from you, so that I do not have to see what I have chosen to be in the Light of Your presence.” God does not ever force our free will, and He will not force those who do not want to be with Him to stay with Him forever.One big theological issue for me is the coexistence of heaven and hell. It would seem like contradiction, and furthermore, punishing those who don’t know better does not sound like something a perfectly benevolent God would do.
The bolded is mine. You are correct; it does not apply.Also, if we hadn’t been created, would God still be completely generous and completely loving?** I know that God is not mundane like creation is, so it may not apply, **but in human account, one is not considered generous until one gives selflessly. It would seem as if God’s infinite love hinges on our potential and/or actual existence.
True. You’ve got a good grasp of things there.I’m in no way intending to bring down God…~snip for space~
The fact that God is unchanging means we can trust His word and His action. As God is omnipotent, He also knew us before we were ever created; He has always loved us, and He will always love us.What is love? From a non-theological standpoint, what is it? Love doesn’t occur unless there is an agent that loves another. Saying God is love is like saying that without us, God wouldn’t be, which is paradoxical. Or, God becomes love when he creates agents capable of it. Yet, God is unchanging.
See above. That God has chosen to give some of what we know about Him through His creation (men) only underscores our importance. It takes study of history, logic and theology to understand and see the connections between God’s actions through the ages concerning His relationship with man.Because of this, God has to be greater than love. Love and other things, perhaps. The traditional Christian view is that He is love. It’s far more easy to prove that “God” exists than to prove that God is the very same God as described in the bible. In its loosest definition, “God” cannot be denied, even by an atheist (that is, an uncaused cause). Any more specific you get (a personal god or gods, the laws of physics, the universe itself, etc.), the harder it is to prove.
History, theology, logic. Study the early Christians, and look at WHY we believe what we believe. It takes time, but you will find the answers you seek. If I can help, I’d be glad to.So, assuming that God created the universe and that God is personal, we are left with the following: this could be YHWH, Brahma, al-Lah, Waheguru, Vishnu, Ahura Mazda (albeit only to a certain extent), and so on. Which am I supposed to worship? That’s the real issue from my standpoint, not whether God exists.
Sorry about that. What I mean is, there is no “potentiality” to God’s love; He knew us before we were ever created (which ought to make you feel very special about yourself, indeed). All things happen in God’s time, including our creation here on earth; God has loved us from the very beginning of time, and before.With all due respect, I’m not sure whether this is a relevant retort to my original claim that love exists as a potentiality. Please elaborate.
Yup. God doesn’t need us, yet here We are. I feel loved, for my part. Do you?God could want us to be, just how I could want to get married. However, God doesn’t need us, just how I don’t need to have a wife to be content. Again though, good argument. I realize that by getting married, I’m supplying contentment to at least one other individual.
He does love all of creation equally, but not all creation is equal. We are afforded the astounding gift of receiving Christ in the Real Presence of the Eucharist, something that no other creature in creation is given, not even the angels. Now, that’s not to say that we don’t look up to the angels for what they are, or that we are inherently better than they; they just aren’t allotted some of what we are, and vice-versa. I’m pointing it out as an example of just how much God DOES love us, and has always loved us. I recommend more reading on the angels by the various Saints in order to increase your knowledge and perspective.First, how are the angels not afforded the honor we are? I’m just really more curious than anything, as it would intuitively seem that God would love all creation equally, from the saints to Satan himself.
Do you think people NEED their spouses to be happy and whole human beings? If someone loses their spouse in an accident, say, do they automatically shrivel up and die without them?Second, it certainly doesn’t make us trivial (I would not deny that), but you didn’t actually counter-argue that last point; if we are not trivial* to God*, then God needs us, by definition, in some way or another, which I question, considering God is perfect and doesn’t “need” anything.
Exactly. God is love even before we were created. He doesn’t need us to love because he is love. Love creates (is fruitful) by nature. He creates us because he is love.To HardrockGTR"
I don’t know if this will be helpful for you, but I will mention it:
God is family (Trinity). Three Persons …One God. This “family” reaches out in perfect Love.
No one of those Persons is either of the others, each one is wholly himself. The First Person (called Father) infinitely loves the Second Person (called Son) with a love we cannot imagine. …And the Son loves the Father likewise. This generates the Third Person (called Holy Spirit).
This Divine Family wants to share its Divine Life with others who will accept it.
The Mystery of Love!
That’s my point. Those who shunned God are those who didn’t realize in their mortal life that it’s better to accept Him.This view stems from a misunderstanding of Hell. Those who are in Hell, simply put, want to be there more than they want to be in the presence of God, Who they shunned in life. A soul that chooses Hell says “How DARE you show me what I could be, if I loved You and trusted You? How DARE you show me what I am, without You? I will hide in the dark forever, away from you, so that I do not have to see what I have chosen to be in the Light of Your presence.” God does not ever force our free will, and He will not force those who do not want to be with Him to stay with Him forever.
I’ll take your word for it.The bolded is mine. You are correct; it does not apply.The fact is, God DID create us and DID create the world. He Is generous and all-loving. The questions you’re asking yourself essentially amount to “What if circles were square?” or “What if red was blue?” Circles are circles, squares are squares and God is all-loving and generous.
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He also knew who was going to suffer eternal torment after death. Creating them and/or allowing such a punishment doesn’t sound like something a perfectly loving God would do. Again, I’d far more rather that everyone not have free will, but that we’re all pious and happy.The fact that God is unchanging means we can trust His word and His action. As God is omnipotent, He also knew us before we were ever created; He has always loved us, and He will always love us.
Of course. I certainly believe that theology and philosophy in general should be far more studied by the general public as it is foundation for any meaning in anything, especially considering that so many people aren’t very informed on the former. There are so many people to whom existential thoughts had not once crossed their minds.See above. That God has chosen to give some of what we know about Him through His creation (men) only underscores our importance. It takes study of history, logic and theology to understand and see the connections between God’s actions through the ages concerning His relationship with man.
Thanks. I guess the main goal of this forum’s faithful is to try to get more people closer to the faith. I mainly joined because I love theology, philosophy and religion as subjects and enjoy discussing them. In my humble opinion, I think I keep a very open mind (something a bad philosopher lacks) which can both aid and stifle my search for truth.History, theology, logic. Study the early Christians, and look at WHY we believe what we believe. It takes time, but you will find the answers you seek. If I can help, I’d be glad to.
This may be diverting from the current discussion a bit, but does this mean that we, as a universe, are infinitesimally imperfect? We can’t be perfect like God as that is logical contradiction (without bringing pantheism into the picture), so God can only make us as close as possible to perfect. Does this mean He has made us infinitesimally imperfect, and does this mean no other universe could have been?Sorry about that. What I mean is, there is no “potentiality” to God’s love; He knew us before we were ever created (which ought to make you feel very special about yourself, indeed). All things happen in God’s time, including our creation here on earth; God has loved us from the very beginning of time, and before.
Makes sense. Of course, some Protestants will argue that we exist because of “God’s Plan”, and that God predestines us either to heaven or hell for His own purposes.Yup. God doesn’t need us, yet here We are. I feel loved, for my part. Do you?
Why then are non-human animals refused admission to an afterlife like we are? This always has been a minor problem I’ve had with Christian cosmology.He does love all of creation equally, but not all creation is equal. We are afforded the astounding gift of receiving Christ in the Real Presence of the Eucharist, something that no other creature in creation is given, not even the angels. Now, that’s not to say that we don’t look up to the angels for what they are, or that we are inherently better than they; they just aren’t allotted some of what we are, and vice-versa. I’m pointing it out as an example of just how much God DOES love us, and has always loved us. I recommend more reading on the angels by the various Saints in order to increase your knowledge and perspective.
Perhaps it’s because I’m the type who loves a person too much, but I probably would.Do you think people NEED their spouses to be happy and whole human beings? If someone loses their spouse in an accident, say, do they automatically shrivel up and die without them?
If divine life is happiness, again, I would be utterly foolish to deny it. Yet I’m agnostic.This Divine Family wants to share its Divine Life with others who will accept it.
The Mystery of Love!
…that doesn’t make any sense, though. Shunning, by its very nature, is denying something you know about. You can’t “shun” something you’re not informed about (though actively choosing not to be informed might be considered as such. It’s all about context).That’s my point. Those who shunned God are those who didn’t realize in their mortal life that it’s better to accept Him.
You can’t shun what you don’t know. God knows our hearts better than any of us, including ourselves; we throw ourselves upon his Mercy, and in that mercy lies our hope. Now, if we really WANT that mercy, we start taking steps. Maybe they’re tiny, at first, but to claim something you first have to move toward it.I still am unable to believe that an atheist or non-Christian “hates” God by virtue of simply not knowing God or, at the very least, fear Him and convince themselves out of fear that He is not real.
No Catholic has ever claimed to know with certainty if a person has been condemned to Hell, or not. (And the Baha’i believe that everything is true and nobody is wrong, so I’d take their ideas with a massive grain of salt.) You will only go to Hell after you die if that’s where you really WANT to be.I’m agnostic but I have no reason to hate God if He exists. It would be foolish to, and those who actively hate God are fools who simply don’t know better. Yet, from what I know, all the Abrahamic religions (barring perhaps Baha’i) insist that because of my agnosticism, I’m doomed to suffer both emotionally and physically for all eternity.
Hell is actually another sign of God’s mercy, believe it or not. He’s not going to force anyone who doesn’t want to be with Him to remain in His presence for eternity…it would be unbearable for them. You’ve got to understand that Hell is a CHOICE, not a punishment. The angels exist timelessly, and so have already made their ultimate choices. Satan will never be reconciled with God; he’s already made his choices, too, as did Judas.I’d rather believe none of it is true, honestly, and that there is no afterlife, period. The existence of heaven is not worth the existence of hell. Free will is certainly not worth the existence of hell. What I’d want to see is Satan himself coming to peace with God and accepting Him. Some,* including Jesus himself*, would argue that it is better for someone (in context, it’s Judas) never to have lived than to wind up in hell. For that, *existence itself *is not worth the existence of hell.
That’s where diligent study about theology, logic, history and reason will help you.I worry less about trusting God than I do about trusting myself in what I put my faith into.
I’m not familiar with that theory…can you extrapolate?Side note: I occasionally worry about Descartes’ Evil Demon theory (which I came up with independently of Descartes) as well, which is worse than solipsism (which I have considered in the past).
We’d all be pious, happy robots. What point would our existence even have, at that point? It’s precisely because of our free will that our lives have such meaning and purpose. And AGAIN, because of that free will, which imparts a true ability to love others, Hell is the most merciful choice for those whose free will leads them away from God.He also knew who was going to suffer eternal torment after death. Creating them and/or allowing such a punishment doesn’t sound like something a perfectly loving God would do. Again, I’d far more rather that everyone not have free will, but that we’re all pious and happy.
Truth.studied by the general public as it is foundation for any meaning in anything, especially considering that so many people aren’t very informed on the former. There are so many people to whom existential thoughts had not once crossed their minds.
There’s nothing wrong with an open mind; you’d never be able to talk to anyone remotely different from you if you didn’t have one. Just remember that an open mind does not, of itself, grant us a license to dismiss the truth any more than, say, owning a car grants us license to run people over with it. The mind is a tool, and any tool can be misused if we’re not careful.Thanks. I guess the main goal of this forum’s faithful is to try to get more people closer to the faith. I mainly joined because I love theology, philosophy and religion as subjects and enjoy discussing them. In my humble opinion, I think I keep a very open mind (something a bad philosopher lacks) which can both aid and stifle my search for truth.
To be honest, I’m not quite sure what you mean by “infinitesimally imperfect.” Philosophy is not, as of yet, one of my strengths. Can you explain for a layman, please?This may be diverting from the current discussion a bit, but does this mean that we, as a universe, are infinitesimally imperfect? We can’t be perfect like God as that is logical contradiction (without bringing pantheism into the picture), so God can only make us as close as possible to perfect. Does this mean He has made us infinitesimally imperfect, and does this mean no other universe could have been?
Gottfried Leibniz argued that this is the best of all possible worlds. Either Leibniz should have said “this is one of the many possible worlds that are best”, or there simply are no other possible universes.
The subject of ‘a loving God’ and ‘eternal torment’ is a tough one to marry.He also knew who was going to suffer eternal torment after death. Creating them and/or allowing such a punishment doesn’t sound like something a perfectly loving God would do. Again, I’d far more rather that everyone not have free will, but that we’re all pious and happy.
Thoughtful and well saidThe subject of ‘a loving God’ and ‘eternal torment’ is a tough one to marry.
If you are having a dinner party for your parents and they cancel at the last minute, is their absense your fault?
Consider God as the host of the party. God texted an invitation to us (not a ransom note).
God perfectly loves, love by definition is freely given - to force a return, can’t be love.
So to say God perfectly loves AND people end up in eternal torment, to find the cause is not to point at God since it is an impossibility. We can’t blame God for being unloving, if He is All Loving.
That leaves us with looking at the tormented for a cause.
Why might someone reject an invitation to a party? There are as many answers as pixels on the screen. Let’s say they thought the invitation was junk mail.
How does someone ensure they don’t miss a party? They conciously and actively look for the invitation, they conciously RSVP, they conciously prepare for the party.
Yes!Thoughtful and well said
Then “shun” isn’t the right term. Anyone who “shuns” (for lack of better term) God here on Earth merely doesn’t know God enough to not be foolish as to reject Him. In other words, nobody truly shuns God because nobody truly knows God, not even those with the beatific vision.…that doesn’t make any sense, though. Shunning, by its very nature, is denying something you know about. You can’t “shun” something you’re not informed about (though actively choosing not to be informed might be considered as such. It’s all about context).
Again, though, this doesn’t solve the problem that non-Christians (be they Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, Buddhist, Zoroastrian, pagan, pantheist, atheist, agnostic, etc.) have not found God of Christianity and, because of it, the Catholic Church and the bible itself teaches that they’re going to hell if they die unrepentant of not believing Christ is their savior.You can’t shun what you don’t know. God knows our hearts better than any of us, including ourselves; we throw ourselves upon his Mercy, and in that mercy lies our hope. Now, if we really WANT that mercy, we start taking steps. Maybe they’re tiny, at first, but to claim something you first have to move toward it.
But that’s simply not true. Jesus said Judas (who felt immense guilt, returned the thirty pieces of silver, and then killed himself as self-punishment and grief) was going to hell. And we know Satan and his angels are condemned to hell as well. Conversely, we have a list of saints, people the Church claims are already in heaven, and the beatified, who are soon going to be in heaven. Some saints have been horrible people, too; Torquemada was the most notorious name of the Spanish Inquisition (and if I’m not mistaken, all it took back then to be considered a saint was to be a martyr, which Torquemada certainly was), and Saint Paul slaughtered Christians by the dozen before his conversion.No Catholic has ever claimed to know with certainty if a person has been condemned to Hell, or not. (And the Baha’i believe that everything is true and nobody is wrong, so I’d take their ideas with a massive grain of salt.) You will only go to Hell after you die if that’s where you really WANT to be.
And hell isn’t?Hell is actually another sign of God’s mercy, believe it or not. He’s not going to force anyone who doesn’t want to be with Him to remain in His presence for eternity…it would be unbearable for them.
I am unable to reconcile hell being a choice with falling to temptation once, mortally sinning, dying before being capable of repenting and, according to Catholic doctrine, ultimately being sent to hell.You’ve got to understand that Hell is a CHOICE, not a punishment. The angels exist timelessly, and so have already made their ultimate choices. Satan will never be reconciled with God; he’s already made his choices, too, as did Judas.
Those have both aided and stifled me in my search for truth. But yeah. Ultimately, I study those subjects in great part out of interest.That’s where diligent study about theology, logic, history and reason will help you.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evil_DemonI’m not familiar with that theory…can you extrapolate?
Okay.We’d all be pious, happy robots.
It would seem then that ultimately, choosing heaven over hell is really arbitrary.What point would our existence even have, at that point? It’s precisely because of our free will that our lives have such meaning and purpose. And AGAIN, because of that free will, which imparts a true ability to love others, Hell is the most merciful choice for those whose free will leads them away from God.
Of course, but once the truth is known, I would think denial would be utterly impossible. You could dislike the truth and possibly defy it, which would be foolish, because deep down, you would be unable deny it.There’s nothing wrong with an open mind; you’d never be able to talk to anyone remotely different from you if you didn’t have one. Just remember that an open mind does not, of itself, grant us a license to dismiss the truth any more than, say, owning a car grants us license to run people over with it. The mind is a tool, and any tool can be misused if we’re not careful.
By that (a term I coined, mind you) I mean that it is a logical contradiction to say that God can create perfection (as demonstrated in the “God cannot create God” paradox). That said, the very best he can do is create something that is as close to perfect as logically possible, therefore infinitesimally imperfect.To be honest, I’m not quite sure what you mean by “infinitesimally imperfect.” Philosophy is not, as of yet, one of my strengths. Can you explain for a layman, please?
To be fair though, His invitation is incredibly cryptic and arbitrarily difficult to decipher. By that I do not refer to the Bible (if only solely), but to rationality, to seeking and discovering “the truth”, some people of which never have the thought cross their minds. It would be false and arrogant to say that “not having the thought cross one’s mind” is an intentional act and/or sin.The subject of ‘a loving God’ and ‘eternal torment’ is a tough one to marry.
If you are having a dinner party for your parents and they cancel at the last minute, is their absense your fault?
Consider God as the host of the party. God texted an invitation to us (not a ransom note).
Some of my biggest problems are the following:How does someone ensure they don’t miss a party? They conciously and actively look for the invitation, they conciously RSVP, they conciously prepare for the party.
To save space, I cut out the list, (those reading backwards, keep going backwards)To be fair though, His invitation is incredibly cryptic and arbitrarily difficult to decipher. By that I do not refer to the Bible (if only solely), but to rationality, to seeking and discovering “the truth”, some people of which never have the thought cross their minds. It would be false and arrogant to say that “not having the thought cross one’s mind” is an intentional act and/or sin.
Some of my biggest problems are the following:
1 - 8.
I wholly agree, which is one reason I still study theology and religion somewhat periodically (other than general interest). However, the reason my opinion will change is precisely because I try deciphering what I consider cryptic (reality, the truth, philosophy, etc.).With regard to your first point - "His invitation is incredibly cryptic and arbitrarily difficult to decipher. "
This is your opinion today. Opinions have the ability to change. Opinions change with increased understanding of a subject.
Fair enough.I do not share in this opinion. This opinion could be listed in your list of problems.
Also fair enough. However, some people have their lives taken before their time, such as teenagers or children who are killed in one way or another.Next point -" “Truth” and our desire (or lack thereof) to look for truth" -
Regardless of an actual or percieved clean or muddy delivery of the invitation(s), I agree, there are many people who do not consider the subject.
There is a lot going on in people’s lives whether they are the creator’s of their life’s ‘noise’ or are caught up in the world’s ‘noise’, in order to even have the desire to look for God, there must be a period of silence, God can’t fill an area that is already full. We must turn down the volume of the world. In that silence, is when we hear the text bell ring.
It’s like someone walking by the party on the sidewalk, ‘All are welcome’ is bannered above the house -
The host can either ignore the person or stop him and ASK him if he wants to join.
OR
The person can stop and find out what’s going on.
The end decision is still in the hands of the ignorant. There will be a day when all ignorant people are presented with the truth and consciously make a decision from there. Simply by the definition of love, this must be the case as God can’t force.
I suppose. It seems though as your friend is either not intentionally filling his life with stuff that doesn’t matter (at least, not from his perspective), or is a #6 type, in which he is deluding himself on purpose because he secretly fears the unknown, as we all do.Next - searching for truth - “not having the thought “cross one’s mind” is an intentional act and/or sin” -
We can cut sin right out regarding searching for truth. A very good friend of mine has no intention to search for truth, I can guarantee you it doesn’t cross his mind. I’m sure he has his sins, but one not because he is not searching.
However, he is intentionally filling his life with stuff that doesn’t matter in the big picture. If God loves us, he must want us during all of our existance. The purpose of life must be much bigger than intentionally or not intentionally avoiding sin.
The points I’ve listed aren’t intentional rejections however, and so, the “”“rejectors”"", I feel, should not be accounted culpable.I have to cut this off, but with regard to your list now -
I see each one as an example of this point -
"Why might someone reject an invitation to a party? There are as many answers as pixels on the screen. "
What you said about not loving God because you saw no need, that is interesting to me.How does one love a being one doesn’t know or feel, though?
That’s always been something that struck me as weird. Even when I was a Catholic I didn’t feel love as an emotion for God because 1) I felt like God was all-powerful and didn’t need it, and 2) I didn’t know God or have any reason to love such a being. Not because I dislike or disliked God, but rather because I could not love a being that seems so foreign and alien to me. I later took that “loving” God was to be a good person, since God is love.
Then I left Catholicism for various reasons and am now agnostic for wholly different reasons.