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No, pansexual means being attracted to a person for who they are not for their gender. Being gender fluid means I can go either way. I’m cis male but many times been called ma’am. Not a special snowflake but just me. 🙂
What is “cis”?
 
Seriously? You’re telling us that using a girl’s name meant you “never knew” that anyone would assume you were female? :ehh:

And maybe this is why you weren’t exactly upfront with us:

This is a Catholic Forum. Morality enters into every aspect of it. People should not come on here with the expectation that we will grant special favors or give support in any way, shape or form that is contrary to Church teaching.

Not uncommon on the Family Life Forum.

The bottom line is your post needed clarification. We cannot assist someone in pushing forward with a relationship not recognized by the Church, and that was not by any means clear in your post, and you may have intentionally concealed that information.

That sort of behavior will raise red flags every time.
My gender nor my preference should matter. My school’s name was St. Catherine’s Indian School aka St. Kate’s. Even my first post I said I was a male. Neesh.

All I am asking is a date movie nothing more or less.
 
My gender nor my preference should matter. My school’s name was St. Catherine’s Indian School aka St. Kate’s. Even my first post I said I was a male. Neesh.

All I am asking is a date movie nothing more or less.
Of course it matters. My advice would be to start dating when you’re less confused about your sex. Hopefully you’ll grow out of the whole gender fluid nonsense and be able to look back with a little bit of embarrassment that you ever bought into that nonsense.
 
Of course it matters. My advice would be to start dating when you’re less confused about your sex. Hopefully you’ll grow out of the whole gender fluid nonsense and be able to look back with a little bit of embarrassment that you ever bought into that nonsense.
I’m 35. There is nothing to “grow out of”.
 
So cis basically means that I was born female and “feel” female? If this definition is true, then I totally don’t get it. Why is a label needed?
Fair question. Not really “feel” more like you identify as the gender assigned to you at birth.
 
No, pansexual means being attracted to a person for who they are not for their gender. Being gender fluid means I can go either way. I’m cis male but many times been called ma’am. Not a special snowflake but just me. 🙂
what is “cis” male mean?
 
Fair question. Not really “feel” more like you identify as the gender assigned to you at birth.
So why is a label needed? Since the majority of people “identify” as their actual gender, why is it needed?

It’s like if I constantly identified myself as a homeschooler…in a homeschooling group.
 
what is “cis” male mean?
oh I see that question already asked.
I also am still confused.

now I understand why I went to the doctor for the first time in 4-5 years the other day and the medical assistant said “you were born female and …”. I answered I am still female. I never thought the day would come when they were questioning your gender after birth or wanting to know the sex of your partners! then I remembered Caitlyn Jenner. This is the nonsense the rest of us have to put up with now.
 
=NM505StKate;13681265]My gender nor my preference should matter.
It matters if you are soliciting relationship advice on a Catholic site or from Catholics.
Even my first post I said I was a male. Neesh.
You’re not making a very strong argument here. Your first post? What first post? The first one you made on CAF? If so, do you think people check your posting history to determine gender?

If you mean the first post on this thread, that was anything but clear.
All I am asking is a date movie nothing more or less.
No, you’re not. You first posted on here in vague terms.

The reason why this has become an issue is because you weren’t completely clear in the first place and it looked like you were concealing something, and at worst trying to scandalize other Catholics into providing advice for what could have been a sinful relationship.

That kind of behavior presents more of an issue than just asking about dating advice.
 
Okay let me put it this way. If you take a person from a time where modern technolofy isn’t present how do you think they would react?
I think you need to study the Faith some more. You’re buying into linear secular viewpoints far too much on here.
 
Okay let me put it this way. If you take a person from a time where modern technolofy isn’t present how do you think they would react?
Yessss…

But God is, well, God. It’s not like he’s not aware of what happens in other times and places (you know, omnipotent and omniscient). Now an argument could be made that perhaps Jesus didn’t have access to this information, but it would be an unclear one. Certainly he had the *capacity *to have access to all the information concerning movies (and all future movies and whatever we have instead of movies in the future) even if said capacity was not actualized for whatever reason. I certainly don’t think he would call it witchcraft, because he knows perfectly well when demons are interfering with things (better than anyone, actually). 😉

On another note this thread is getting a bit off of track. I too thought NM505 was female and was thus mildly offended by the fact that NM505 was (as I saw it) asking for advice on a homosexual date from people who were not in fact supportive of homosexual dates. I chose to hold my tongue because I didn’t want to be uncharitable and so that other, wiser people could respond. That being said, I would highly recommend that we reroute the thread towards its original purpose now that the issue has been cleared up.

Chastising the OP for uncatholic/unchristian views about sexuality will do no good to help him understand a philosophical viewpoint that he has not been exposed to and is, if anything, merely off putting. Do I disagree with his ideology? Yes, fervently. Do we need to address it this instant or address it through mockery (however apt it may or may not be)? No I don’t think we do. We certainly ought not be rude while doing so, if we do.

On another note, NM505, you might be benefitted by putting “male” on your profile if it isn’t there already. The Kate part is really, really confusing. 😉

Ahem…

Now back to movies. As you know, NM505, Christians typically support a certain amount of self-awareness about what types of movies we watch and their intents and purposes. While we try not to fall into the bad habit of censoring perfectly helpful (if slightly flawed)movies, the act of media discernment is an important habit to get into. Some movies are honestly not healthy to either dwell on or fill ourselves with, because what we “digest” mentally literally shapes our actions, thoughts, and arguably our very soul. (This is why Christians object so strenuously to Pornography and other vices).

Colossians 2:8: “See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.”

Given what I have read about Deadpool, I simply cannot recommend it. I do like the vague outline of the character Deadpool (as portrayed for kids in Lego videogames :D), but he has many frankly unsettling characteristics in this movie and in his comics that make me unwilling to let that particular character influence me. He is very much not in any way a hero I want to look up to or be more like, which I think negates the whole point of a superhero. While we can’t expect fully perfect heroes, I believe it is important to focus our mind on standards that are good and noble – better than us, and therefore someone we can look up to and follow. Characters like Deadpool act as negative role-models that do not portray these good characteristics, acting as a bad example rather than a positive one. [See for example, this Family Friendliness review: Deadpool - Plugged In. Warning. Some spoilers.]

Ultimately, the choice is up to you. I can’t (and won’t) tell you what to watch. You are an adult, the decision is yours and yours alone. But if you want a move that portrays a man who was truly a hero, I suggest Race, the story about Jesse Owen, a black runner who bested the Nazis, proving that their Aryan-only pride was unrealistic and unreal. He has his failures too, but he, unlike Deadpool, is a man who can truly be looked up to – and, ironically, a greater hero as well. [Family Friendliness Review: http://www.pluggedin.com/movie-reviews/race-2016 Warning. Some Spoilers.]
 
Well after all of that I do have a movie suggestion for you and your “date” who should be decerning you for marriage and a future father.
How about attending a screening of the passion of the Christ. Separately.

Then end it with adoration at a local chapel. From there you can say goodnight to Jesus.
 
So why is a label needed? Since the majority of people “identify” as their actual gender, why is it needed?

It’s like if I constantly identified myself as a homeschooler…in a homeschooling group.
I am guessing it is because we have transpeople in our society. What else would they be called?
 
Well after all of that I do have a movie suggestion for you and your “date” who should be decerning you for marriage and a future father.
How about attending a screening of the passion of the Christ. Separately.

Then end it with adoration at a local chapel. From there you can say goodnight to Jesus.
No thank you. I want to take this girl to a good movie. I don’t even believe she is Catholic. Maybe not even Christian but I am not sure. Honestly nor do I care if she is or isn’t. I like her for her. Even if we only stay friends she is awesome.

I’m questioning on my faith. I also meant my first post here on CAF.
 
I am guessing it is because we have transpeople in our society. What else would they be called?
Why do they have to be called anything? I don’t understand the constant labeling. I’d never go up to someone and say, “Hi. I’m Regina. I was born female and identify as female,” which is what these labels do. Why not just say, “Hi, I’m Regina.”
 
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