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After chatting with my husband, I have figured out the problem here, and I ask that you please read this.
I spent the first 47 years of my life as an evangelical Protestant. As many of you know, evangelical Protestants believe that each person is their own “authority.” That’s an over-simplification, of course. What they actually believe is that each person yields their life to Jesus Christ and turns over the authority or “throne of their life” to Him.
Evangelical Protestants reject the idea of a “church authority” with supreme authority. They will accept that the local pastor is the authority of the local church–EXCEPT when he is teaching something that is un-Biblical or sinful. THEN evangelical Protestants believe that we need to challenge him and possibly reject him and his church.
When an evangelical Protestant becomes a Christian, the hardest issue is the Authority Issue. I remember one of my friends said, “So you’re going to turn yourself over to Rome?”
That’s exactly what we do when we become Catholic–we abdicate ALL authority, and accept Holy Mother Church with Jesus Christ at the Head as our Supreme Authority.
And it is such a relief! Finally, we can stop being our own “pope” and let the real Pope be in charge! Finally there is a “chain of command” that Jesus instituted.
So what is happening here, folks, is that as an ex-evangelical Protestant, I have an absolute horror of taking back ANY authority to myself.
I am grateful that the Church is in charge and I want the Church to be in charge. I don’t WANT to challenge anything that the Church does. There are “people” who are charged to be on the lookout for errors and sins, and sound the alarm if need be. I am not one of those people.
I would certainly speak out against grave sin in the Church; e.g., sexual abuse. But I would do so with the greatest of care, making sure to use the proper channels.
As an evangelical Protestant, I saw many situations where someone who “knew more than the pastor” stepped up and challenged the pastor and their church on various issues. Sometimes the issues were truly serious, but more often, the issues were personal preference issues (e.g.,“Why are we using New International Bible instead of King James Version?”–yes, this is a REAL issue for some Protestants!)
And often, these issues were about church music. Funny isn’t it? You think maybe Satan is having a field day making Christians fight about music?
Many of these situations ended in splits away from the church. Even if there was no split. almost always the situations resulted in broken friendships and bitterness.
**I almost wish that every Catholic could be Protestant long enough to experience the heartbreak of a church conflict/church split. It is so devastating, so painful and hurtful. **
I’ve seen many people, including pastors, who never recover their faith after a split. Some become so bitter that they lash out against God and the Church and become enemies of Christ and Christianity. I believe that God is merciful to them because of the pain that they suffered at the hands of fellow church members.
My parents-in-law were involved in such a conflict. They ended up staying away from church for 14 years. That’s how hurt they were. They do attend now (a UMC), but they are still very cynical about church.
After our church kicked us out, my younger daughter stopped all assocation with church. It’s been almost 7 years now. She still doesn’t trust “church,” including the Catholic Church.
So you see, everyone? I CAN’T challenge my Church because to me, it would be an occasion for sin. I don’t WANT to go back to being my own judge and authority. I don’t WANT to go back to the Protestant attitude of constant “watchfulness” for “wolves” or “little foxes.”
Everyone, that’s what it feels like to me–it feels like evangelical Protestantism, where we practiced a constant alertness for any lack of “Biblicalness” that the pastor tries to pull over us–if we spot it, we’d better do our duty “to the Lord” and speak up and put a stop to it. Can I hear an “Amen,” brothers and sisters?!
Maybe as a lifelong Catholic, you feel comfortable bringing up issues to your priest or Music Director. Maybe it’s a “family thing,” and since you’ve been in the “family” for a long time, you know how to do it without creating a monstrous conflict and causing hurt and pain and a split.
In a way, I envy you. I wish I felt as comfortable in the “family” as you do. You know you’re really part of the family when you can join in the big fight around the dinner table and walk away loving each other.
But I don’t know how to do this thing.
Do you hear me? Can you possibly understand what I’m telling you? I CAN’T BE A CATHOLIC AND ACT LIKE THE FIGHTING PROTESTANT THAT I USED TO BE!
So please, please, don’t tell me to seek out wrongs, bring up issues, challenge abuses, watch out for errors. For me, this kind of activity is an occasion of sin. I don’t WANT to be in charge!!! I want to obey, only obey. I want to submit to the Authority that Jesus Christ Himself established on this earth. I trust that Jesus meant it when He said that gates of hell would not prevail against His Church. That is my peace.
Maybe when I’ve been Catholic for 47 years (I’ll be 98 years old), then I will feel right about challenging the Church authorities. But until then, let me just obey, please. You all do the challenging, OK? Then hand me whatever music you all decide is “good,” and I’ll play it.
I spent the first 47 years of my life as an evangelical Protestant. As many of you know, evangelical Protestants believe that each person is their own “authority.” That’s an over-simplification, of course. What they actually believe is that each person yields their life to Jesus Christ and turns over the authority or “throne of their life” to Him.
Evangelical Protestants reject the idea of a “church authority” with supreme authority. They will accept that the local pastor is the authority of the local church–EXCEPT when he is teaching something that is un-Biblical or sinful. THEN evangelical Protestants believe that we need to challenge him and possibly reject him and his church.
When an evangelical Protestant becomes a Christian, the hardest issue is the Authority Issue. I remember one of my friends said, “So you’re going to turn yourself over to Rome?”
That’s exactly what we do when we become Catholic–we abdicate ALL authority, and accept Holy Mother Church with Jesus Christ at the Head as our Supreme Authority.
And it is such a relief! Finally, we can stop being our own “pope” and let the real Pope be in charge! Finally there is a “chain of command” that Jesus instituted.
So what is happening here, folks, is that as an ex-evangelical Protestant, I have an absolute horror of taking back ANY authority to myself.
I am grateful that the Church is in charge and I want the Church to be in charge. I don’t WANT to challenge anything that the Church does. There are “people” who are charged to be on the lookout for errors and sins, and sound the alarm if need be. I am not one of those people.
I would certainly speak out against grave sin in the Church; e.g., sexual abuse. But I would do so with the greatest of care, making sure to use the proper channels.
As an evangelical Protestant, I saw many situations where someone who “knew more than the pastor” stepped up and challenged the pastor and their church on various issues. Sometimes the issues were truly serious, but more often, the issues were personal preference issues (e.g.,“Why are we using New International Bible instead of King James Version?”–yes, this is a REAL issue for some Protestants!)
And often, these issues were about church music. Funny isn’t it? You think maybe Satan is having a field day making Christians fight about music?
Many of these situations ended in splits away from the church. Even if there was no split. almost always the situations resulted in broken friendships and bitterness.
**I almost wish that every Catholic could be Protestant long enough to experience the heartbreak of a church conflict/church split. It is so devastating, so painful and hurtful. **
I’ve seen many people, including pastors, who never recover their faith after a split. Some become so bitter that they lash out against God and the Church and become enemies of Christ and Christianity. I believe that God is merciful to them because of the pain that they suffered at the hands of fellow church members.
My parents-in-law were involved in such a conflict. They ended up staying away from church for 14 years. That’s how hurt they were. They do attend now (a UMC), but they are still very cynical about church.
After our church kicked us out, my younger daughter stopped all assocation with church. It’s been almost 7 years now. She still doesn’t trust “church,” including the Catholic Church.
So you see, everyone? I CAN’T challenge my Church because to me, it would be an occasion for sin. I don’t WANT to go back to being my own judge and authority. I don’t WANT to go back to the Protestant attitude of constant “watchfulness” for “wolves” or “little foxes.”
Everyone, that’s what it feels like to me–it feels like evangelical Protestantism, where we practiced a constant alertness for any lack of “Biblicalness” that the pastor tries to pull over us–if we spot it, we’d better do our duty “to the Lord” and speak up and put a stop to it. Can I hear an “Amen,” brothers and sisters?!
Maybe as a lifelong Catholic, you feel comfortable bringing up issues to your priest or Music Director. Maybe it’s a “family thing,” and since you’ve been in the “family” for a long time, you know how to do it without creating a monstrous conflict and causing hurt and pain and a split.
In a way, I envy you. I wish I felt as comfortable in the “family” as you do. You know you’re really part of the family when you can join in the big fight around the dinner table and walk away loving each other.
But I don’t know how to do this thing.
Do you hear me? Can you possibly understand what I’m telling you? I CAN’T BE A CATHOLIC AND ACT LIKE THE FIGHTING PROTESTANT THAT I USED TO BE!
So please, please, don’t tell me to seek out wrongs, bring up issues, challenge abuses, watch out for errors. For me, this kind of activity is an occasion of sin. I don’t WANT to be in charge!!! I want to obey, only obey. I want to submit to the Authority that Jesus Christ Himself established on this earth. I trust that Jesus meant it when He said that gates of hell would not prevail against His Church. That is my peace.
Maybe when I’ve been Catholic for 47 years (I’ll be 98 years old), then I will feel right about challenging the Church authorities. But until then, let me just obey, please. You all do the challenging, OK? Then hand me whatever music you all decide is “good,” and I’ll play it.