I should have known I would have gotten jumped here.
Yes, I am very aware of the rules…no need to be patronizing.
First off, I was not referring to the “performance” aspect of classical music. I was referring to the fact that less opportunity for participation at a wedding (no matter what kind of music) leads to this idea that we come to watch it, instead of participate and pray.
Please read the rules again…the whole first paragraph is dedicated to the fact of why the Communion song should be sung. It says if there is no singing (referring to the fact that there are no music ministers), then you must recite the communion antiphon.
My 3 suggestions may not be favs of people here, but again, I reiterate, they are all VERY scripturally based. We are one body being a theme song for world youth day…the JPII even stating that was his fav.
Please understand…I am in the trenches…over 35 weddings a year. The classical music realm of “canon in D” and “trumpet voluntary” makes me want to lose my hearing. It is so cliche, and only promoted by T.v. versions of weddings. (never mind the disgusting “here comes the bride”). In every wedding I play, I reiterate…EVERY SINGLE wedding I play, the more you can make everything possible congregational that has the option, you should. This is from real lived experience. When this is done, the Mass takes on a different light…it gives the people at Mass at least a chance to pray. Most serious practicing Catholics don’t need these things to pray for the couple and to pray the Mass, of course not. But every wedding I have played, it gives the hope and more likeliness that the prayer will happen. Even Catholics forget when to sit and stand at a wedding. It’s terribly sad. They go to a “Show” to watch it happen.
From the constition of the sacred liturgy:
*II. The Promotion of Liturgical Instruction and Active Participation
- Mother Church earnestly desires that all the faithful should be led to that fully conscious, and active participation in liturgical celebrations which is demanded by the very nature of the liturgy. Such participation by the Christian people as "a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a redeemed people (1 Pet. 2:9; cf. 2:4-5), is their right and duty by reason of their baptism.
In the restoration and promotion of the sacred liturgy, this full and
active participation by all the people is the aim to be considered before all else; for it is the primary and indispensable source from which the faithful are to derive the true Christian spirit; and therefore pastors of souls must zealously strive to achieve it, by means of the necessary instruction, in all their pastoral work.*
It seems that most if not all brides have this “classical” mindset of their wedding. I challenge that idea. I said before, a couple times a year, I play the procession with people singing the entrance song…one time is was “all creatures of our God and king”…everyone singing…it was so beautiful.