You do not know the people I was speaking of, whom I know very well and know very well why they wouldn’t like that particular piece of music or other songs, or other subjects in general. I was not making an implication because I know their situations much more than you do. I’m not going to spell out what happened to them or to myself which would have made us be that way either now or at one time, since my initial explanation did not satisfy. This is not the thread or the place to do that, nor would I want to share that about those people or myself.
For the quote below which you are focusing on:
It could be read a few different ways - I will give you that - after reading it again. You understood it one way, which was not how I meant it to come across. You chose to look at it in a way that I would not have read it based on my own experiences, and if you wish to read it in that fashion, then that is fine and is best for you. We all have our own experiences which influences us in how we interpret or do anything, including reading into others’ words in different ways, depending on how we were all treated through our lives.
Since we can’t sit face to face and really know each other to truly understand where each of us is coming from, it’s sometimes difficult for any of us to see what we meant with the written word. It’s so easy to misinterpret. I have a tendency to read other people’s posts with a gentle voice in my head (unless it’s blatantly nasty and cruel), and try to see where they are coming from. That might have been due to the communications courses I took in university and saw how easily people misinterpret the written word, and also how I was raised to try to be understanding and sympathetic, so I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, as I am giving you the benefit of the doubt. Although I admit I have at times taken things the wrong way or have become frustrated with cruel posts. We’re all human.
Anyway, I said what I had to say and believe I explained myself fully. I do not wish to further derail this thread. If you still feel the need to continue, please take it off this thread and pm me. Otherwise, I think it can be let go.
God bless.