So, he had no issue taking her for a wife?
See, I have an issue with that. I would not marry the ex of a co-worker, family member, or friend. It is not acceptable to me.
And I was not saying that Muhammed was a Gold-digger, but I think you knew that.
Would the wife of Muhammed not have prestege? Power? Did he live in a shack and have nothing of his own at that time in his life?
Why was she not happy that Zaid was not a slave anymore?
I have just gone through the Hadith posted by inJESUS in the earlier page about Mohammad’s love affair with his son’s wife Zaynab and the other about Mohammad’s rights. Wow, you can make a movie out of them and it will be a hit which would even make Dallas or Dynasty rather mild in comparison.
One thing I can say for Mohammad, if at all the Hadith is true, is that he was quite a guy - where many men would like to be in his shoes. It seems he would just practically need to snap his fingers to have a woman. Oh, what a guy!
I noted that he died after being poisoned (by a woman). With all the intrigues and the wives grabbing, it should not be any real surprise. Someone said it was poetic justice that a woman should done him in.
Seriously, one does not have to be a genius to see what was going on. It does not matter that Mohammad did not marry Zaynab in the first place. He might or might not have the intention or desire for her but the way people see thing can change with time and situation. Obviously he HAD a desire for this woman. Looking at how absolute was his authority with the clan and how lowly was this Zaid vis-a-vis to him, there is no way that Zaid would not succumb to his wishes even if it was only implied. And so that how it went, Mohammad got his prize! At one stage Mohammad just say the word yes and someone got assassinated for ridiculing him in a poem.
But goodness, we are talking about someone who was supposed to be a prophet; someone who should take the high moral ground because God is perfect and He wants us to be perfect. Sure Mohammad was mere human and therefore capable of falling, but even if he did, a true prophet would recognize his sin and his next course of action should be of deep repentance.
Not for Mohammad - a reason that makes it really hard for me to be convinced that this man was a man of God. Maybe I need more convincing or maybe there is other information about Mohammad that mitigated his already soiled standing in my mind for me to be convinced that this was the right person - the messenger of God. But not until then or not at all.
I am sure intelligent Muslims recognized Mohammad’s liabilities as a prophet which are quite tough to defend. If the character of their prophet is being questioned and rightly so, shouldn’t that in a small way leads to defensiveness and ultimately, inferiority complex, as the title of this thread suggests?