Muslim women granted rights centuries b4 west..

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sainted:
By Meedo

Who is brainwashing these girls? It’s out of their own right they do this - not that I like their way of exercising this right. But you make it sound like, we have a similar kind of warehouse where we infiltrate their minds in doing such acts

Peace
Sure we do. The entire society is “such a warehouse.” Teen culture is the biggest brainwasher out there, and it’s largely a creation of marketers.

That being said, it can’t be denied that in most respects Christian women today are treated with far more equality than Muslim women. One of the fascinating (and depressing) things about Islam is how it seemed to have so much promise, but Christianity has outstripped it (viewed from the point of view of human rights, democracy, etc.) In many ways medieval Islam did look a lot more “progressive” (for what that term is worth, which may not be much) than medieval Christianity. But Christian feudal communalism gave birth to human rights and democracy; Islamic egalitarianism gave way to arbitrary military rule, and now has given rise to viciously violent forms of militancy. Christian women did have fewer rights than Islamic women, but they were also regarded as fellow-members of Christ’s body, and marriage was seen as a mirror of Christ’s union with the Church. This, in the end, gave rise to far more equality for women than they ever achieved in Islam. It’s paradoxical. But this is the way the story has turned out, at least so far.

Edwin
 
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Faith101:
lol, that bolded quote made me laugh. Which country do you live in…please oh pretty please dont say the USA.
By Black night
Well, I suppose he might be in Sudan, or Nigeria, or Albania, or Chechnya
What is wrong with you people? You are just like meedo steering the topic everywhere as always. Btw you totally missed it again I didn’t make that out in bold. I made out in bold the words of Christ.

Why do you want to know where I come from? Does it answer the question here? You are all wrong. Funny that Black Night seems to think I’m from a moslem country which are by no way peaceful.

I’ll leave you guessing until you address the issue here not making funny comments on something unimportant and off-topic.

Some hints about my country: Go far far east towards the dessert of water. Its northen borders is a reservoir which empties into the desert of water.
 
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sainted:
What is wrong with you people? You are just like meedo steering the topic everywhere as always.
No kidding.:rolleyes:
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sainted:
Why do you want to know where I come from? Does it answer the question here? You are all wrong. Funny that Black Night seems to think I’m from a moslem country which are by no way peaceful.
I *know *that they’re not at all peaceful. That’s why I mentioned them. I thought Faith101’s comment deserved a sarcastic response.
 
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notaprophet:
I think I’ve come to the right place to get some insight on this.

I have a muslim friend who’s always trying to direct our conversations to his faith and all that even though he knows I’m a strict catholic. I can also see that he is strict to his faith and at the same time I think he honors the suicidal missions.

After many refussals he still wanted to give me a brochure about Muhammad as I told him I’ve already heard of him many times. Finally I agreed out of being polite.

Right from the cover page I read things that don’t seem right and the more I read on the more I discover things I haven’t heard before. Out of many things I disagree with this one really is mindboggling,

Is this true because the way I see it is that Muslim women rarely have any rights at all?
You can read it on this one below. Check out the parable about himself. I’ve never heard of it before even from the book of parables. text deleted wamy supposedly stands for ‘world assembly of muslim youth.’

www.wamy.co.uk/bd_m.htm

Thankyou for sharing with me on this topic.
So why did these rights suddenly evaporate in the modern Islamic world?

StMarkEofE
 
Any country that is not fully developed have problems with women rights and stuff like that . We here in Egypt have been pushing to include the law of women initiating a devorce " Khulu" By which is Islamic law that enables the woman to have a devorce any time she wants and the husband cant force her to stay , in return she gives him back his dowry that he paid her .

Guess what !!! The SECULARgovernment that we have been under really gave us conservative muslims very very hard time. Nut Alhamdulilah we passed it after years and years of fighting . All women in our country get education same as men . My sister have mroe education than i do actually and i am prowd of her. she is in process of her masters now . I only have a BA .

There is alot of myth and generalisation about the treatement of muslim women .

Get your info first hand from a muslim lady and dont listen top hate speach .

Peace
 
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meedo:
Any country that is not fully developed have problems with women rights and stuff like that . We here in Egypt have been pushing to include the law of women initiating a devorce " Khulu" By which is Islamic law that enables the woman to have a devorce any time she wants and the husband cant force her to stay , in return she gives him back his dowry that he paid her .

Guess what !!! The SECULAR] government that we have been under really gave us conservative muslims very very hard time. Nut Alhamdulilah we passed it after years and years of fighting . All women in our country get education same as men . My sister have mroe education than i do actually and i am prowd of her. she is in process of her masters now . I only have a BA .

There is alot of myth and generalisation about the treatement of muslim women .

Get your info first hand from a muslim lady and dont listen top hate speach .

Peace

Are Saudi Arabian women not Muslims? if they are Muslims, then the Title of this thread is wrong.

In Christ,
selvaraj
 
Why is that relevant? The question is about what happened centuries ago, not about what is happening now.

Or are you so trapped in modern secular ideas of progress that you can’t accept the possibility that the position of Muslim women might have deteriorated? (It has certainly deteriorated relatively speaking with regard to the West. I don’t know if Saudi Arabian women have fewer rights than women under, say, the Abbasid regime. But I wouldn’t be surprised if they did.)

Edwin
 
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Viajero:
Does Megawati Sukarnoputri count? She was President of Indonesia from 2001 to 2004.
For this quote and others mentioned on this forum by our Muslim friends, yes, there are few Muslim women that succeeded in being recognized. However and for someone like me who come from the Middle East, studied Arab/Islamic history, read the Quran, and lived in the middle of the Muslim sea, I can tell you that these are nothing but few small pulses in the history of Islam – the huge and vast majority are different.

As for “Muslim women granted rights centuries b4 west…” and with all due respect, you are biased and you don’t know history, including Islam’s history. Christ, the most “feminist” of all, that existed and ever to come, taught the equality and right of all human beings, starting with females and males – the West progressed and grew from Christ’s tradition.

How Muslim women are treated? Well, let’s look at one of the many “women treatment” as quoted by the Quran: “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has given the one more strength than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in, the husband’s absence, what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part you fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them, do not share their beds, beat them; but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means: for Allah is Most High, Great.

Someone will say, yes however, there are strict guidelines and strict qualifiers to interpret such verses. Well, having seen first hand the treatment of Muslim women in the Middle East, I say bull. In addition, have a look at this sample that came today in the Toronto Globe and Mail, and please don’t tell me this is an isolated incident: A Muslim Woman’s sharia ordeal

By MARINA JIMÉNEZ
Thursday, September 8, 2005 Updated at 4:53 AM EDT
From Thursday’s Globe and Mail

For months, a Muslim woman living in Toronto tried to wring a divorce out of her local imam.

Under sharia law, her husband had to consent to the divorce-- even though he had abandoned the family four years earlier and married another woman in a South Asian country where polygamy is legal.

The imam told her that her spouse wanted $100,000 and all her gold jewellery, she said, asking that her identity not be disclosed because she fears retribution from her ex-husband, the imam and her community.

She managed to bargain him down to $5,000, money she had to borrow. She also agreed to give up all child-support payments and alimony, and not to take legal action against him in the future.
Without his consent, she could not remarry within her religion.
“The imam told me, ‘there are some sharia conditions you must follow, we must come to a settlement within sharia.’ I agreed because I was desperate,” said the woman, 29, who uses the pseudonym Shinaz.

“If the mullah, our religious leader, didn’t grant the divorce, then under sharia I would have lost custody of my son when he turned eight. Also, I could not remarry.”

Canadian legal safeguards and training for imams cannot change this, she says, pointing out that her imam doesn’t speak fluent English and has little knowledge of Canadian Charter rights.
“Women in Ontario should definitely not have to rely on sharia and mullahs and imams to resolve family disputes. People have to know what is going on,” she said.
When the imam finally signed the talaq, divorce, in their community mosque, she felt nothing but anger and betrayal.
“I was so angry at the way I was treated, that this happens in a country like Canada. We come here to get better treatment,” she said.

“A lot of women in the community are in my situation. My friend agreed to give up her boy to her ex-husband when he turns eight just so she could get a religious divorce.”
At stake is the right for women to be treated justly and equitably, says Homa Arjomand, an Iranian immigrant who is co-ordinating the International Campaign against Sharia Court in Ontario.
Ms. Arjomand works as a counsellor for a Toronto agency and says more than 120 Muslim women have come to her so far this year, many of whom are fleeing abusive marriages and physical assault.
“Canadians think, this is your culture, you deal with it. But it is the government’s duty to protect the vulnerable, including women and children,” she said.
“I did notice in his country that women were treated as second-class citizens. He went out a lot but didn’t say where he was going. But I thought, when we get to Canada, he will change,” she says. “This was the first man I had ever been with.”

](I had to cut the article to fit to size – good information lost)
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“For this quote and others mentioned on this forum by our Muslim friends, yes, there are few Muslim women that succeeded in being recognized. However and for someone like me who come from the Middle East, studied Arab/Islamic history, read the Quran, and lived in the middle of the Muslim sea, I can tell you that these are nothing but few small pulses in the history of Islam – the huge and vast majority are different.”"

In your post there is no reference to the fruits of your experience in the middle east . Nor the fruits of your Islamic history or Quranic studies. Can you share with us the secrets that you have discovered.? Thanks

“As for “Muslim women granted rights centuries b4 west…” and with all due respect, you are biased and you don’t know history, including Islam’s history.”

Well obviously you are biased too. At least from my opinion. Can u shed some light on MY history please?

“Christ, the most “feminist” of all, that existed and ever to come, taught the equality and right of all human beings, starting with females and males – the West progressed and grew from Christ’s tradition.”"

This above statement is very controversial . Even among christians themselves. There have been burning of scientists as heretics for Gods sake!! Women were not allowed to Inherit at all!!! All Inheritance would go to the elder son . The western reformation began with secularism . There is a part of christian history called the Dark ages. These ages were full of papal authority. Your above statement makes alot of what you say questionable.

“How Muslim women are treated? Well, let’s look at one of the many “women treatment” as quoted by the Quran: “ As to those women on whose part you fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them, do not share their beds, beat them; but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means: for Allah is Most High, Great.”"

I dont see any problem with the above verse you Quoted.

Muslims are instructed in Many hadeeth that the word beating doesnt mean severe beating as you think in abuse and we are forbidden to beat any body in the face. Ofcourse this is in case only if other ways of descipline doesnt work like advicing her and not bieng intemate with her in bed. This is not a beating with the intent of harm. This is a beating with the intent of dicipline. Sometimes its needed.

“” having seen first hand the treatment of Muslim women in the Middle East, I say bull. “”

Man , i have counselled many friends of mine that had experience of Father - daughter rape and abuse ( two females i know that are reverts to Islam . Two were raped by their fathers and one abused to death nearky until she almost had brain damage ) , Husband rape and abuse and everything you can imagine all from my friends in the bible belt in america. All of them females !!! I never ever thought i would associate this with Christianity . Women abuse happen every where in the world when there is ignorance and poverty and disease.

Hmm i am sorry but again , what was exactly your experiences .?

The muslim women sharia ordeal comes for the non application of sharia. Excuse me sir , i have an aquaintance of mine that her husband left and didnt come back . She got her devorce six month after she filed for it . he Only left for six month before that .

Plus sir, there is somthing in islam called Khulu were women would simply just decides that she cant live with this man without giving any valid reasons and asks the Judge to devorce her and the Hiusband is forced to devorce her.

THIS IS SHARIA !!!

Thank God we have been fighting for application of sharia in Egypt in order for women to get MORE rights and thank god the secular courts applied the KHULU . Now its easy as a peace of cake to get your devorce when sharia was applied.

islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503545140

The woman pays back whatever he gave her as dowry and he is obliged bythe Judge to devorce her , if he doesnt tthe Judge devorces her. This is very common in Egypt here . The article above doesnt say weather the money she paid had been already paid to her before as dowry . Also the article doesnt say that there is somthing in Islam called " devorce for Harm " That means that you are harmed by your husband , liuke in this case where he had gone away and never showed up. This is different from Khulu. In devorce for harm she doesnt have to pay anything at all , in fact HE will hav e to pay her all her rights including alimoney and child support and the rest of the Dowry . One of my relatives here had gone through devorce and he had to pay his wife huge sums . It was devroce for harm .

May be because they dont have proper Sharia courts in canada that these Ignorant Mullahs control stuff.

Peace
 
Sir,

You mentioned many things that are incorrect and not related to the topic of the forum – please better learn your history and the history of Christianity, and stick only to the facts.

Facts from the Quran which teaches male superiority forthrightly, such as:
•* “women shall with justice have right similar to those exercised against them, although men have a status above women” Sura 2:228;*

• “men have authority over women because Allah has made the one superior to the other and because they spend their wealth to maintain them” Sura 4:34;

Or, Aisha, the most beloved of Muhammed’s many wives, admonished women by saying: “O women folk, if you knew the rights that your husbands have over you, every one of you would wipe the dust from her husband’s feet with her face”wow, such a lovely and equality promoting image.
You say “Man , i have counselled many friends of mine that had experience of Father - daughter rape and abuse ( two females i know that are reverts to Islam . Two were raped by their fathers and one abused to death nearky until she almost had brain damage ) , Husband rape and abuse and everything you can imagine all from my friends in the bible belt in america. All of them females !!! I never ever thought i would associate this with Christianity . Women abuse happen every where in the world when there is ignorance and poverty and disease.” ---- this is the result of human weaknesses and not the teachings of Christ or the Holy Bible. While this is the case, the above quotes and many similar others, regarding women and their treatment, are written in your Muslim scripture: which really says that your Allah made one (males) superior to the other (females). This, as you know from the 99 names of Allah with “The Just” as one name, is a total contradiction – go figure!!

In addition to the above, I like to give another sample that was sent by a female acquaintance, Kuala Lumpour, addressed to the Premier of Ontario:

Subject: that idiot Dalton
Sent a little note off to my least favourite premier…when I read the globe & mail this morning.​

I am absolutely horrified to learn that in your infinite ignorance, you think it would be a wise and judicious thing to bring shariah laws into Ontario. Let me tell you something Mr. McGuinty, I am a woman who has lived in a muslim country and in no way shape or form does a muslim woman’s right get protected or held as equal. The shariah laws are ancient and were there to serve ancient times, not modern. For you to STEAL the equal rights of women by forcing them to be judged under a lesser set of rules, takes women back before suffrage times and takes Canada and Ontario away from being a modern and progressed nation. You have made some poor decisions in your tenure, decisions that have so adversely affected the welfare and financial status of Ontarians, but this time you have taken it far too far. Before you do something to affect so many people’s rights and freedoms, get on a plane and go live in a muslim country. Go see how the people are treated and what the women’s rights are. Read their local newspapers and understand what it is. To make decisions based on partial information will be disastrous to all concerned. Please consider this information as intelligence Mr. McGuinty and act accordingly.
Sincerely;
As for your saying “This is a beating with the intent of dicipline. Sometimes its needed.” Would your wife be given equal rights and be allowed to “discipline” you when you need it? – definitely not, she is a female!!!

With your quotes above, I believe you are entrenched in “religious blindness” and so, I hope and I pray that God Almighty will enlighten your mind and the minds of us all so we, as human beings and as taught by Christ, will treat each other equally and see His glory.

I will pray for you.
 
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