Not really sure what else to be/do other than the job at this point. At 40 and 3/4’s, not too many options for marrying and having a family. Options basically limited to people with mental health “issues;” people who couldn’t maintain a relationship if their life depended on it; people who became widowed/divorced with enough kids to start a small orphanage; or people, who as one person put it in regard to the City of Detroit, are so ugly that if they were a battlefield, ordinance would refuse to land on it.
As far as church stuff goes, work really interweaves with it at times. I can’t explain more. Might wind up joining another parish instead. Not sure how that works, as the next nearest one is in a completely different diocese. Whether I’d want to drive ~25 miles in bad weather for church is another story.
Simply stated, I don’t think that anybody would ever mistake me for Christ.