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This is another one of the tragedies of abortion, when the father of the baby has no say in what happens to the child. I am really sorry to hear about your situation, I’ll pray for you, that your girlfriend will change her mind and let you be a part of the decision, and that she won’t choose the abortion option.hello all.
first of all i would like to say that im am a 20 year old athiest. i was brought up a jehovas wittnes and have since turned away from it. i do have a very important point to make. to some ppl abortion is ok. Have they just had their baby murdered for no reason? i doubt very much.
basically i was with my girlfriend of 5 months and things were great. we decided to have a child together and how happy i was when she fell pregnant. short lived happiness. all of a sudden she doesnt want our child anymore and spits up with me and leaves me with nothing. today i recieved a phonecall from her teling me its done. my childs gone. for the last 2 weeks i have held onto the hope that she will change her mind but no. she has no remorse or sympathy whatsoever about it and i am left distroat and friendless as i have had to move 2 my dads. what i dont understand is how all the arguements for and against are all to do with the women or morals. what about men like me who wanted that child. the fact that we cant even fight for our own kids lives is disgusting. to be honest i dont even find it an arguement. its pathetic people getting away with murder versus people that are right. there is no inbetween. whatever your circumstances are. you still dont have the right to deny the human being growing inside you a life.
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I’m sorry you find yourself in this situation, and will pray for you.what about men like me who wanted that child. the fact that we cant even fight for our own kids lives is disgusting.
Its the worst thing that can happen to a parent. Loosing a child is not the natural law of things. Born or unborn it make no difference. I really don’t know what to tell you except be very careful next time. Marriage has some advantages. If you were married you would have had some secular legal help. This women will feel her guilt and she will of course have to answer for it. As far as You are concern be very aware of what you are getting into the next time. You should talk with a member of the clergy. Being a former JW you should pray about it and ask God to ease your sorrow and help you become the Christian man that he wants you to be. Only he can heal your heartache.hello all.
first of all i would like to say that im am a 20 year old athiest. i was brought up a jehovas wittnes and have since turned away from it. i do have a very important point to make. to some ppl abortion is ok. Have they just had their baby murdered for no reason? i doubt very much.
basically i was with my girlfriend of 5 months and things were great. we decided to have a child together and how happy i was when she fell pregnant. short lived happiness. all of a sudden she doesnt want our child anymore and spits up with me and leaves me with nothing. today i recieved a phonecall from her teling me its done. my childs gone. for the last 2 weeks i have held onto the hope that she will change her mind but no. she has no remorse or sympathy whatsoever about it and i am left distroat and friendless as i have had to move 2 my dads. what i dont understand is how all the arguements for and against are all to do with the women or morals. what about men like me who wanted that child. the fact that we cant even fight for our own kids lives is disgusting. to be honest i dont even find it an arguement. its pathetic people getting away with murder versus people that are right. there is no inbetween. whatever your circumstances are. you still dont have the right to deny the human being growing inside you a life.
sorry if ther is any spelling mistakes. im finding it hard
tino,hello all.
first of all i would like to say that im am a 20 year old athiest. i was brought up a jehovas wittnes and have since turned away from it. i do have a very important point to make. to some ppl abortion is ok. Have they just had their baby murdered for no reason? i doubt very much.
basically i was with my girlfriend of 5 months and things were great. we decided to have a child together and how happy i was when she fell pregnant. short lived happiness. all of a sudden she doesnt want our child anymore and spits up with me and leaves me with nothing. today i recieved a phonecall from her teling me its done. my childs gone. for the last 2 weeks i have held onto the hope that she will change her mind but no. she has no remorse or sympathy whatsoever about it and i am left distroat and friendless as i have had to move 2 my dads. what i dont understand is how all the arguements for and against are all to do with the women or morals. what about men like me who wanted that child. the fact that we cant even fight for our own kids lives is disgusting. to be honest i dont even find it an arguement. its pathetic people getting away with murder versus people that are right. there is no inbetween. whatever your circumstances are. you still dont have the right to deny the human being growing inside you a life.
sorry if ther is any spelling mistakes. im finding it hard