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CatholicofAgora
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An amazing friend of mine carries a very heavy burden: She’s nineteen and has to care for her ill father all on her own. It really tears me up because she loves God but says she can’t feel his presence 90% of the time. I know she feels like she’s drowning; I wish that I knew something I could say or do for her to make her feel better. What makes that difficult is that she is so enlightened, meaning there’s very little that I could say spiritually that she doesn’t already know. She walks the walk and talks the talk. I literally started by saying “well just because you can’t feel his presence doesn’t mean that he’s not with you, because I can definitely tell he’s with you” but she said “yeah, I know. His presence doesn’t depend on how I feel, he’s there whether I can feel him or not.” I’ve been searching the Imitation of Christ by Thomas A. Kempis to see if there were something in there that could help me, the Bible, but I don’t really know what would be great to offer her. I just wish there were something I could say to lift up her spirits in the face of daily suffering. She’s incredibly enlightened spiritually, I just wish she didn’t have all this stress bogging her down. She is literally the most saintly person I’ve ever met in my life; she’s incredibly humble and compassionate. If there’s anyone who deserves happiness in their lives, it’s her. Please pray for my awesome friend…