That the trinity exists at all, is an assumption.
Read post #14. I never said the Trinity exists or that God exists. I believe God neither exists nor nonexists. God is beyond the categories of existence and nonexistence.
In informal speech I may say otherwise, but speaking philosophically, that is what I would say. Again read post #14.
Nope, won’t work. A desire to believe something does not mean there is anything “out there” pulling us toward it.
You are using your intellect when you should be using your heart as well. You should trust your heart as much as you trust your intellect. But if you start with the assumption that only your intellect is to be trusted and set yourself up in a way that that assumption cannot be falsified – neither by your intellect nor by your heart – then of course there’s no way for me to convince you to trust and use your heart.
You see your way of life, of being is not science. It is not falsifiable. Why trust only your intellect? Your heart is as much a part of you as your intellect is. Your heart is as much a product of evolution as your intellect is.
And how would that operating assumption be falsifiable? Since you won’t accept it being falsified by your heart (ex hypothesis), for it to be falsified it would have to be falsified by your intellect. But if the source of your truth is your intellect alone then any falsification of the sole reliance on that source would undermine the strength of that source as a sole source of truth (and note all your experimental data would be mediated through your intellect). So you would have in philosophical verbiage a vicious circle of epistemic defeat.
A desire, is nothing more than simply that. A desire. A desire to believe, does not make God real, so that argument, if I’m understanding it correctly won’t ever work with an athiest.
There you go again.
You are using your intellect to evaluate what I am saying instead of using your heart. Let what I am saying speak to your heart not your intellect.
When someone listens to o say Beethoven’s 9th Symphony, they feel in their heart, beauty. And they know in their heart that beauty is present. They need not reason intellectually that beauty exists or scrutinize how beauty can be ontologically grounded in mathematical patterns in sound waves interpreted by the brain. They need only feel, not think. There’s more than one way to know, to be. When someone is in love, it is felt in the heart, known in the heart, not reasoned in the mind and known in the mind – not first anyway; the heart there comes first and the mind follows in unison. But you want to have your mind be the king and have your heart tag along or who knows what.
Why don’t people spend a bit more time trying to understand athiests, instead of trying to change them?
I believe that’s a good idea. But at the same token, I don’t see why you found what I posted offensive or why you should be afraid of change or people trying to change you. People try to change me all the time. Sometimes women ask me out, not often, but it happens

Sometimes I say no. It doesn’t harm me in anyway those times I say no. I don’t see what the big deal is.
But I agree with your, if you will, spirit that we should listen to each other. And what I am proposing is that we listen not just with our intellects but also with our hearts. The same we do with symphonies. Let our hearts freely roam and let our intellects catch up with them. Let our hearts feel God and let our intellects leave the question of whether it is real aside (if you are atheist) and just go with it. In time you can with your intellect reflect and try to make sense with it. The human intellect is not guaranteed to understand everything about man’s self. Maybe your heart has things to offer to you beyond your intellect’s grasp. We don’t know. We should be, live with our whole selves and let all our parts run wild. Don’t restrain your heart with your intellect nor restrain your intellect with your heart. As we journey, they will become more in tune and in harmony. One need not have all the answers or the answer right away before we feel, think, and do.