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drummergirl2
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Hi
I am 46 years old. Grew up Catholic, went to Catholic grade school, High School, College and worked at a convent. My parents are in their late 70’s. I went to visit them and my dad can be very antagnoistic and judgemental. Long story short, I am pre-menoposal so my hormones were ragging and usually I don’t say anything when he makes a comment. However, he was making several inappropriate comments and when he said in his opinion I was too easy going I lost control and called him an *** Hole. He got really upset and threatened to call the cops on my for calling him that and left me in the rain and I had to take a cab home. Anyways, I called him that night and apologized. I’ve called every week since and this happen in February and he won’t talk to me. I’ve sent apology emails and cards. My mom told me to talk to a priest so here I am. I know there’s nothing else I can do and he’s said mean things to me but since I used a swear word and my parents don’t swear very often he’s not talking to me. I never said anything else mean and he has but I don’t let it bother me. Everyone I talk to says in their family they fight or call each other names and then they make up. I’m not sure why he’s not willing to forgive me for one indiscreation doesn’t really seem christian like or father like.
Thanks
I am 46 years old. Grew up Catholic, went to Catholic grade school, High School, College and worked at a convent. My parents are in their late 70’s. I went to visit them and my dad can be very antagnoistic and judgemental. Long story short, I am pre-menoposal so my hormones were ragging and usually I don’t say anything when he makes a comment. However, he was making several inappropriate comments and when he said in his opinion I was too easy going I lost control and called him an *** Hole. He got really upset and threatened to call the cops on my for calling him that and left me in the rain and I had to take a cab home. Anyways, I called him that night and apologized. I’ve called every week since and this happen in February and he won’t talk to me. I’ve sent apology emails and cards. My mom told me to talk to a priest so here I am. I know there’s nothing else I can do and he’s said mean things to me but since I used a swear word and my parents don’t swear very often he’s not talking to me. I never said anything else mean and he has but I don’t let it bother me. Everyone I talk to says in their family they fight or call each other names and then they make up. I’m not sure why he’s not willing to forgive me for one indiscreation doesn’t really seem christian like or father like.
Thanks