bonica:
I don’t think she is really into Satanism. I know she has been involved in Wicca/Paganism in the past but she says she was born a witch, that her mom is a witch…of course this is all news to me (and I’ve known her for over 15 years). She says she was a queen in a past life. I think she’s been into drugs. She talks about astral planing. To top it all off she is bi-polar…She is of the opinion that it doesn’t really matter what anyone says, that this is who she was born as.
Boy, oh, boy. It sounds as if it is the “knowing things about me that only my husband knows” is what has you concerned. Otherwise, it would be fair to wonder if what you hear from her isn’t just a combination of drugs and a mental disorder talking. You might easily discount much likelihood that any of it is coming from a spiritual direction.
It is possible that a great deal of what she is saying IS the drugs and the mental illness talking. As for the things that only you and your husband know…well, she has known you for 15 years. She may know much more about you than you think, and by entirely natural means. Whether she is formally “into” Satanism or not, those who know about Wicca and who have posted here have pretty much confirmed that she’s not on Planet Wicca. In other words, you describe a very vulnerable person who is placing herself open to nearly any influence on the mental or spiritual plane that happens to fly by. She is in such danger.
By all means avail yourself of the sacraments, sacramentals, and the intercession of the saints, but take care that you yourself do not fall into superstition. The difference is whether you are placing your trust in God or in a ritual or an object. In the latter cases, you play into the hands of evil. If you put your trust in God, on the other hand, and tune your ear to His promptings, you need not be afraid. These other things are meant to be instruments to that end. He will call you out of harm’s way if need be, and if He calls you away from her, He will not leave her abandoned. Get used to the idea that the help she needs may come, but not come directly from you.
If she is bi-polar and into drugs, however, she may not be overrun with friends who are on a sound mental footing, let alone a sound spiritual one. If you are called to it, do not be afraid to stay by her side and treat her as one of the poorest of the poor. Love the Christ within her, and you will not be led into participating in her ruin or yours. And of course, pray, pray, pray, and seek wise council often, because that is the majority of what I mean by “listen.” You will be in my prayers, too.