It is not for us to assess her merits or speculate on God’s judgement, so please do not fret over that. Rely on God’s great mercy, and pray.
If you are able to be present at her bedside, pray familiar prayers aloud with her (Our Father, Hail Mary… keep it simple, and no fretting!). She cannot speak but perhaps can follow along. That might be the greatest gift you can give her at this time. Perhaps also read something from one of the more hopeful Gospel passages or Psalms about God’s love and protection.
If you are not able to be with her, let us pray:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name;
thy kingdom come;
thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Amen
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee;
blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
Glory be to the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit;
as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen.